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Have you ever had sex with another couple? Or a large room of people?

Was it awkward or exciting?

If you swung while you were in a relationship, were you and your spouse able to seperate your feelings from sex?
- Did it cause any feelings of betrayal?
- Did it liven up your relationship?

Was it glamorous full of modelesque people or some people you weren't really attracted to at all?

Did you go to a club for this or was it at someone's home? A hotel?
-Did you have to pay for it or was it free?

Have you only done it once?

Or was it just something with one other couple and not a group of people?
-Were you just there to watch?

Have you never done either but want to?
-Is there a reason why you haven't?
-Are you concerned with STD's, AIDS, or pregnancy?

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onehornytoad69

Feb 18 @ 12:02PM  
Have you ever had sex with another couple? Or a large room of people?
Ummmm NOPE !
If you swung while you were in a relationship, were you and your spouse able to seperate your feelings from sex?
- Did it cause any feelings of betrayal?
- Did it liven up your relationship?
I couldnt do that myself..... when I Love... I Love deeply..and couldnt Share..
Have you never done either but want to?
-Is there a reason why you haven't?

I came close to doing it once.... but after the "Horny" spell Passed..so did I!
StraddleMyNose

Feb 18 @ 12:05PM  
Nope, I'm not into group sex. Hell, never even had a threesome...
Sunshine79

Feb 18 @ 12:33PM  
No more than a 3some, but wouldn't mind fucking with people watching, but StraddleMyNose is a wuss and won't do it with me.....
McBunman

Feb 18 @ 12:45PM  
The gal and I sometimes get into voyeurism and exhibitionism. We don’t do the swapping thing, at least we never tried it yet. A long time ago my g/f at the time and I went to a cabin with 2 other couples and it turned into a total swap fest. It was weird because we had never even discussed it, it was completely spontaneous. Of course more than a little alcohol was involved. It basically started out as a dare and the next thing you know there were naked people everywhere going at it. It was kind of sad because the g/f seemed to completely enjoy herself, but when we got back she had an attack of the guilts. We broke of shortly after that.
StraddleMyNose

Feb 18 @ 12:50PM  
but wouldn't mind fucking with people watching, but StraddleMyNose is a wuss and won't do it with me.....

Oh, I'll fuck you, but I don't want an audiance
SleepingDreamer

Feb 18 @ 1:07PM  
Straddle, what are you a wuss for? Just the thought some other dude or girl is gonna see your dick? ;) Just messin with ya.
zena343

Feb 18 @ 1:19PM  
Nope, Nope,,,,,,and don't want to try. I am a one on one person.
dmbchick420

Feb 18 @ 1:21PM  
Have you ever had sex with another couple? Or a large room of people?

Yes with another couple. The other one....kinda sorta. I went to a swinger's party once and watched people have sex, but I didn't partake.

Was it awkward or exciting?

A little of both....

If you swung while you were in a relationship, were you and your spouse able to seperate your feelings from sex?

Yes, otherwise it wouldn't have happened.

- Did it cause any feelings of betrayal?

No

- Did it liven up your relationship?

Yes

Was it glamorous full of modelesque people or some people you weren't really attracted to at all?

The swinger's party I went to was actually a lot of older people (this was when I was in my mid 20s) and a lot of overweight, average looking people. I can recall a few of the women being HUGE and I felt like yelling, "PLEASE PUT YOUR CLOTHES BACK ON!!" (I'm just being honest here and I'm not interested in hearing anyone's opinion about how I am wrong.....BLAH BLAH BLAH.)

Did you go to a club for this or was it at someone's home? A hotel?

It was at a hotel.

-Did you have to pay for it or was it free?

There was a fee.

Have you only done it once?

A couple times.

Or was it just something with one other couple and not a group of people?

See above answers.

-Were you just there to watch?

Yeah, pretty much.

Have you never done either but want to?
-Is there a reason why you haven't?

N/A

-Are you concerned with STD's, AIDS, or pregnancy?

That is what condoms are for.
casuallylooking

Feb 18 @ 1:25PM  
Nope....I don't share.
orzie

Feb 18 @ 3:16PM  
how many fingers am I holding up?
whoooooo whooo whoo
selectusername

Feb 18 @ 4:07PM  
No but we should definitely have an AMD orgy really soon!!
evild614

Feb 18 @ 8:20PM  
Have you ever had sex with another couple? Or a large room of people?
Yes, and yes.

Was it awkward or exciting?
It's been both. There was this one particular couple we swapped with, I can't put my finger on it, but as fun as it was, the before and after was kind of awkward.

If you swung while you were in a relationship, were you and your spouse able to seperate your feelings from sex?
I'm pretty good at it. My partner is getting better, at first she was ok with separating feelings only in a group setting, but had attachment problems with this one particular guy she was seeing. Eventually he broke it off with her, and she learned to keep a better handle on things.

- Did it cause any feelings of betrayal?
Sometimes, when she was with above-mentioned guy, I felt she was leading him to think he was a bigger part of her life than he really was. But now she's usually the one to take things cautiously, because she doesn't want to end up in that awkward position again where she has to slow things down with someone who's trying to monopolize too much of her time.

- Did it liven up your relationship?
Saved it. And livened it up.

Was it glamorous full of modelesque people or some people you weren't really attracted to at all?
The group scene is always a mix of all shapes, sizes and colors. Takes all kinds.

Did you go to a club for this or was it at someone's home? A hotel?
Yes to all three- we've done it at a club, hotels, and our home.

-Did you have to pay for it or was it free?
It's free at home, only have to pay the hotel at the hotel, and insanely expensive at the club- so that's a once-in-a-while thing.

Have you only done it once?
Many times.

Or was it just something with one other couple and not a group of people?
It's been both.

-Were you just there to watch?
Hell no. There are people at swingers' clubs and parties who just want to watch and be watched, and it still baffles me as to why they'd spend so much money to not have sex with other people.

Have you never done either but want to?
I guess I always wanted to, just never really could until my current relationship.

-Is there a reason why you haven't?
Well, I was either single or with more "conventional" women- I hadn't really found a polyamorous woman yet. And then when I did, for a while we were just floundering around, talking back and forth on the idea but never acting on it.

-Are you concerned with STD's, AIDS, or pregnancy? Always. That's why we use condoms every time, she uses birth control, and we get tested regularly.
DesertSmile

Feb 18 @ 8:46PM  
Been there done that as a participant and spectator. It didn't turn on my ignition but parts were fun. It's not something I would look to do again any time soon. I am much better one on one.

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