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Feet... Phobia, Fetish Or In Between?

posted 2/21/2009 2:16:05 PM |
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I was talking with a friend earlier and while most people here are still wearing winter boots, she had been shoe shopping for sandals already. Now, the funny thing is she loves showing her feet, but she hates anyone to touch them in any way for any reason.. Even if purely by accident, if someone would brush against her foot she just loses it.

And she can't stand anyone elses feet touching her, anywhere, for any reason. She hates other peoples feet. She makes her boyfriend wear socks to bed in case his feet touch her.

She says it's not a phobia, she just hates feet.
I'm so glad I don't have that phobia. I really feel so bad for her.

I'm sort of the opposite. absolutely No sock in my bed.
But, I don't think I understand going as far the other way as having foot fetishes either....although I know quite a few people have them, and that's fine....for them...
I don't like my feet kissed or my toes sucked on. Yuck!! Nope, not for me.

However I do like my feet massaged.
I have pumice stones, different files, massagers, foot lotions and creams.... and I do my own feet to keep them smooth and non calloused. Especially for summer.
But I love it when someone (no not just anyone) takes the time, uses massage lotions and massages my feet... mmm. It's just so completely relaxing.
No, it's not a sexual thing. It just feels good.
And, Yes, I will do (some) others peoples feet. IF they are clean.

When Griz was here the last time I just went in the other room and got the stuff and started doing his feet. files..exfoliate creams..massage lotions..I think it kind of shocked him... and no one has ever done such a thing for him.
Although it was something that he probably never gave any thought to, he did seem to enjoy that I did it.

So today I was telling my friend about it, mostly just to pick on her a little, and we were discussing whether most people like having their feet massaged or completely left alone?
Does the thought of touching someone elses feet make many people squimish or is it no big deal?

Would you let someone give you a foot massage.... or do one for someone else that you cared about?

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selectusername

Feb 21 @ 2:22PM  
Anyone who wants to chop my overgrown
toenails and scrape off my abundant fungus

is welcome to have at it anytime!!
PinkToeNails

Feb 21 @ 2:24PM  
Hey...is my daughter your friend!??!? LOL sounds just like her... she can't stand feet! I tend to stay barefoot year round (indoors in the winter) but I can't stand to wear shoes.... and I love having my feet massaged! OH MY!! And I don't mind a bit if someone wants to kiss my feet... fresh out of the shower anyway, not fresh out of the shoe mind you...it turns me on!!!
I don't mind massaging someone elses feet as long as they aren't funky!!
selectusername

Feb 21 @ 2:28PM  
I'm all for kissing your toes, Pink,

as long as we can tak a shower together!!
1bunny629

Feb 21 @ 2:35PM  
This might be one of the reasons your friend isn't fond of feet...
Anyone who wants to chop my overgrown
toenails and scrape off my abundant fungus

is welcome to have at it anytime!!
, I on the other hand love feet. I don't have a foot fetish, but I do adore beautiful feet. I love to massage them, I love having mine massaged, and I keep mine in a soft, manicured condition always! I love to play footsie in the bed and use my bed partners feet as a spring board or as a place to push against when stretching my legs while gracefully thrusting towards them as a sexual invitation to come hither.... Love me...love my feet!
I have a friend who won't let you touch her face or hair. She has an oil to cleanliness obsession...it wrecks my nerves. It is lke she thinks she is the only one that is clean?!!!!!!!!!!!!!
soft_touch938

Feb 21 @ 2:39PM  
I like foot massages but don't lick or suck my toes. I have neuropathy in my feet and this sensation isn't comfortable.

I don't have a foot fetish but I do enjoy giving pedicures and doing foot massages.

Some people have really ugly feet. I do admire pretty or sexy ones though....one on here that is quite sexy....

I like to see toe rings and ankle bracelets on women. I wear them in the summer.
PinkToeNails

Feb 21 @ 2:43PM  
LOL oh Joe! You are a silly boy!

I'm with softie... anklets and toerings are definitely sexy!! I have quite a few myself....
I'm a stickler about my feet being soft and smooth! Who would want to touch them if they weren't?

Bunny! You so funny!!
manwithoutahorse

Feb 21 @ 2:47PM  
I enjoy touching feet and being touched as well. My feet are sensitve and I like having them massaged almost as much as I like massaging the feet of my partner. Feels great and I love seeing them relax...almost always leads to something else if there is time.

In fact, y'all can sign up here for foot massages...it would be my pleasure!
PinkToeNails

Feb 21 @ 2:56PM  
Hey Horseless! go back to the bar! We've got you a corner set up for foot massages! I suspect the tips will be generous too!!

