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So, What Happens Now?

posted 3/12/2009 5:44:18 PM |
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  Sunshine79

So, what do you do when someone pops back up into your life that you haven't seen or talked to for almost 6 years. Do you just continue the friendship or try and start back over?

What if you have a life going and that person kinda doesn't fit in it and you don't have time for them, but you really miss them?

What happens when for the entire 6 years, you never forgot about this person, they remained on your mind the whole time?

What do you do?

I just got a phone call from that someone today. He was very good to me. We have both moved on in our lives, but we really would like to see eachother and continue what friendship/relationship we had. Yes, we were intimate with eachother too.

And to top it all of, turns out he lives just 10 minutes away.

The good girl in me says to just go about my life and forget about him.

The bad girl in me wants to continue where we left off and fuck his brains out!!

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onehornytoad69

Mar 12 @ 5:52PM  
Well with ANYONE else.... I would say Take a Good Piss....and forget about it...
But with you... I'll say....
If You dont want to get preggers.... Do somfin about it!!!! Because we all know you are gonna fuck like a champ!!!
My 2 cents!!!
zaralyon

Mar 12 @ 5:54PM  
Sunshine,

the bad girl in me says give it a try, and see what happens, the good girl in me wants to remind you that you have a family and all that happy stuff. But ultimately only you can make the decision.
bobbierob

Mar 12 @ 6:18PM  

Sunshine, I say forget about this one...... thats just me. More drama than its worth.

The last I heard there are over 6 billion people in this world. About half of them are men. You can assume that out of these 3 billion men, out old men, gay and children make up at least a billion. However, for posterity we will call it 2 billion which leaves us with approximately 1 billion men and each with a penis for our dear sunshine.

To put that into perspective, if you fucked one every minute, it would take you one thousand nine hundred and two years to get through them all.




JustLusting4u

Mar 12 @ 6:23PM  
been there do that its all a matter of trust its up to you
waynuckingfutz

Mar 12 @ 6:34PM  
Okay....okay.....IIIIIIIIIIII have the perfect solution.


Fuck his brains out every OTHER day.

SweetWineO

Mar 12 @ 6:35PM  
Sunshine,

Sometimes it is hard to get that "one" person out of your system it is not easy..ask me I know...however you have to decide what is best for you. Only you can make that decision.....I am sure things are racing wildly in your mind as if your friendship/relationship was just like yesterday and you do very intensely want to fuck da chit outta him......ask yourself ...if you do.. will you want more or will it make your life now upside down??? A difficult decision I am sure......think real hard.............or just say the hell with it and do it!!!!!!!!!!


Just my 2 cents...

You'll still be a sweet gal
Cootiesprayer

Mar 12 @ 7:11PM  
I say trust your instincts. There was a reason it didn't work out before, you have to try to sit down put down all the things you like about this person then all the things you like about your current life. Way the pros & cons & decide from there if it is worth it. I wish you luck dear.
xquseme

Mar 12 @ 7:18PM  
Sounds like you're heading for a FWB situation, and that always leads to heartache.
But yeah, I know, the temptation's too strong....

Good luck in whatever you decide...
RevDocLove

Mar 12 @ 7:32PM  
Sweetie..Take it from a Pro with many years of experience...
You can NEVERgo back and have anything close
to what you had before..It just flat never works..
BIG DUH?????
paulywalnuts

Mar 12 @ 8:45PM  
Sunshine......."Lead Us not into Temptation"...but..."Deliver Us Satisfaction"
surv6969

Mar 12 @ 9:32PM  
I will have to get back to you on this
somnium

Mar 12 @ 11:35PM  
Kinda like Pres. Obama's bail out packages, sounds good at first but prone to failure... eventually!
slohand_47

Mar 13 @ 12:56AM  
Not enough information.... For instance.......

Why did you split in the first place?

Is that reason still valid?

Is either of you currently involved in an exclusive relationship? ( I'll guess he's not, otherwise, he wouldn't be looking for a booty call, but I could be wrong)

IF yes to above, what do you stand to lose?

Will you regret it afterwards? Really, that's the defining question. It doesn't matter squat what anyone else thinks. How will YOU feel about it down the road... and let that be your guide.
.02
1bunny629

Mar 13 @ 1:09AM  
Do you need me to send you some gas money? Hey, what the hell...ya gotta go check it out and see if there is still a connection....don't ya?
StraddleMyNose

Mar 13 @ 8:22PM  
It really depends on a lot of things. Sorry I wasn't all that helpful
casuallylooking

Mar 13 @ 11:36PM  


I've learned that sometimes when we have good memories about someone we need to leave it alone.........to be sure it stays a good memory.
But only you can decide what might be best for you.
Whatever you decide, best wishes...
surv6969

Mar 16 @ 2:22PM  
I told you I would get back to you
Do you just continue the friendship or try and start back over?
Of coarse you continue the friendship. You can never have to many friends. As to starting back over, that is a difficult one. Not knowing the reasons for for you not seeing or talking to him for 6 years, I don't know how to answer that one.

What if you have a life going and that person kinda doesn't fit in it and you don't have time for them, but you really miss them?
Another hard one to answer but it sounds like you had some deep feelings for him. Be friends and if more is ment to happen then it will.

What happens when for the entire 6 years, you never forgot about this person, they remained on your mind the whole time?
Wish I could see the future for you Sunshine. Take it slow.

What do you do?
Can you be friends with benifits? I tried that once but when I started seeing someone else.... well lets just say it didn't work out to well.

I don't think I was much help sorry Sunshine for your predicament.
Hope all is well

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