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A Sex DON'T With A New Partner

posted 4/2/2009 7:25:10 AM |

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Sunshine79

Don’t Use Sex Toys
Don’t experiment on your partner with sex-shop toys and acrobatic sex positions. Everything in its own time. And you never know if the partner will like the idea.

Ummm, I don't get it. I just read this. That's it's better to wait to tell your partners about your toys. I thought being honest & up front was a good thing?

Wouldn't you rather them know your kinks up front? Why waste the time screwing around if they aren't gonna like you later because you have toys?? I don't get it.

I don't ever recall scaring away any guys after introducing them to my toys....

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soft_touch938

Apr 2 @ 7:32AM

Sunshine...sounds to me like they're not saying don't tell them about them, just get to know your partner in bed first then bring on the toys. That's my take on it anyway.

Cootiesprayer

Apr 2 @ 7:51AM

shoot, i say start out early no surprises. If they can't handle it they are not the one for you.

onehornytoad69

Apr 2 @ 8:06AM

I say the lady should tell about the "Toys" when she is far enough in the "Relationship" to where she is Comfortable ...enough to tell!!!
Hell, I use to think toys were a Bad thing...till I had a FWB..that told me about having them...I told her to bring them on!! She Did...and it was Gr8!!!
(I have even bought a few of my own... to use... on the Ladies!! Though...I dont have a lady...so..Daymn!!! )

surv6969

Apr 2 @ 8:23AM

I have to say bring them out early, like maybe if you are talking on the phone at night or texting back and forth during the day make suggestions about using them and see how they react. If they seem interested then introduce them for real.

RevDocLove

Apr 2 @ 9:01AM

Bring 'em on baby!!!!!

themama

Apr 2 @ 9:41AM

I say bring them on... Well atleast I would...

loveslife158

Apr 2 @ 10:43AM

Being liked & wanted for who I am is the way I go. Timing, I wouldn't tell a lady on a 1st date about my sexual being.

manwithoutahorse

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Apr 2 @ 10:53AM

Sunshine without her toys is like a day without....sunshine. So therefore a day without toys is a day without sunshine...no, a toy without sunshine is not a day. Oh never mind, I'm confused

If you want them to REALLY know you, tell em whenever you start talking aboutsexual preferences. If they run, they weren't up to your standards in the first place.

zaralyon

Apr 2 @ 5:40PM

Sunshine, I too love toys, and long ago decided if a man was adventurous enough to try a toy or two than he wasn't openminded enough to try anything else I may want to do and as such was to be religated to the friends only list. Just my opinion, but hey its mine and it works for me.

evild614

Apr 2 @ 10:02PM

I don't ever recall scaring away any guys after introducing them to my toys....

And you never will. Whoever wrote that "tip" is a perfect dolt.
Everyone loves a kinkster. In this day and age, you'll keep 'em cumming back if they think they're going to have an adventurous sex life with you that won't get boring. Double-bonus points if you introduce them to something they haven't tried before and they love it!

StraddleMyNose

Apr 2 @ 10:34PM

As long as you have some stuffed animals you can hump for me in some foreplay, I wouldn't have a problem with the rest of your toys.

friendwperks

Apr 3 @ 1:01AM

I say go for it the first time. If it freaks them out then they aren't the type you were looking for in the first place.

If you think your falling in love save them for another time. Make love the first time

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