Have you ever had sex with another couple? Or a large room of people?
Yes with another couple. The other one....kinda sorta. I went to a swinger's party once and watched people have sex, but I didn't partake.
Was it awkward or exciting?
A little of both....
If you swung while you were in a relationship, were you and your spouse able to seperate your feelings from sex?
Yes, otherwise it wouldn't have happened.
- Did it cause any feelings of betrayal?
- Did it liven up your relationship?
Was it glamorous full of modelesque people or some people you weren't really attracted to at all?
The swinger's party I went to was actually a lot of older people (this was when I was in my mid 20s) and a lot of overweight, average looking people. I can recall a few of the women being HUGE and I felt like yelling, "PLEASE PUT YOUR CLOTHES BACK ON!!" (I'm just being honest here and I'm not interested in hearing anyone's opinion about how I am wrong.....BLAH BLAH BLAH.)
Did you go to a club for this or was it at someone's home? A hotel?
It was at a hotel.
-Did you have to pay for it or was it free?
There was a fee.
Have you only done it once?
A couple times.
Or was it just something with one other couple and not a group of people?
See above answers.
-Were you just there to watch?
Yeah, pretty much.
Have you never done either but want to?
-Is there a reason why you haven't?
-Are you concerned with STD's, AIDS, or pregnancy?
That is what condoms are for.