This is a story a rumor or just gossip. Recently I was told a bout a man that lives with 4 women. I wont mention names, places, or ant proof that this actually exists. No Im not the lucky guy either. Now he is not married to anyone in this group. Just five people that have decided to make a life together. I have already heard a lot of talk about this and wanted to ask tree questions.
1 How many women would be willing to share one man in this type of relationship.
2 How many men would share one woman and not see anyone else.
3 Do you believe they are breaking the law and should they be persecuted and judged for being bad.
Now I myself like the idea of more women. Not so crazy about the idea of sharing one woman with other men. I think as long as they are all adults I and everyone else should leave them alone.
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sugarnspice005
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May 21 @ 10:08AM
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There are laws against bigamy, but since no one is married, no, they are not breaking any laws. There is no law against 2 or more adults sharing the same home. Whatever their relationship to one another is, is their business.
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somnium
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May 21 @ 10:30AM
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I agree with sugar!
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dmbchick420
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May 21 @ 10:31AM
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1 How many women would be willing to share one man in this type of relationship.
No. I'm not sharing my man in a relationship.
3 Do you believe they are breaking the law and should they be persecuted and judged for being bad.
If they aren't married, there are no laws being broken.
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Looking4ever
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May 21 @ 1:04PM
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1. I can see some of the pros to the situation. Could I live that way? Perhaps but probably not. It would require a very special group of people.
3. I don't know the law but I say that if they are consenting adults, live and let live.
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visualone209
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May 21 @ 1:30PM
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First, I don't believe there is any law being broken since they are not married. Other wise how could you have coed dorms, homeless shelters (I know they do separate the women and children), and other places where there is coed tenancy long or short term. I have heard of and know a few people in polyamorous relationships over the years. Most times in these, one man and one woman are married and have other live in partners, female or at times male in one case I saw. I have been into swinging most of my adult life and have shared and been shared many times, but I would not want to live with other women or other men. In Arizona/Utah border areas and one famous case in Texas there have been polygamous groups. Many associate them with Mormons. This is a huge misnomer. They, in truth have zero connection to the Mormon Church (I am not Mormon BTW. Not even close  ) They have called themselves Mormons actually they call themselves something like The Reorganized Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. Note the word "reorganized." They also are involved with pedophilia and get away with it, until recently by marrying the young girls (12, 13, 14 year olds) to some predetermined adult male. It is a horrible situation that is now being prosecuted in Arizona and Utah, thankfully. Sorry didn't mean to get sidetracked.
Sorry rdsingle but isn't this a bit hypocritical or at least a double standard?
Quote: "Now I myself like the idea of more women. Not so crazy about the idea of sharing one woman with other men."
Now I am not advocating swinging or any form of swapping, sharing, trading spouses or significant others. That is an individual choice and takes a special understanding and trust to work at all. We, my husband and I do it, but we do not push it on others or advocate it for others. We will express our experiences with it, but that is all. In fact most of the time I recommend people do not try it inless they are so secure and have total trust and no one has any jealousies or questioning feeling about it, at all
Another windy comment by,
Laura 
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onehornytoad69
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May 21 @ 1:50PM
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If one man could Deal with 4 Women...living under the same Roof......He would have to be one Hell of a man..to deal with all that!!!!   
I dont share..if I'm in a relationship...but in this case.......I guess one would have to Way open...  I couldn't do it!!!  
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Looking4ever
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May 21 @ 3:25PM
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Toady boy brings up a good point!
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Sunshine79
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May 21 @ 9:01PM
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That's polygamy.
Umm, nope....not for me.
As I was gowing up, my dads best friend had a wife & a girlfriend. They kept 2 seperate houses, but they were always together. That was normal for me to see.
Then when I grew up, I realized it wasn't right.
I couldn't share.
Hey, maybe they are doing it because of the economy. 5 people, 5 part time jobs. I can see that happening. Makes it easier & less expensive to live for everyone.
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StraddleMyNose
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May 21 @ 9:56PM
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I'm on the old fashion side, so for me I don't like to share. I believe in just being with that one person.
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rdsingle
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May 21 @ 10:40PM
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This is great. I thank you all for your comments. Since I have been told this story. I have heard a lot of bad things said about these people. its their life and my view is no one should pesecute them. A lot of different views and everyone was nice. Thank you all. 
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Cootiesprayer
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Jun 16 @ 1:15AM
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I wouldn't have a problem doing that. AT least you would know where he was at all times chuckle. Now to have all of us have our periods at the same time yikes, that would be scary chuckle.
Hey to each there own i always say. Good blog rd. :)
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