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Break-Ups and Lifes Lessons

posted 4/17/2009 5:54:12 AM |
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Almost anytime we are in a serious relationship and we break up, for what ever reason and who ever does the breaking up, we learn something. It may take quite while to realize it, or we may already know it from the start. But we learn something.

Maybe it's that we deserved better, or there will never be another love like that. Sometimes it's the things we did wrong or maybe just that the ex is an ass or has too many issues to work through. Or so many various other things.

Regardless of what it is, or was, hopefully we learn something positive from the experience or even heartbreak and it helps us later in life.....or even with another love.

In my last serious break up I learned that sometimes heart break is worth having piece of mind and Knowing what you are coming home to, even if it's an empty house, is better than the anxiety of what you are about to face with uncertainty almost everyday.

I also leaned that some people are just better friends and sometimes you can eventually clear out all the hurt and baggage and be great friends.Sometimes not.

Regardless of how it happened, what did you learn from your last break-up, or about yourself due to it? Has it helped you in anyway?


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onehornytoad69

Apr 17 @ 6:36AM  
Hi back at ya!!!
Its been a while since I have had a Relationship of any kind......
My Last relationship taught me that I could Love again...
That meant a lot to me!!! Cause I didn't think I could ever Love anyone like I did my X wife!!!
The love I had in this "Relationship" was as good....or even better than what my X and I had!!!!!!!! and That was pretty dang Good!!!
Good blog!!!
girlcountry

Apr 17 @ 8:03AM  
My last relationship didn't break up....he died. But I'm with Toad on this one...I learned that not all men are asses and that I could love again. Which is a good thing because I met my husband!!

BTW....good to see ya again!! I missed ya!!
surv6969

Apr 17 @ 11:07AM  
I learned after 15 years of marriage I still didn't know my now ex wife.

After the divorce I dated this one girl really nice. If I wanted a relation ship based on sex she would have been the one. (oral, toys, anal, etc.....) She broke up with me and the reason she gave was she didn't like my son. So of coarse there was no way I could be with someone that doesn't like him. To get to what I learned. She wanted to be friends with benefits That can work as long as SHE IS THE ONLY FRIEND WITH BENEFITS.
NightOfOld

Apr 17 @ 11:43AM  
Hi hun.

It's good to see you back. And a good blog along with you. Wish I could add to it, but I think you did a fine job.

Giving you a greenie.
Wordsofwit

Apr 18 @ 9:31AM  
You have a good outlook. Most people are quick to blame the other party.

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