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posted 4/24/2009 4:34:50 PM |
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Well, it's that time........already!
When I came up here to Minnesota I knew this time would come, I just didn't realize the time was flying by so quickly and the month is pretty much gone already. Getting a late start didn't help matters either. But, it's time for me to go back home......or back to Ohio. Hell, I'm not really sure where home is right now. Part of me is here and part of me is there.
I do know I don't want to leave, but I have obligations that I need to take care of back there. And I do desperately want to see my daughter and granchildren.

As many of you know it hasn't been all a picnic since I've been here, with some health issues for me, and some chaos on his part that has a definite effect on us. But it's been really, really good and even though I haven't even left yet, I already miss this wonderful man that I have fallen so deeply in love with.
LilGriz my butt, he's a soft cuddly teddy bear with a heart as big as an ocean.
And he loves me with that heart. That makes me one very lucky woman.

Quite a few people have emailed me and asked when I am moving up here. I don't have a definite answer... YET
As with many the economy is having a negative effect on both of us. He took a major pay cut a few months ago, and I've given up a few independent jobs for different reasons. So finances are a big issue. Unfortunately too many of you know that feeling all too well.

Someone suggested that I just leave everything and start over. I realize it's mostly material objects, but that is not an option.
Someone suggested that I just keep my place and have someone take care of eveything for me for about 6 months and then make the move permanent. Not an issue either. I can't afford the move, I surely can't afford to live in two places at once. Besides, my lease is up in August.
And someone suggested that if all of my friends sent me one dollar that it would help a lot on getting up here.
Wow Murph, I appreciate the compliment thinking I have That many friends.. lol

Did I mention that the weather was sunny and 80 degrees yesterday? Yeap, up here where their weather is colder than Alaska's many times. Today is sunny and not near as warm, but a beautiful day to be sitting out on the patio in the sun with the laptop writing a blog and listening to the birds. I have 5 huge lilac bushes (LOVE lilacs) that are all budded already but I'm not going to get to enjoy them when they bloom this spring....But Next Year!!

And all of this started through a few blog comments and emails with someone who was once just a strangers profile on AMD.
Thanks AMD!!!
And thanks to everyone who has encouraged us and wished us well on this journey together...

I hope you are all doing well and have a fantastic weekend. I'll be making a dreaded 800 mile trip. Anxious and sad all at the same time.

OH, one more thing...We did take a little drive and went to see Dayna...(Ewe_Wish) a couple weeks ago. She was having a pretty good day that day. Her and Griz teased me about the accent they think I have, Because the people up here talk funny!! She was exhausted by the time we visited for a few hours but we're all had a good time and are glad we did it.





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onehornytoad69

Apr 24 @ 4:58PM  
Time Flies...as we Get Older....huh Lady? Aug. will be here before we know it.....even!!!

You will move when you can...Just enjoy your time with your Family...while you are in OH.!!!
Hell, I would give yall $100.00 iffin it would help?

Yall are truely Blessed..to have found each other...and To have done it HERE is Un-Real!!!!!!! (playing with the "REAL" word there... )
The more I learn about some ppl here .....ahhhh neva mind!!!

Anyways....Have a Safe trip home, and God Bless!!!!!!!
1bunny629

Apr 24 @ 6:19PM  
Hey Honey! I forgot I said the dollar thing...kinda embarassed, but what the hell...maybe $20 would work. All I can say is that you both still love each other even though you had health issues and he was in a bit of a chaos while you were there. Ya have to go thru some of the regular life stuff to see if the feelings hold. Nothing is perfect. I know you know this. I am just so excited for you two. It couldn't happen to a nicer couple. Regret nothing, work towards everything, and be glad you had the gumption to go for it. All will work out! Love, Murph
StraddleMyNose

Apr 24 @ 7:04PM  
I'm sure everything will work out with you two being together in the end.
sugarnspice005

Apr 24 @ 7:33PM  
Even though you had the rocky part with the health issues, you were still with your teddy bear. Appreciate every moment you have with each other. I learned the hard way that sometimes it can come to an abrupt end.

I'm so glad you stopped in to see Dayna..thanks for the update. Still miss her here like crazy, but I know she needs her rest.

Ok, drive safe.
Sunshine79

Apr 24 @ 9:06PM  
Hey, I heard about some dude that made a website asking people to donate a dollar upona visit to the site and he was gonna buy a Harley, Murph has a good idea!!
Lisa46

Apr 24 @ 9:27PM  
How about I just run away and I'll move to Griz's and stay in a spare room till you get there? Oh well it was an idea I feel for you! I couldn't imagine the aggravation you two must be going thru right now. Should have/would have/ fucked again

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