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posted 5/10/2009 2:26:15 PM |
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I haven't been in the blogs much lately but every now and then I get a chance to pop online for a minute and read a few.
Sorry if you wrote a good one and I missed it, or if I usually respond to your blogs and haven't been lately. It's not personal, just haven't been able to much lately.

However........... I did just read Sunshines blog about the "person" who made the comment of her having Daddy issues because of her toys ...... I'm not real sure how he came up with that conclusion but of course it made my mind wonder....

Are there men who automatically feel a challenge when they discover a woman has and/or enjoys toys?
Do some men really think that a woman owns toys because she isn't satisifed by an actual man, or can't get a man to have sex with her?
Does their ego or masculinity feel threatened? If so, Why?

I don't mean just young and/or inexperienced guys either. I know a woman who got rid of her B.O.B. because her husband felt if she was using it, he wasn't doing something right... and he refused to have any part of allowing it into their sex life.

Guys, does it bother you if your woman has or likes toys? If it does, why?
Or are you willing to play with them with her?

Ladies, what's your experience with this?
Would you get rid of yours if he had issues about you having them?

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Lisa46

May 10 @ 4:08PM  
Hell no I'd hide mine Seriously just because one person is in the mood maybe the other isn't? And hey those things play real well with a man have you ever watched a man's umm yanno jump when b.o.b. is put against the head?
onehornytoad69

May 10 @ 4:19PM  
Happy Mommies day to you!!!!

Guys, does it bother you if your woman has or likes toys? If it does, why?
Or are you willing to play with them with her?

It use to bother me..before I ever tried them.. but i have learned they can really add to gr8 Sex!!!
I'm a Pleaser..the More she is Happy.... the Betta I like it!!!!

Ummmm ....Can I bring MY TOYS? I'm sure the ladies wouldn't Mind..Right?
LilGriz

May 10 @ 5:19PM  
Hey CL

Guys, does it bother you if your woman has or likes toys?

Makes things more interesting. There is a difference between a toy and a cock, and sometimes toys can add a bit more excitement when both are involved at the same time...

have you ever watched a man's umm yanno jump when b.o.b. is put against the head?

Do tell Lisa......
manwithoutahorse

May 10 @ 5:30PM  
I'm not at all threatened by toys. In fact I not only enjoy incorporating them into sex with my partner, but I have bought toys for lovers on more than one occasion. I also enjoy watching her use it...then enjoy helping....
somnium

May 10 @ 6:34PM  
It doesn't bother me! If a lady lets me know that she uses toys, I'm going to encourage her to bring them out and I would love to include them for both of us if possible!

1bunny629

May 10 @ 7:08PM  
I had a man give me a toy before we ever went out. I really didn't know how to take it, but ya better believed I used it...never with him. I decided I didn't want to play with him. He spooked me a bit. Shy Murphey? No...he was weird.
PinkToeNails

May 10 @ 8:12PM  
I love my toys!!!

And whom ever thinks you use them cause we "can't get laid" is probably one of those guys pissed cause no one wants to cam with him!
Cootiesprayer

May 10 @ 9:19PM  
I have an entire collection, my soon to be ex used on me constantly. Heck no he didn't care, he would buy them for me!
Looking4ever

May 10 @ 11:48PM  
Ummmm ....Can I bring MY TOYS? I'm sure the ladies wouldn't Mind..Right?

Actually, I would care. I figure he has used them on another woman and I would just feel weird about that. Yes, I know that he has used his penis on other women too but, I don't know...
onehornytoad69

May 11 @ 5:49AM  
I figure he has used them on another woman
Well I have toys for women also... (that have Never Been used!! )
I was talking about the Toys...I have For "ME" !!!!
sugarnspice005

May 11 @ 11:04AM  
Nope, wouldn't get rid of my toys.
dmbchick420

May 11 @ 12:01PM  
If a guy I was with had issues about me having toys, then he has issues....maybe small penis syndrome or something...who knows.....

Maybe if these idiots would do a little research about sex, they would find out that women who masturbate want sex more...not less. I'm sure that most of the men making these comments either don't have much sexual experience or are just too damn immature to know any better.
casuallylooking

May 11 @ 6:13PM  
I was talking about the Toys...I have For "ME" !!!!

Hmm, this could get rather interesting.........

Maybe if these idiots would do a little research about sex,
Instead of just letting their egos get in the way of any real knowledge... and/or actual pleasure..
Dione

May 21 @ 8:47AM  
I'm late to the party when it comes to toys, but I have one now and no one is telling me I can't keep it!

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