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This is a update on my friend.

She managed to get away from her husband yesterday and run to a neighbor's to get help. She was at work today. She has left him and took her two young kids with her. She needs a place to live, and a car as he took her car. Need to have that control over her. I told her today that I was worried about her. I said I didn't want her to end up like my other friend. There are a lot of things she needs to do but she took the 1st step. Leaving him. I don't trust him for anything. She was telling me today that he kept telling her he would change. I said how long as he been telling you this? How many years? For way to many. I said he won't change until it is too late. I have been there. I know what is it like. It is hard to leave.

I don't know how my other blog got to where people were fighting. That isn't way it was posted. It is about abuse.

I also need to say my friend that was killed by her ex tried to get a restraining order but our police debt wouldn't give her or her daughter one. Why? Because they said they had no proof that he would harm her. By the way that was not his daughter. She had her from a previous marriage. The big shot cop here said on tv that a peice of paper wouldn't of stopped him anyway.

My friend needs moral support from her family and friend's to make sure she keeps him away.

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NightOfOld

Jun 25 @ 8:28PM  

That is Great. But she must follow through by getting a restraining order.
Ewe_Wish

Jun 25 @ 8:33PM  
The big shot cop here said on tv that a peice of paper wouldn't of stopped him anyway.

Sadly he was saying the truth, an abuser don't care if there is a piece of paper saying he can't go near her........obviously he is not worried about breaking the law if he beats her.........................but I think any woman leaving her abuser should get one............just in case at some point they go to court for something, its already in place.............sadly it usually ends up with a woman being killed or beaten again.

I am glad you friend left him, we can only hope and pray she keeps with her convictions and stay away from him and doesn't go back to him.
Sunshine79

Jun 25 @ 8:33PM  
Hope all the best for her!
PinkToeNails

Jun 25 @ 8:35PM  
sometimes that piece of paper can tend to infuriate someone .... I hope the best for your friend.... and hope she can find some peace and happiness soon... and that he'll just leave her the hell alone!!!
I'm so glad she has you caring about her!



Just be there!
DarkKnightWalking

Jun 25 @ 8:57PM  
I deeply hope that she gets away and makes a new life. I hadn't commented before, but after moving my own mother away from an abuser 4 times only to see her go right back, then in later years allow one I personally put in the hospital for beating her move back in...it's a very sore point.

All my best wishes for her, though.
theSkwirl

Jun 25 @ 11:45PM  
I hope she makes it!!!!
Blueyesprkln

Jun 26 @ 12:34AM  
I've been where she is, and I wish her all the luck in the world to stay away from him and never go back, but know that she probably will. I hope she gets a restraining order, but it probably won't do any good. In fact, as others have said, it will probably just piss him off and make him come after her. It did in my case.
shewolf53

Jun 26 @ 12:49AM  
Tell her to go to a shelter for abused women and children. They have security there and will handle him if he shows up.
tassie1

Jun 26 @ 3:57AM  
hopefully she won't give in and go back.
why do some guys treat women more like property than human beings.
I wish your friend all the best Aly,a close friend of our got killed a few yrs ago , similar situation, they split,he decided if he couldn't have her no-one could and stabbed her repeatedly with an ex-army bayonet
she was only in her mid 20's, cple of lil kids, and a wonderful young lady, her parents got a life sentance of heart-ache and sorrow, her killer got 10 yrs,big deal

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