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posted 5/19/2009 11:00:08 PM |
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I got an email from a friend on here last week asking if Griz and I were still together.

I got another email yesterday from another friend that mentioned something about Griz and I being back together again... he thought we had broken up also.

I was very surprised and baffled when I got both emails.
So, to set the record straight and for anyone else concerned about us... or anyone whose emails I have over looked and not gotten answered....
Other than missing each other like crazy, We are fine. Actually, we are great! And still very much looking forward to sharing our lives with each other.

When I did my blog about leaving up there it wasn't because we broke up or didn't want to be together, it was just because I had obligations and loved ones here. Not to mention things to take care of, since I do still technically live here.
I had spent the month up there after I got out of the hospital and then I had to leave. I didn't want to leave.... and he didn't want me to leave.

Yes, I am still moving up there so to be with this wonderful man that I adore. But it's going to cost quite a bit to make that move, and truthfully neither of us have it.
The fact that he got a major pay cut and then his hours cut aren't helping either. So we are in the process of saving for it so we don't to have to put any more than necessary on credit cards.
Starting out in more debt than necessary is not a good idea in my opinion.

For quite a few personal reasons, I am looking at Oct 2nd as a final moving date..... IF the darn gas prices don't get rediculous again!!
Yes, we could have more money saved towards it if I hadn't went up there in April, but ......well I just missed him and we wanted to spend the time together.. And sometimes you just have to do what your heart tells you to do.

It's extremely difficult to be this far from him all of the time. So we try to work it out so we can be together at least every 2-3 months. I go up when I can so we aren't spending so much time apart and I can get a Griz fix..... And by me going up there we get more time together..
I'm going back up one more time for a while before the move.

This is a very big thing in my life to make this sort of move, and I KNOW there are no guarantees in anything in life. Much less in relationships, but I'm leaving as little to risk as possible.
I love this man and want to spend my life with him, but I'm giving up a hell of a lot to be there. We both know that. So we have spent as much time together in an actual every day environment ( including with his 3 girls) as possible before I actually make this leap.. We pretty much know what life with each other will be like.
Not sure if that really makes complete sense... I've had a few from here tell me they would have already just jumped in head first if they had someone they loved.

I guess I understand the concept. There have been plenty of days I've just wanted to leave everything and go....But I'm too old .........and broke, lol....... to make such a major decision without the time we have spent together first. No, I'm not having any doubts, just counting pennies....... and clearing some things up first. Including spending all 3 of my grandchildren and my daughters B-days with them this summer first. I don't know when I'll get to do it again and we are all extremely close.

As for any kind of break-up between him and I... Nope, not even close. We've never even had an actual arguement yet..
But we know that when we do that I'm going to be right, or win...

Okay, at least we know the make-up sex will be awesome...
Ewww.....
Hey, Honey....wanna have an argument?

Just kidding, but how about just the awesome sex?

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1bunny629

May 19 @ 11:13PM  
I am quite sure all is well. No doubts here. I am proud of you for having the sense to do it in a mature manner. Good for you and him. Best wishes always! Murph
onehornytoad69

May 19 @ 11:17PM  
Some times ppl read more into things than they should...

I Wish yall the Very Bestest!!!!
You 2 are very wise for taking your time!!! Smart ppl!!!

Oh yeah...are yall gonna invite All of us there for the Wedding? just asking...

Good Luck..and God Bless!!!
LilGriz

May 19 @ 11:22PM  
I can get a Griz fix
Wish they would have one of those panting/drooling emoticons....
Hey, Honey....wanna have an argument?
Why have an argument - lets get on with the sex...
ladybootscooter

May 19 @ 11:51PM  
See, this is what I'm talking about! And I completely understand all the "making sure", the "being careful" and the planning, planning, planning before making the move. I'm only moving three hours away, but it's a HUGE move for me! My heart tells me we'll both be happier in a few months tho! Best wishes to you both!
Huggz!
Stormy
ladybootscooter

May 19 @ 11:53PM  
*sssshhh don't tell the Prez but I'm leaving you a shiny green thingy!*
casuallylooking

May 20 @ 12:42AM  
Why have an argument - lets get on with the sex...
C'mere.......

Oh yeah...are yall gonna invite All of us there for the Wedding? just asking...
Hey, Alex...

Good for you and him. Best wishes always!
Thanks, Murph...

My heart tells me
Follow your heart, Stormy. And thanks!!

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