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  fantasyfactory

Does the toilet seat stay up, or does it stay down? Plus a plausible explanation for the upright or down postion. In my house the seat stays up, but when there is a woman there it goes either way. I put it up, she puts it down leaving everything 50/50 then everybody is happy.

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selectusername

Feb 28 @ 4:26PM  
Beats me, I live in a one room

shack with an outhouse!!
fantasyfactory

Feb 28 @ 4:29PM  
Every outhouse I ever used had a toilet seat.
rdsingle

Feb 28 @ 4:41PM  
Supposed to be down. Keeps people from sliding in first thing in the morning or in the middle of the night.
fantasyfactory

Feb 28 @ 4:53PM  
It's been a very long time since my butt fit clear down into the toilet with the seat up. Besides that, the cold rim will definately wake you right up before your butt hits the water.....Remember I stated plausible?
evild614

Feb 28 @ 5:23PM  
2 bathrooms. One's mine, one's hers. Mine stays up, she doesn't go in there. Her's stays- well, I don't know, I don't go in there.
zaralyon

Feb 28 @ 5:37PM  
I keep mine down as I'm a woman, its my house and my choice. If a man is around he can put it back down when he's done.
fantasyfactory

Feb 28 @ 5:50PM  
So does that mean that when you are at my house you will leave it up when you are done because it's my house?
Lisa46

Feb 28 @ 5:54PM  
My house I live alone its down. I've been lucky when gentlemen call they always put the seat back down Guess they wanted invited back
RevDocLove

Feb 28 @ 6:31PM  
Mine stays up except for #2
I found out a long time ago that if a woman isn't at least smart as I am, leave it
up or down, I have no tolerance for dumb!
RevDocLove

Feb 28 @ 6:32PM  
Sorry...meaning, of course, that I know when to put it up or down...
LilGriz

Feb 28 @ 6:47PM  
I always lower the seat AND cover when done - less chance of bacteria spreading around.

http://www.abc.net.au/science/articles/2004/07/01/1143577.htm

http://serendip.brynmawr.edu/exchange/node/1839
Wordsofwit

Feb 28 @ 7:10PM  
2 bathrooms. One's mine, one's hers. Mine stays up, she doesn't go in there. Her's stays- well, I don't know, I don't go in there.

Same here.

I've been lucky when gentlemen call they always put the seat back down Guess they wanted invited back

When in Rome, due as the Romans do. That translates into sitting down to pee when at a lady's home. They appreciate that.
zaralyon

Feb 28 @ 7:33PM  
So does that mean that when you are at my house you will leave it up when you are done because it's my house?

Well if i'm visiting your house sure, but you would have to move closer for me to do that i'm afraid.
Wordsofwit

Feb 28 @ 9:04PM  
Leave it like you found it is a pretty good rule. I made that sit down rule for myself many years ago. I was at a lady's and raised the seat and the lid. Well, the lid lad one of those shag rug type of covers on it and the damned thing fell down while I was peeing...not good :/
fantasyfactory

Feb 28 @ 9:44PM  
The point to this blog is not if the seat is up or down. The point is if personal adgendas are more important than the sense of fair play, then it is a one sided affair. If the need to constantly have ones way is greater than freedom of a significant other, then what future is there in the relationship? Being in charge is always at the expense of others feelings. But it has occured to me that those who have a need to control, are those that fear control the most. Better to be in control, than have someone control you. The best defense is a good offense. Best case scenario is to meet each other half way. "I'm at your house, you're at my house" blah, blah, blah. You can do no better than treat each other as you would want to be treated. Seat up, seat down, your side of the bed, my side of the bed, you touched me, no you touched me first, Mom Billy pulled my hair! (sorry Canu). All of the petty bullshit is just that, and yet we still do it. How sad.
Looking4ever

Feb 28 @ 9:44PM  
Thank you, Griz!! That's why there is a lid on the thing...and put it down before you flush. Hello?!?!??! And, while we're on the topic...toilet paper over the top....
Looking4ever

Feb 28 @ 9:50PM  
Okay...shoot me for being a control freak when it comes to disgustingness...

I admit to having some OCD issues but I try not to inflict them on others. I have a particular way I like to keep MY clothes and MY things (put them away when you are done so I don't have to spend time looking for them) but I allow other adults their way with their things. Some issues aren't even worth the bother. Like my I used to tell my ex why some things had to be my way, "You don't care how it is and I do so why can't it be my way?"

But, you are right, some things should be up for compromise. The trouble, I think, is that many of us have been by ourselves for a length of time and like things a certain way.
PinkToeNails

Feb 28 @ 9:51PM  
Well.. it's just me living here so of course, the seat is down... but I'm not one that would bitch about it being left up.......lol I actually wouldn't mind finding it up once in a while.....but that's just me!

I'll give you a kudo for this one ff!!
soft_touch938

Mar 1 @ 12:37AM  
I'm alone. Seat AND lid down always. Why? I'm clumsy and there's a cupboard above it...keeps me from having to fish shit outta da shit bowl like combs, brushes and other odds 'n ends...
fantasyfactory

Mar 1 @ 10:34AM  
Now that is the best reason I have heard so far for the seat being in a down position.
xquseme

Mar 1 @ 11:45AM  
Seat AND lid down at my place, always, too. Why? Because when I was married,
The Wife didn't want the cat drinking out of the toilet. Now it's a habit.

Softy's reason is an added and unexpected benefit of my preference...
fantasyfactory

Mar 1 @ 11:49AM  
There you go! Dont want the seat coming down on poor kittys head now do we?
soft_touch938

Mar 1 @ 11:54AM  
Just an added bit of info...years ago I used that blue stuff ya put in the toilet to make the water blue and we had cats who liked to drink outta the toilet so we kept the lid down.....even hubby never forgot to put it down.

But there hasn't been a place I've lived where the toilet wasn't right beside the sink and I've use it to lay stuff on like curling irons and stuff and again....disaster lurks with such things being accidently dropped or knocked into the toilet...

It's such a habit now that I always put the lid down no matter where I am.
Sunshine79

Mar 1 @ 1:19PM  
50/50
zena343

Mar 1 @ 6:31PM  
two bathrooms, two girls only,,,,,,so the seat is always down Mind you if the time ever comes there is a man to share the bathrooms, I won't be complaining that the seat is left up...... I WILL GLADLY PUT IT DOWN!!
Blueyesprkln

Mar 1 @ 7:27PM  
The seat is always down here. There are 6 females here and one male.
Sorry but he is in the minority here and will have to suffice. There is also a cupboard above the toliet, two cats and a dog. Oh and three of the females are children from age 8 to 16 months. Saves a lot of fishing of things out of the toliet.
fantasyfactory

Mar 1 @ 8:14PM  
Sounds like fair play really comes into play there. He's the minority so....Oh well. And yes there the old cupboard/ pet/ child falling into the water thing too.
surv6969

Mar 3 @ 11:27PM  
I have just always kept it down seat and lid. Just looks better maybe a little OCD

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