The ladies are going to love you!!!
manwithoutahorse

Feb 21 @ 3:01PM  
Thanks Pink, I can use the business. And thank you, CL. Without this blog I might never have let so many women know one of my greatest assets .
selectusername

Feb 21 @ 3:06PM  
<<< considers a complete pedicure so
he can play footsie with bunny!!
Wordsofwit

Feb 21 @ 3:16PM  
she hates anyone to touch them in any way for any reason.. Even if purely by accident, if someone would brush against her foot she just loses it.

Remind me not to dance with her should we happen to meet. It could prove to be mortifyingly embarrassing.
fantasyfactory

Feb 21 @ 3:35PM  
Something tells me she wont play "this little piggy". And I'll just bet she has some cute little piggys....
casuallylooking

Feb 21 @ 3:38PM  
And thank you, CL. Without this blog I might never have let so many women know one of my greatest assets .
You're welcome. Glad I could be of help to you...

I agree with ST and Pink, I love toes rings and anklets, especailly during summer months and my toes have to be polished.
I like seeing someone who has nice or pretty feet go bare foot or with nice sandals.
It's just sexy.

not to dance with her should we happen to meet. It could prove to be mortifyingly embarrassing
Two left feet, Bruce?
Wordsofwit

Feb 21 @ 3:45PM  
Two left feet, Bruce?
Once in a while, yes. I admit to dancing better horizontally.
evild614

Feb 21 @ 3:45PM  
I find the smell of feet a turn-off. If she just got out of the shower and her feet are really clean, I'd give a girl a foot massage if the wanted one. But I really wouldn't get any kind of thrill out of it. As for getting a foot massage, I never have gotten one. If my feet were really hurting and I met a girl who was really good at it, I might give it a try and get back to you on that. The real question is, Would you give a guy a foot massage?
lunanegra

Feb 21 @ 5:19PM  
I'm waiting for Shawn to answer to this blog. Its 100% Grade-A "Straddle Bait"! Its a wonder I was scrolling through comments and saw that he was strangely absent...
lunanegra

Feb 21 @ 5:29PM  
I forgot my answer. Well,in some cultures..I don't know whether its still a practice or not,or whether it was in ancient times,but washing ones feet was an act of respect.

I don't have anything against feet because I like it when have men have soft feet and we play footsie under the covers. I like doing my own pedicures,especially using the PedEgg and those Avon exfoliating footpads. Only thing I wont do is use nailpolish because of the chemicals that yellow your nails. However,I would love to go to a spa and get a professional pedicure,then go shopping for some nice girly sandals.

In fact, y'all can sign up here for foot massages...it would be my pleasure!

Me! Pleeease?
manwithoutahorse

Feb 21 @ 5:47PM  
Sure luna, no problem
StraddleMyNose

Feb 21 @ 6:49PM  
I'm waiting for Shawn to answer to this blog. Its 100% Grade-A "Straddle Bait"!
Oh yeah, love womens feet. Major turn on for me.

Treas, I agree with ya, I believe your friend has a phobia of feet regardless if she admits it or not.
Lisa46

Feb 21 @ 7:21PM  
Well since I have planter feciatious (can't spell it) I would kill to have someone rub my feets Never had them sucked on so I can't answer that one. And yep I'd give a foot rub to my feller. Did I answer all da questions CL??


psstt are ya packin yet?
casuallylooking

Feb 21 @ 10:34PM  
Once in a while, yes. I admit to dancing better horizontally.
and that way you don't have to worry about staying in step to the music. lol

your friend has a phobia of feet regardless if she admits it or not.
I think she knows it now, she just doesn't want to admit she was wrong...
I still feel bad for her having to go through it though.

psstt are ya packin yet?
Started packing a few things the other day.
Sunshine79

Feb 21 @ 11:42PM  
I don't like feet. Now, I have pretty feet. Straddle has pix...lol
I've had a few guys suck my toes, kiss my feet. It would gross me out,
but they like it and it feels good. I ain't gonna complain, lol.
onehornytoad69

Feb 22 @ 10:07AM  
My feet use to be smooth and very neet... yall old AMD'ers have seen the Picks!!! But Daymn...iffin I couldnt use a good work over..
My Heels are rough as a cob..nails are thick and fugly...
Nope.. I wouldnt mind someone working on my "Hoofs" and I would return the Favor! ..........
theSkwirl

Feb 22 @ 11:21AM  
My feet are the only spot on my body that is ticklish (on a regular basis) and therefor they are intensely ticklish. I don't care if you wanna massage them or suck on my toes as long as you don't mind being kicked in the face.
hissweetgothgirl

Feb 22 @ 7:46PM  
Personally I hate feet, it's one of my hard limits. But to each their own.
FriendlyKitten

Feb 22 @ 7:52PM  
Being in a wheelchair and going to physical therapy all the time, it's a good thing I don't have a phobia about having my feet massaged. I don't necessarily see feet as part of the sexiness of people but as long as they are clean and don't smell bad, I don't have a problem with feet.

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Feet... Phobia, Fetish Or In Between?