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posted 6/17/2009 5:11:24 PM |
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  Sunshine79

Men can have a wife and a girlfriend. What can't I have a husband and a boyfriend?
No, seriously. I'm 29. When I was growing up, my dads best friend had himself a wife and a girlfriend. He was Italian. Both women got along. They kept seperate houses, but all 3 of them were always together. Every dinner, picnic, BBQ, pool party, there he was with his wife and girlfriend. No one asked questions, the kids didn't think anything of it. It was just a normal thing. It wasn't weird.

Now, I've grown up and I know better. I know it's not something that is a part of our society. The polygamist's are probably the only ones you know to have more than one wife. Outside of other cultures not in America.

But, would it be so bad?? I have a boyfriend, who'd like to get married to me. He's older, more relaxed & set in his ways. And I have a guy friend who's younger than me, spontaneous & up for new things. I happen to want both. So, why can't I have it?

I'd be frowned upon.......Yes, I want a husband & a boyfriend.
(And if dmbchick could stop by every once in awhile, that would be nice )

Anybody wanna fuck?

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Lisa46

Jun 17 @ 5:26PM  
shucks Sunshine I'd be happy with one feller
onehornytoad69

Jun 17 @ 5:32PM  
Are you really Sure..... that 2 men... would be Enough for ya? just asking.....
Taisen

Jun 17 @ 5:32PM  
I actually wish I could have both to ! I don't have a boyfriend or even a close friend with any kind of benefits but that wouldn't be bad. Already have the husband part. Now where do I find a nice boyfriend?
In all honesty, my husband actually would be ok with this to. Yes, we have dicussed many things this included. I'll go sit in my corner now and wait for all the bad remarks on what I just said.
McBunman

Jun 17 @ 5:33PM  
If they both know about it and are cool with it, why can't you?
manwithoutahorse

Jun 17 @ 5:35PM  
People do it every day. Only a small percentage of our society is ok with sharing....anything.
Sunshine79

Jun 17 @ 5:36PM  
Are you really Sure..... that 2 men... would be Enough for ya? just asking.....

Wanna be the 3rd??
Wordsofwit

Jun 17 @ 5:38PM  
I am sure that this post will get a lot of comments, mostly from guys volunteering their services from hundreds or thousands of mile away.
hot4you120

Jun 17 @ 5:41PM  
thats sounds like its resonable
40DWM

Jun 17 @ 5:56PM  
You do know, there is a severe punishment for more than one wife...

More than 'one' Mother-in-law.....
flavorbuster

Jun 17 @ 5:58PM  
I don't know Most of the women I've hooked up with only want one man with the exception of a few who was only interested in men. So I guess I feel your pain because I'm thinking why can't I hook up with a woman who wants a female in the mix..
somnium

Jun 17 @ 6:08PM  
So, why can't I have it?
I don't see a problem with women doing that- as long as guys can do that too, without any backlash that is! But I think us guys know that ain't gonna happen!

mostly from guys volunteering their services
Yuup Bruce, you're right!

Now where do I find a nice boyfriend?
HERE, OVER HERE!!!

Wanna be the 3rd??
Wanna have a forth??

I'm think I'm done now!!!

Sunshine79

Jun 17 @ 6:18PM  
Wanna have a forth??

Hell yeah!!
shewolf53

Jun 17 @ 6:32PM  
Hey I think a husband and a boyfriend would be great. One can fix the leak in the roof and one can fix the broken plumbing. I think I might need more then two though because the house needs a coat of paint and the lawn needs mowing. I think I could get used to this multiple thing
Cootiesprayer

Jun 17 @ 7:07PM  
I was just talking to my kid's dad about this!!! swear, just seconds ago.

Heck yeah you should, it's your life live it hun.
straightup_9

Jun 17 @ 7:18PM  
... Ok...Igive up...why can't you?.....If all parties concerned are ok with it, then it ain't nobody's business but yer own!.....

And, yeah, I wanna fuck!!!....
NightOfOld

Jun 17 @ 7:21PM  

Upon The Nipples Of Sunshine's Breast

Have you beheld (with much delight)
A red rose peeping through a white?
Or else a cherry (double graced)
Within a lily? Centre placed?
Or ever marked the pretty beam,
A strawberry shows, half drowned in cream?
Or seen rich rubies blushing through
A pure smooth pearl, and orient too?
So like to this, nay all the rest,
Is each neat niplet of her breast.

