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It's no secret that I love to cuddle- says so in my essays! LOL posted 3/16/2009 8:58:58 PM | 2 kudos what's this?     report abuse   somnium Both sexes jump right in! Anyway, this is probably a lame question but how many of you actually cuddle for a while before having sex or do you prefer to jump right into sex? Do you like to cuddle after having sex? I think I can speak for most women when I say that women would like to cuddle for a bit before sex and especially after sex for a while! Cuddling for me, really took on a new emotional meaning when I met a lady online years ago (another match service). We chatted for weeks, talked on the phone for a few more weeks, then made plans to meet! I and I suspect her, hadn't been next to the opposite sex for quite a while. After we finally met in a hotel room she reserved, we laid down together on the bed cuddling for hours and chatted- first with clothes on, then without! It was the most exhilarating, relaxing experience I can remember- all tensions, concerns and pressures built up over time, vanished. From then on, I got hooked on cuddling! Is cuddling important to you? Copy & paste to friend: (Click inside box; Ctrl + C to copy; Ctrl + V to paste)

read more blogs! Blogs by somnium: Can one or more ladies give me your opinion on why... Has anyone been getting frequent "Network Timeouts" after clicking on links? Good grief... watch where you stick your hands... For the people that took the "Kinky" test... As a kind of follow up to my cuddling blog... It's no secret that I love to cuddle- says so in my essays! LOL This should be interesting... I think! Well ladies... another question for you... Guys... Do you know what your lady's body features actually look like? WELL... IT'S OFFICIAL-

lynxkat	Mar 16 @ 10:28PM
	Ooh, boy. This one must be (a) too boring for some or (b) too close for comfort to respond. My guess is (b). Sure, cuddling is important. I'm with someone who probably hasn't consciously thought about 'cuddling' for years. He's all 'tits and ass' on the surface. His deeper side, however, is cuddling. It's always been important to me. As kinky as his thoughts run, he's more into the cuddling. His thoughts run to the backside that's cuddled into him while he goes to sleep. (Shh - don't tell him.) He fantasizes about the breast held in his hand as he drifts off to sleep. (Keep it a secret - he's a 'freak.') Women will always tell you it's about the cuddling. Men won't (generally) touch that one with a ten foot pole. (And they'll CLAIM that even if it's under 4 inches!)
lunanegra	Mar 16 @ 10:52PM
	Is cuddling important to you? Yeah. <3 <3 Its sweet when a guy wants to cuddle. I mean, given there's some time for sexin' in the middle of course.
onehornytoad69	Mar 16 @ 11:02PM
	I would say sumfin... but ... nuh uh!!!!
somnium	Mar 16 @ 11:14PM
	I would say sumfin... but ... nuh uh!!! Why not? That;s what blogs are about!
onehornytoad69	Mar 17 @ 12:07AM
	I tried to copy and paste... but they would'nt let me... Hey.... I only wanna Hold what, wants to Hold me! Go figure.... Not a Biggie!
casuallylooking	Mar 17 @ 12:41AM
	Cuddling is extremely important to me and one of my favorite things to do. It's almost a necessity to like to cuddle if you're going to be with me, whether it's just being together on the couch watching movies or in bed. Luckily He also enjoys it. shhh, I'll tell you a secret.. .He even cuddles in his sleep. If I move during the night, he usually wraps his arms around me a little tighter and pulls me closer.
casuallylooking	Mar 17 @ 12:42AM
	sneaks back in and leaves a kudo
lunanegra	Mar 17 @ 12:49AM
	If I move during the night, he usually wraps his arms around me a little tighter and pulls me closer. Reminds me of someone who use to do that. *sniff* I think some dust got into my eye.
somnium	Mar 17 @ 1:00AM
	Reminds me of someone who use to do that. *sniff* I think some dust got into my eye. Same here- sure do miss my cuddling sessions I've had over the years!
zena343	Mar 17 @ 3:23AM
	there is just something about cuddling that is necessary to me. I don't think I could survive without it in a relationship. The power of 'touch' is a wonderful thing...isn't it!!
Cootiesprayer	Mar 17 @ 10:34AM
	His arms envelope around the small of my back, his big strong calloused hands slide up & down my back. My head is in the crook of his neck, inhaling that manly scent of his as we lay there content to just enjoy the moment, feeling safe, warm, & relaxed our legs intertwined in each others. Oh heck yes cuddling is important. wonderful blog. If i had any kudos left I would give you one kind sir.
shoora	Mar 18 @ 9:54AM
	before sex i prefer foreplay but after sex cuddling is always a plus