I get so many messages from men looking for quick NSA encounters and while it's tempting and they're tempting and no strings sex is great fun, I just want to post this quick little note that I sent to one one tempting male:
"Alas, I'm looking for a long term relationship.
I know, in your 20s, that seems like no fun at all.
I felt the same way in my 20s.
I had so much fun with variety I wondered how could anyone stay with the same partner, year after year?
Way back then we didn't even have to worry much about safe sex and AIDS wasn't even around (the stories I could tell, lol).
But then I had 23 years of the same guy and mind blowing sex and it was great!
I'm a widow now and I'm looking to have mind blowing sex for another 23+ years with someone I have a deep connection with, where we play and have great fun, too.
It's almost a spiritual meditative thing that you take to new heights when you really care about someone.
I can remember my husband banging away, saying joyfully, my wife, my wife.....
Not that I haven't tried a few out along the way, but it's soooo inferior to what I had...."
Maybe someone else also knows what I'm talking about when I speak of the spiritual sexual space that comes from a deeply loving, highly sexed creative long term relationship?
If so, please reply....
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