1bunny629

Jun 17 @ 7:21PM  
I think we can all have whatever it is we want in life, we just have to be able to convince the other half it is ok. I would be happy with a yard boy at this point!
testoserone

Jun 17 @ 7:58PM  
I have done a few married women since my divorce!
aftershox

Jun 17 @ 8:16PM  
It seems like a perfectly logical normal situation. I know quite a few couple in "open" marriages. They each have their other love interests. It isn;t just the guy with a lover on the side.

There is nothing that says that if you love two ppl that one gets 50% of all you have. You can love each in their own way, and it isn;t a limited supply.

It just makes communication more complicated.

I see myself headed in that direction. I am head over heels for a guy from Denver who has a gf. And he likes to play with others. It is wonderfully empowering not to feel jealous.

And he is likewise happy for me when I am "enjoying" myself in his absence. I just haven;t come up with a stable local guy... hey.. but who is to complain. I had no idea that I could be so lucky to have great sex in my mid-fifties. I definitely count my blessings!
rdsingle

Jun 17 @ 8:45PM  
As long as all are fine with it. Take as many as you can. Trying to find 2 guys willing to share you might be hard. I would be real stingy. No touch no touch no touch. Have fun Sunshine.
RevDocLove

Jun 17 @ 9:27PM  
I've never been monogamus for more than a week or two in my life..
The ladies I hung out with just accepted it and even invited others to join..
Sunshine79

Jun 17 @ 11:13PM  
You can love each in their own way, and it isn;t a limited supply.

Amen to that!!!
ksk72

Jun 18 @ 1:39AM  
Who cares what everyone else thinks...if thats what you want then why not. I know a woman that is married with 2 kids from hubby and has a boyfriend with a kid from him as well. They all live together in the same house ( I sold the family the house ) each adult has thier own room and she visits which ever guy she is in the mood for.

I like the open relationship idea better I only have to maintain one man and get a strange one when I am in the mood
evild614

Jun 18 @ 3:51AM  
2 questions:

1.What "rule" are you breaking? Who is this governing body that is standing in your way? Lots of people do it.
2. Would you allow these guys to be with other women? That's the kicker right there. It has to be a 2-way street.
Sunshine79

Jun 18 @ 8:20AM  
2. Would you allow these guys to be with other women? That's the kicker right there. It has to be a 2-way street.

It doesn't have to be a 2 way street. As I said, my dads friend had a wife and a girlfriend. That was it. It wasn't a free for all to fuck other men & women. This man was commited to his wife and girlfriend.
dmbchick420

Jun 18 @ 8:51AM  
I think if you have an open marriage and they (husband and boyfriend) both know about it, it shouldn't matter what other people think about it. You do with your life what makes YOU happy...not what makes other people happy.

...and please be sure to include me somewhere in there. I'd be more than happy to stop by once in a while
surv6969

Jun 18 @ 9:46AM  
I think if you have an open marriage and they (husband and boyfriend) both know about it, it shouldn't matter what other people think about it. You do with your life what makes YOU happy...not what makes other people happy.

...and please be sure to include me somewhere in there. I'd be more than happy to stop by once in a while

I have to agree with everything dmbchick420 saidespecially the last part.
DarkKnightWalking

Jun 18 @ 11:32AM  
I had always heard it was every woman's fantasy to have two Men around the house...





One cooking, one cleaning.
StraddleMyNose

Jun 18 @ 4:10PM  
He's older, more relaxed & set in his ways
A lot of us older guys are...
latinlover2983

Jun 19 @ 6:34PM  
wow thats soo cool i wish i could be this young guy that you like so much to me it would be great you have a husband at home then a bf outside and if your husband is not treating you right your bf will lol
lunanegra

Jun 19 @ 8:27PM  
Nothing says that it can't be done; its been in effect for centuries,but now its too impractical for modern times. Also humans have not learned to overcome jealous and territorial behavior for it to be a widely accepted practice. But when it does, sign me up- I already have at least 3 special men in mind already.
woohoo123

Jun 20 @ 7:05PM  
I think this should be acceptable in our society. It would probably foster stronger marriages and proably less divorces. Not all types of people could handle this unfortunately.
SteveO_DRW

Jun 20 @ 9:15PM  
Double Standards Suck ASS! You know honesty is the best policy... I will admit I have never tried to have more than one at any given time but that was because it was understood it was an exclusive relationship (until she cheated)... There is certainly a double standard though... I would settle for a girlfriend, I have been the guy on the side many times before but again it was taboo and never talked about... If you have an open relationship/marriage as long as your honest and its all legal (not married twice) I dont have any problem with it and I really wish people would stop passing judgment off on others when its none of their fuckin business... Thats just my opinion though...

Keep Smilin,
Steven

PS PLS knock down the double standard and judgment barriers people

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