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Women learning to trust again

posted 5/23/2009 8:07:33 PM |

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denwil62

Becuase of this crazy world we now live in filled with greed hate and lies. Plus the strong sexual drive of most males, gives nice guys like me a bad rap. I have met many many women who claim they no longer are able to love or trust men becuase of there past. THAT SUCKS. There is a few good men left in this world. Just beware of the men with a HIGH SEX DRIVE AND LOW SELF WORTH. Thanks D.W. P.S I am still looking for my UNIQUE life partner. Any takers? SIGH

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Cootiesprayer

May 23 @ 8:24PM

The issue is men will say one thing & do something completely different. It's like when you first go on a date & they say everything you want to hear but then when it comes time to leave for the night. The real man appears.

Yes, we do realize there are decent guys out there but when you get slammed for having an opinion or not looking a certain way you get sick of it. I wish you luck in your pursuits but you should see some of the garbage that gets sent to us & yet we still seem to bounce back. Not mad at you, just stating my opinion on why "most" of us react the way we do. Cootie.

onehornytoad69

May 23 @ 8:45PM

The sad part is man... We all get judged..by..what other guys do/did!!! My 2 cents!

somnium

May 23 @ 10:08PM

I'm pretty sure if a man screws up on AMD once- word gets around rather quickly and it's going to be like a, he said, she said, she said, she said- traveling the circuit kind of scenario!

My question is: if a man, after a crude email or two, realizes that, this site is not about sending crude emails to women, thinking that it turns them on- does he ever get a chance to redeem himself or, is he a permanently scarred man, even though he apologizes to the woman/women?

That's what I wanna know!

Lisa46

May 23 @ 10:46PM

I don't judge men by the actions of others. That is just plain wrong If a man can't keep it in his pants it is NOT the fault of another man

somnium

May 23 @ 10:52PM

I agree with you Lisa46 but probably not the case for many other ladies!

PinkToeNails

May 23 @ 11:17PM

I don't judge men by the actions of others. That is just plain wrong If a man can't keep it in his pants it is NOT the fault of another man

AMEN!!! I agree wholeheartedly with Lisa!!!

I don't hold a grudge against all men for a few mens actions...... there are just some that think they are the shit or something! When they really aren't!! But it certainly doesn't ruin it for me with other men! I have faith for the most part!

somnium

May 24 @ 12:05AM

There's two that don't hold a grudge right there- that's good! Not being a smart ass- just nice to know!

shewolf53

May 24 @ 12:38AM

I don't judge anyone until I get to know them. I have the three strike method. You screw up once and I say yeah anyone can make mistakes. Screw up twice and I tell the person I am not comfortable with their behavior, again, if they keep it up after I have made it clear, then I am out of there. But I don't judge one person by what another person does. Everyone is different. There are good people and bad people in both genders and neither one has the monopoly on being jerks at times.

sarafinablu

May 24 @ 12:06PM

Because of the fact that I have been lied to SO many times.....I do have very strong trust issues and I am very skeptical and suspicious from the start. But I believe in giving everyone a chance to prove themselves trustworthy!

zena343

May 24 @ 12:24PM

I agree with Lisa and some of the others, not all men here (or anywhere) are the same, there truely are some great guys here. But I too have to be honest trust is a major issue for me, and probably is for alot of people I'm sure I'm not alone on that one.

Lisa46

May 24 @ 2:01PM

shewolf your better than me I try to give two chances unless the first was to bad

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