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posted 5/26/2009 7:19:25 PM |
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  dumblonde

depression, anxiety, stress, lonliness...is ANYONE happy? i read blogs here, with rants, complaints, searching, but AMD is only one little part of the world, people want sex, love, companionship, marriage, money, employment...as the eurythmics said..." everybody's looking for something"...even just going to walmart, i see the people working, shopping, driving...going through the motions, the labor of daily routine...but is anyone happy????????

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StraddleMyNose

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May 26 @ 7:30PM  
I could be happier....


.....if I won the lottery worth 85 million or more

Seriously though...

....they say that if you don't have your health, then you have nothing....I would have to agree with that. I'm am very thankful that I am healthy. Health is EVERYTHING!
manwithoutahorse

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May 26 @ 7:31PM  
To me, happiness is matter of degrees. We're all happy part of the time, unhappy the rest. Sometimes happy more of the time than unhappy. Other times more unhappy than happy. Right now I'm happy about 30% of the time. Better than 10%. But not where I wanna be.
onehornytoad69

May 26 @ 7:33PM  
I'm not jumping up and down Happy... no........ I'm a realist

But I am..Grateful for a Lot of things.....Does that count?
lunanegra

May 26 @ 7:35PM  
All around me are familiar faces
Worn out places, worn out faces
Bright and early for their daily races
Going nowhere, going nowhere
And their tears are filling up their glasses
No expression, no expression
~"Mad World",Tears for Fears

On the other hand,what keeps me from feeling hopeless is to know,I'm not totally alone in the world. Everyone is hurting and sad, and it gives me perspective,believe it or not. Its not a happy perspective,but at least it gets my head out of my ass.
1bunny629

May 26 @ 7:36PM  
I am pretty happy. Sure there are things I want and need, but I have come to the realization that those things don't necessarily help with happiness. I would like someone to share my life with, but I also realize that I am not the only one with that dream. Hope is good. It helps me keep going. Most everything in my life is drama free, so that makes me happy just knowing that. Peace is good.
girlcountry

May 26 @ 7:48PM  
I am happy...I have a man that loves me beyond reason, I don't want for anything, I have great in-laws, my kids and grandkids are doing good, I have my hobbies....are there times when I get depressed? yes...only when it comes time of the anniversary of someone that i have lost...my twin brother, my fiance, my grandparents...but all in all, I have a great life!! I have some wonderful friends that are there when I need them and even when I don't!!
sugarnspice005

May 26 @ 8:02PM  
I hit rock bottom when my fiance died from suicide 7 years ago. Today, I can definitely say I'm in a better place.

Am I "happy"? Yes, I am. Sure, it would be great to have more money, feel more secure financially. And yes, it would be great to have a better vehicle, etc...but after Mick's death, I learned to do for myself, and it makes me feel good about myself knowing I've come to a point of feeling good about life again.

Everyone has their own ups and downs in life, and we all deal with them differently.
Wordsofwit

May 26 @ 8:31PM  
The answer to that question depends upon when you ask.
aftershox

May 26 @ 8:59PM  
You don;t need butterflies and rainbows to be happy.Grey skies are just as beautiful as blue. It is great to be alive even life sucks.It helps if you reach out and touch another human being in a way that makes them feel understood

Am I happy? yes. But I am miserable and frustrated too plus I have a cold.
Sunshine79

May 26 @ 9:45PM  
I agree with WOW. Right now, I'm happy. Content. 6 months ago, I wasn't. I guess it could change day by day.

visualone209

May 26 @ 9:48PM  
I am a very happy person. I always have been. I see it as a choice for most of us. I realize some have problems with loss, with events that change their lives and also illness.

I have not always been financially and emotionally secure. I had plenty of problems at different times in my life, but I make a choice every morning, no matter what. As soon as I open my eyes I decide that it is going to be a good day and I proceed through the day with a positive attitude. Do things go wrong at times, you bet,but I am not going to go into a depression because of it. A friend says I am happy all the time because I just don't understand the situation. Maybe true But I am a bit simplistic in my way of thinking, K.I.S.S. applies in my life. I have found that the better my attitude, the more good things happen to me. I have no desire to try and see if thinking negative will bring bad things. I think it will, but don't tell anyone as I haven't tried it yet. I tell my husband I am saving up my depression for a time when it is really needed.

Needing a job badly, loneliness, divorce, loss of a family member or friend, illness, and even world events are very sad, but I ask you, if you allow yourself to wallow in all the negativity, and there is plenty, what are you really accomplishing? Does it get you a job, a new mate, money, cured from illness and on and on? No it only drags you down and makes the world bleaker and your attitude worse and sadder over all.

A Hoolywood type once said to me "Little lady. I have been rich and I have been poor. Rich is better." Well I want to offer a slight change some may want to think about. "I've been down and I've been up. Up is better." we all have the capability and we are only victims if we allow ourselves to be.
A little more than my two cents,
Laura Love ya'll!
theSkwirl

May 26 @ 11:13PM  
I'm happy DB... honest I am.. a bit stressed out but in the main.. happy.

Xien607

May 26 @ 11:27PM  
I am just grateful if I wake up and I am able to see the sunshine again.
lunanegra

May 27 @ 12:02AM  
You don;t need butterflies and rainbows to be happy.Grey skies are just as beautiful as blue. It is great to be alive even life sucks

Well said,well said.

My mom always reminded me that "at least no one's throwing dirt in your face" when I cry to her about how life is terrible...that much is true.
shewolf53

May 27 @ 12:14AM  
I am happy even though to others it might seem that I have little reason to be. To me happiness has never been what I have or do not have or who I have or do not have. Happiness is knowing at the end of the day that I did the best that I could with what I had.
slohand_47

May 27 @ 12:23AM  
I think people are as happy, or unhappy as they choose to be.

Happy? You bet!
Looking4ever

May 27 @ 12:45AM  
The answer to that question depends upon when you ask.

BINGO!
Barehugz

Jun 2 @ 11:01PM  
Mixed here

I should be happier since I have a fairly secure job,
a few bucks in the bank (NOT the market)

What would really turn the corner, DB,

would be seeing your beautiful butt in person

Hugs,
Joe
skyman707

Sep 8 @ 7:24PM  
yeah winning the lottery would take all my worries away.
I must really be bored tonight, I have absolutely nothing to do tonight
I guess that is why I am on here

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