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posted 3/22/2009 6:37:12 PM |
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i know everyone has preferences, but there are some things that i just dont understand...

one of the latest fads, from what i gather, are "attractive, happy" couples looking for a woman to join them for a night of fun...

i know i am insecure, and perhaps i am selfish (and not bi)...but IF i had a man, i wouldnt want another woman joining in on my fun...i wouldnt want to share...

and what single woman would want to be a third wheel to a couple...? do couples have any luck getting a woman for this? why dont they just swing, that seems more exciting to me...

i just dont get it...i guess i need enlightened...

oh..and i need a man...lololol....

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Mar 22 @ 6:48PM  
Perhaps their is a lack of male talent orally. Mix that in with past girl/girl fun in college. Additionally, I think that many women go along with it because it is what their man wants. The thing I don't understand is how many of these women are attractive but their guy is not.

Mar 22 @ 6:51PM  
although often the woman is the one "advertising"...i also wonder if it isnt the male that is really pushing for this...he wants "spice", she wants to please him...

BTW...not every female has girl/girl fun in college...some women really are not bi...

Mar 22 @ 7:12PM  
I've two girls at once, but I wasn't in a relationship. I've never ask for another woman to join and I'm not sure how I'd react if a girl I was in a relationship wanted another girl to join. And if I had a woman right now I'm not sure I'd know how to act.

Mar 22 @ 7:19PM  
I dont have a Clue.... why ppl do what they do.. Everyone Is different!!!
I wouldn't wanna share...If I had someone!!!!!!!!
I have been in love before.....and I could not..Dream of sharing My wife!! If I did we would still be Married...
oh..and i need a man...
Hello... My Name is Alex.. How do you do?

Mar 22 @ 7:34PM  
Well I agree, there is no way I would EVER, EVER think of sharing my man with anyone!! I too think I too am way to jealous for that, and it's something I can't even understand. To me it is just inviting trouble, and relationships are hard enough work. If someone wants to add spice by adding another person to the mix, then I say go the hell for it, but it won't be with me!!

Also WoW I don't know where you get your info on girl/girl college fun,,,,but that sure as hell isn't my kind of fun either, just the thought makes my skin crawl. Not all women are bi or bi-curious, I know this one isn't anyway and can't speak for others but not my cup of tea.....

Kudos, great blog!!

Mar 22 @ 7:43PM  
From my perspective, when I see those type profile, I feel that there is a con going on with a lot of them. Single guys trying to lure a bi or lesbian woman with enticing her with a female that he's suppose to be with. But that's my opinion.

Mar 22 @ 8:04PM  
Either a) the girl is bi and it's to fulfill her needs, or b) The guy's birthday is coming up and he's been really, really good this year. As for not wanting another woman touching a man, some people are just wired for monogamy. Doesn't mean you're selfish. Hell, there are some bi women out there who go out and sleep with women who still don't want other women touching their man... we call them hypocrites.

As for single women, it's a great deal for a single, bi woman- they get their threesome, but don't have a relationship at stake to worry about if things get complicated.

Technically, a threesome is a "beginner" level of swinging. It's not 2 couples swapping, which I think is what you are referring to- both can be fun, and swapping is usually preferred by couples with completely straight women. But neither situation really works for people who put a great amount of emotional stock in monogamy.

Mar 22 @ 9:24PM  
hi alex...i am linda...

Mar 22 @ 9:33PM  
Ah yes, one woman or two, if only I

had such problems!!

Mar 22 @ 9:38PM  
Hello... My Name is Alex.. How do you do?


hi alex...i am linda

*nudging Linda towards OHT*

Now you're on your own!!


Mar 22 @ 10:29PM  
hi alex...i am linda...
Hi there....How are you?

Mar 23 @ 12:24AM  
I have to disagree with WoW on this man satisfies me orally just fine...

And Straddle....not all of them are "cons" ....

Yes, my hubby had a fantasy of being with two women at one time, and I was able to make that happen for him...that does NOT mean that he is lacking in ANY area, because he's not!! The point of all of it is, sometimes a womans touch is what is needed. The softness and the closeness. And for those of you who would never even think of be it!! but thank gaud, we're all different!!

Mar 23 @ 2:54AM  
And Straddle....not all of them are "cons"
Point out to me where I said ALL were cons! I said a lot of them are...

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