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  sundance64

Well, it started out like any other day...

The alarm went off at 2am, just like any other day. I think I woke up enough to say "good morning sweetheart...have a good day" then roll over and go back to sleep.

About 3 hours later, I hear the dogs barking...and the door open. I thought it was Bryson leaving for school...til Billy came in the bedroom and kissed my head. I asked him why he was home and he told me he took the day off so he could get Zack enrolled in school and moved. Zack's mom called yesterday and told us he wanted to come live with us...and was already packed and ready to go!

So I got up and had some coffee...sat down on the couch and watched the news. Still pretty typical, 'cept my sweetie was sitting next to me. Nice!

We got to talking about stuff...what we needed to do about getting Zack in school, and about me going to see a new Doctor out in Yadkinville. I still needed to get an appointment to see a specialist for my back, and the only one who accepts my insurance is in Greensboro...about 50 miles away! I mentioned that since we've been planning on getting married this month, that I might as well wait until we do that to get a new doctor...since my insurance will change.

So Billy says..."Lets just go do it!"

So...we did.

First Billy had to go wake up Aaron...we needed him as a witness. Then I had to decide what to wear. I ended up throwing on a pair of jeans, a sweater (it's a little chilly outside) and some nice shoes. Then we had to look for the appropriate paper work we'd need...and wait for Aaron to take care of some personal business at the last minute (don't ask if you don't want to know!) and we drove to the Yadkin County Courthouse.

First stop was the Register of Deeds. Wait...what? Ok...so they give out the marriage license. Well...not exactly give but you know what I mean. We had to show ID and fill out paper work. Turns out that I needed to have proof of my divorce (Billy had his), even though the website says you only need to know the date. Seems they had some problems just a couple months ago with that...I didn't ask what. So I asked the clerk if I could look it up on the internet...if that would suffice. She said it would and offered to let me use her computer. Well...I have a bit of a cough and stuffy nose, and she decided it would be in her best interest to look it up for me. Damn swine flu!

Well we found the correct site and she printed off a copy of the page number and all that...wrote up the license and had us sign it, then sent us over to the magistrate.

What a hoot this guy was!!

You have to remember we live in a rural county. The sticks. Really!

First of all...we were told we needed two witnesses. So I walked out into the hallway where there were three gentlemen standing around chatting. I called out "Excuse me! Would any of you mind coming in here to be a witness?" One of them asked "Witness to what?" I said "To a marriage!" They all busted out laughing! The one who agreed happened to be a Lieutanent in the Yadkin County Sherriff's Office.

Yeah! Shotgun wedding!

The magistrate had us stand where he wanted us to stand...Aaron was the ringbearer and had to be moved around a bit. But we eventually got straightened out and he said the words (I won't repeat the whole thing here...but he gave us a copy if ya'll want to read it). We repeated after him...and I'm pretty sure we got it all right.

I was waiting for him to say something about "honor and obey..." so I could hit him.

But he didn't.

I know...it doesn't sound very romantic. I know...all our friends and family wanted to be here or for us to be there. But there are reasons we did it like this for now. Reasons I mentioned earlier, and other reasons I don't care to share right now.

No...I'm not pregnant!!!

We still plan to have a "wedding". A ceremony, and a big party afterward. We still want our families and friends to be with us when we do that. But for now, this is something we just needed to do.

So...that's what we did today!

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manwithoutahorse

May 6 @ 2:44PM  
Congrats!!!!!!!
flavorbuster

May 6 @ 2:44PM  
Congratulations
zena343

May 6 @ 2:45PM  
BIG CONGRATS TO YOU AND CANU!!!!!
onehornytoad69

May 6 @ 2:48PM  
Awesome!!! CONGRATS!!!!
sundance64

May 6 @ 3:42PM  
For those who don't know who we are...I'm Sunny and my husband is Canu...and we met on this site 2 1/2 years ago!
Cootiesprayer

May 6 @ 4:14PM  
It's about time sundance. Glad you & billy got it together. Hope you are happy. Janet aka scottishtease. :)
Looking4ever

May 6 @ 4:32PM  
You have to remember we live in a rural county. The sticks. Really!

No, really? What was the first clue. The name of the county? Yadkin?

Much love and happiness to you both!
dumblonde

May 6 @ 5:15PM  
fairy tales do come true!
sugarnspice005

May 6 @ 5:52PM  
Congrats!!!!
zaralyon

May 6 @ 5:59PM  
Congrats on the wedding, who care's if its romantic or not, it was what was right.
sundance64

May 6 @ 6:07PM  
No, really? What was the first clue. The name of the county? Yadkin?

and around here it's pronounced ya' ' n

don't try that one on your own...you might hurt something!
lunanegra

May 6 @ 6:27PM  
Thats great! Really great....but where is my head at when I thought you guys were already married. Whoops.

The impromptu "hey what the hell,don't think just do" feel is pretty romantic. Congrats.

theSkwirl

May 6 @ 7:08PM  
Not romantical? For SunnyD and Canu it is tooooo romantic! And a good news item as well! Congrats and lotsa years of puttin up with each other to yas!

Yeah.. yeah.. it's just a sex site. So.. chikkin nuggits for dinner?? *wiggles eyebrows*
sundance64

May 6 @ 7:12PM  
I don't know about chikken nuggitz...maybe just a little (can you have just a little?) My back is still out and I'm sick as hell! But maybe I can convince him...
selectusername

May 6 @ 7:23PM  
Congratulations, Wannafuck?!
Sunshine79

May 6 @ 7:58PM  
Congrats Mr. & Mrs Canu!!!!

I got a tear in my eye........... Weddings always make me cry!!
borty293

May 6 @ 8:14PM  
Wow ...that's great news. I'm very happy for the both of you
Its amazing how you found each other on this electronic gadget.
I consider it an honor to have witnessed the evolution of love between the two of you....thanks for sharing this great joy.

Congratulations...Professor Pan.T.Borty....
Lisa46

May 6 @ 8:54PM  
yep if any man ever wants me that obey word will NOT be said Congrats
alybai42

May 6 @ 9:31PM  
Congrats, I am happy for both of you...
DarkKnightWalking

May 6 @ 11:26PM  
WOOT WOOT WOOOOOOOOT!!!!!


Congrats, you two.....




BlueEyes708

May 6 @ 11:33PM  
I am so happy for the both of you.

Sounds Romantic enough to me, if that's what you wanted.

Gee people do meet and fall in love on this site.



For both of you.
casuallylooking

May 7 @ 6:21AM  
Congratulations to you both..... and wishes for a long happy life together.

I know...it doesn't sound very romantic.
I think it sounds romantic.......but I believe romance is in the heart, not in the location.

Isn't it amazing the things that can transpire from a "sex site"?
aspiringwriter

May 11 @ 7:18AM  
Congrats!
peachskin

May 14 @ 5:58PM  
Little late, but still: Congrats and may you be "living happily ever after"
ladybootscooter

May 17 @ 2:51AM  
I know this is waaaaay late- (yeah I've been gone for quite awhile) but many many happy wishes thrown ya'll's way! Congrats and all that other good happy stuff!

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