so many of us make choices in our lives that are good and bad. I, for one, have made some bad choices in my life. We all have. I've made some good ones, too. Are we to judge what another person does, when we don't know all the ramifications behind that choice? No. I, for one, am tired of all the judgemental, whining bullshit that goes on here. It has come to my attention, in a roundabout way, that some are fearful of posting some blogs because some people may get their little feelers hurt. TOUGH!! This is an adult site, we are entitled to our opinions and what we want to post. Again, ya don't like it, don't read it!!
So someone chooses to be a stripper, does that make them sleazy or a slut? Do you KNOW the reasons why they did it? No? Then who are you to judge? Just because you won't or haven't ever done it, gives you no cause to judge anyone.
I'm the last person to ever judge anyone, mainly because some of the decisions that I've had to make in my life, that no one else was privy to WHY I had to make them. All decisions have conseqences, and to think that you have the right to judge someone for what they do is assinine!! Did someone die and make you God? If so, I didn't read it in the paper, or get a memo on it. So get over yourselves!!
Ok, I'm getting down off my soapbox...been thinking about this all day and finally had to say something! On to your usual Pervian pursuits!!
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soft_touch938
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May 28 @ 11:33PM
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Yanno GC....ya gotta be tough skinned here if ya wanna post anything personal. I've been an open book about my life and I don't recall once anyone judging me...or I missed it.
But the trick for me is....I don't care what people think of me...I really DON'T! Most everyone here knows I ain't missed a lick of livin' in my lifetime...mostly if it can be done I've done it or gave it a shot.
But I think it's all in the way it's posted. Lots of us have shared parts of our lives that were on the wilder side but it was written in a sharing way. Not one of us bragged about it or made ourselves look "special" for the things we did or choices we made.
I will pass up a blog that touts themselves as "look at me, I'm special"...not because I am judgmental of what they did but because to me they're more showing off than sharing.
I don't know...maybe I didn't explain that too good but it's the best I can do.... 
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Ewe_Wish
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May 28 @ 11:38PM
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I am glad of all my choices in life, not necessarily proud of some of them, but glad because they made me the person I am today. I try never to judge someone until they have shown me what kind of person they are. Once that is established, than I can make the decision as to whether i want to continue associating with them or not, that does not however give me the right to say anything against them for their decisions. I try to live my life like that, sadly I don't always manage it.
I made a good judgment call when I became friends with you tho. 
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featherone
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May 28 @ 11:46PM
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RIGHT ON  i so much agree with you girl; a kudo for this blog!
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1bunny629
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May 29 @ 12:55AM
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Great blog! I think most of us can relate! Those who judge others just define themselves as ones who judge and don't define the person they are judging at all.
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soft_touch938
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May 29 @ 1:22AM
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 Ya got me.....I'm judgmental...not of what a person does or a lifestyle but I am judgmental about the way they present it...you know....big me/little you. So shoot me.....  At least I'm honest about it.
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Cootiesprayer
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May 29 @ 7:51AM
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     you are a good person. :)
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featherone
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May 29 @ 8:08AM
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you know i come to this site to get away from the real world and have fun not to cry about my real life problems! theres people on here thats all they do! why even get on here for! this is what i dont understand!
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Taisen
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May 29 @ 8:25AM
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I don't judge people by what choices they made. Like you said, choice good or bad always have reasons behind them that you don't know about. It's kind of funny that you used the stripper as an example. I used to be one and even though I wasn't happy with that choice I did it for reasons. I will say, there are alot of people who judge people who did it or do it. I had it happen to me alot. So many peopel thought badly of me for it and it made me feel bad about myself. Now though I don't care so much about what others think of me. I feel this way, if you don't like me or anything I did ot do, so be it. It's nothing that is going to hurt my feelings. Takes alot more than stupidity to hurt me.
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rdsingle
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May 29 @ 9:00AM
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Welll Im not near as good at being non judgemental. I work with the general public. As they come in they get judged by the way they treat me or my coworkers. Even here ther are some i just dont have anything to do with just because of the way they treated others. As for what they do for a living or what they have done in the past.People that abuse drugs or alcohol or varies other things. I tend to judge them. Working on being better. Sorry GC. Guilty as charged.
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slohand_47
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May 29 @ 9:31AM
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Who's the stripper?
Whoever it is, I'll support their decision 100% ! ! !
*runs out to get some singles*
Seriously...... it is beyond me why anyone should care, let alone get on her case about it. ( I presume it was a "her" ) I try not to let the opinions of dumbasses get to me. Just ignore them.
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theSkwirl
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May 29 @ 11:23AM
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I totally agree.. I wasn't a stripper but I waited tables topless.. fuck yeah.. $500 a night in tips.. you better believe it baby. If I still had that body I'd do it again in a heartbeat.. and when my daughter thought maybe she wanted to be a pole dancer I was cool with it.. I knew she wasn't into drugs or whoring so .. hey..
But yeah.. people make choices for many reasons.. I dun care what their choices are as long as they are happy with it.
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onehornytoad69
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May 29 @ 12:21PM
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fuck yeah.. $500 a night in tips Well hell..... I'm fucking Jealous!!!   WHY wouldn't a Woman...or even a Man....do that if needed?!!!! We do what we have to do....!!!
I do wish I was Younger... I'd have a Tight ass and a 6 Pack...shaking it EVERY Nite!!!  
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