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What would your sex life look like if there were no consequences?

posted 6/18/2009 11:15:49 AM |
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  dmbchick420

This is a hypothetical exercise to see how sexually restrictive you find the world you live in.

With the way you are now, what would be your ideal scenario or fantasy if all restrictions were taken off the way adults could conduct their sex lives with each other?

Imagine a miracle world in which there could be no disease, no unhappiness, no unwanted pregnancies, no conventions or judgement, that whatever your sexual desires, fantasies, preferences or habits with other adults, they would be totally consequentless and there would always be willing people? Would you choose to conduct your sex life similar to the way you do now, would you choose monogamy, polygyny, polyandry, polyamory, free love sex, casual sex, celibacy, etc? What sexual landscape would you create? Remember, there are no bad consequences.

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shewolf53

Jun 18 @ 11:26AM  
I would still prefer sex within a relationship because if I am going to sleep with him at night he had better be there in the morning to help out on whatever needs to be done. Just the way I see it.
hot4you120

Jun 18 @ 11:26AM  
welll ... since your asking. i would set up a hot dog stand down town and instead of selling ball park franks it would be my cock in a bun lol ladies would flock to my stand and would leave with a full belly and a smile. lol would be great
Wordsofwit

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Jun 18 @ 11:29AM  
Good question. I think it would revert back to the seventies when unprotected sex (except for syphilis) couldn't kill you.
surv6969

Jun 18 @ 11:43AM  
NO consequences.... Then lets FUCK

I would definitely change my habits but I wouldn't be a dog and mount anything that moves.
RevDocLove

Jun 18 @ 12:07PM  
You mean everybody doesn't do that now????
monogamy, polygymy, polyandry, polyamory, free love sex, casual sex, , etc?
Lisa46

Jun 18 @ 12:14PM  
I agree with WOW, I would have more sex but I would still be selective. And the 70's were fun
somnium

Jun 18 @ 12:20PM  
Ohhhh man, you're asking the wrong person to comment on that one- [there really IS a word- sexl?] Considering my potential "sexual" partners as it stands right now- any female with at least one leg, is fair game!

Taisen

Jun 18 @ 12:45PM  
Hmm. I think I would stay where I am and have it just like I do now. I have a husband and an open marriage ( not that all people agree with it ) , but it works for us. Even through the arguments we always get through, it works. I am selective on who I sleep with though and doubt that would change. Husband is very selective more so than I.

Only thing I would consider changing, 2 husbands instead of one. Oh and a girlfriend to!
Looking4ever

Jun 18 @ 12:49PM  
IF there were NO consequences...even in my own mind, a few things wouldn't change. I have a couple of boundaries that are hard and fast for me. I am pretty sure that those would stay in place. BUT! In the areas that I do dally...either physically or mentally, I think I would definitely push the envelope there. However, I am not going to share those details here (some of you I would share them with via private email).
flavorbuster

Jun 18 @ 1:52PM  
I'd stretch my arms as if to give a hug to the nearest female like it is a question & cry out WHOOPIE !!!!
Ewe_Wish

Jun 18 @ 2:07PM  
nonexistent...just like it is now.........
dmbchick420

Jun 18 @ 3:03PM  
Well....not that anyone probably cares now But I was gonna say....my sex life wouldn't change at all, but it would be nice to not have to worry about getting pregnant anymore!!!!
ksk72

Jun 18 @ 3:40PM  
Still be with my man and in an open relationship but I would have sex outdoors alot more love sex outside dont like getting arrested for it
StraddleMyNose

Jun 18 @ 4:32PM  
I wouldn't change a thing actually.
casuallylooking

Jun 18 @ 6:58PM  
No consequences what so ever......hmmm, let me think.... Nope wouldn't change a thing.Well, I'd be with him more often than we are able to be right now, but I'd still be monogamous...

I discovered a long time ago that I don't like sharing. It just doesn't work for me.

And the 70's were fun
no comment....
Sunshine79

Jun 18 @ 10:32PM  
Wow.....I'd have a myriad of boyfriend!!
evild614

Jun 21 @ 4:01AM  
Ask a polyamorous person with a pack of condoms.

Everyone would look at you like you're a depraved freak and nobody touches you (that's right, even guys can get stuck with slut stigma).

I think that for some people (not all, obviously), the idea that someone follows the conventional "rules" of sex actually makes them comfortable enough with them to have sex. I know, it seems counterintuitive to me as well.
mdillen

Jun 21 @ 6:56AM  
I think that scenario would destroy all fantasy. I like it the way it is, if it would just happen from time to time.

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