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posted 2/8/2009 12:48:19 PM |
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  Sunshine79

Why is it that anytime you see advertisement from swingers, they always say: "We are looking for couples or single women"

Ummm, what about the men?? Men aren't allowed unless accompanied by a female?? What's the point, I don't get it. If your a swinger, aren't men and women
what your looking for regardless their attachment??

Why do the men always get the short end of the stick??

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zena343

Feb 8 @ 12:56PM  
Funny Sunshine, I've wondered the same thing. They always, or mostly, come off as I'm straight, she's bi ! Sometimes I think the profiles are really just men, and not couples. Good blog!
onehornytoad69

Feb 8 @ 12:59PM  
Yeah..... what Sun said!!!
Xien607

Feb 8 @ 12:59PM  
I agree. If you are a swinger then more the better !!!!!
MsHelle

Feb 8 @ 1:19PM  
It's usually guys trying to set it up and forces their gfs into it, voice of experience here in my case.

Personally I prefer 2 guys, especially if they like strapons and being made to service the other guy orally but I'm just a freak about that sort a thing.
Sunshine79

Feb 8 @ 1:40PM  
I think it shouldn't matter....but that's just me. People do have preferences. But, I see it as the man having a preference to see his girl fuck another girl.
zena343

Feb 8 @ 1:45PM  
maybe that is what the turn on is for the guy, and perhaps, he wouldn't want to see another man touching his woman, could be that I guess!!
lookingforsomefun152

Feb 8 @ 1:58PM  
If I cared about the woman I was with, I would never have a threesome. I would be afraid she'd run off with the other woman, or I would run off with the other woman, because I would figure I wasn't good enough in the sack, so she had to bring someone else in on the action. If she really liked me, why would she want to share me? Actually two of my ex's wanted to have a threesome with another woman and I was extremely offended. There was this hot waitress, and believe me if I went through with it and had a chance with the hot waitress, I would have definitely ran off with her. Even though my girlfriend was attractive at the time. Don't women have this fear about their men? Maybe I'm more conservative than I thought, but even if your woman is playing with another woman, I still think it's cheating. If you want to be swingers, why even have a relationship at all, or get married. You obviously don't care about one another that much. I know I'm going to piss a lot of swinger's off, but I don't care. It bugs me. Plus there's too much diseases going around. Did you know that 1 and 3 sexually active people has herpes? And 50% of sexual active people catch hpv by the time they are in their 40's? Now that's fucking scary. That's why I don't sleep around, I don't want any of that shit. It doesn't surprise me though. You go on a sex site and nobody seems to be using condoms. But here's a scarier fact, you can catch it even using a condom. And most people don't know they have it cause they have no symptoms. That's why everyone needs to get checked. I'm so lucky, I just got checked. Thank God, I don't have anything. If I have sex with a woman, she's going to the clinic first to make sure she doesn't have anything, and I want to see her results, and she can see mine. Because I'm not getting anything. I rather die. I don't care if I never have sex again, because if I got something incurable, I would never have sex again anyways, because I wouldn't want to put someone else at risk.
Pornosaurus

Feb 8 @ 2:38PM  
I don't consider myself to be one of the "We Are Swingers" Types [anymore], but I think one can swing one way... I think that the prevailing mentality in this country is such that women are more apt to bear one of the the potential side-effects of the activity, i.e., pregnacy, so to speak... By the way, I doubt men always get the short end of the stick...

I will say this, "Women are so much more fucking hotter !
lunanegra

Feb 8 @ 3:22PM  
If I cared about the woman I was with, I would never have a threesome. I would be afraid she'd run off with the other woman, or I would run off with the other woman, because I would figure I wasn't good enough in the sack, so she had to bring someone else in on the action. If she really liked me, why would she want to share me? Actually two of my ex's wanted to have a threesome with another woman and I was extremely offended. There was this hot waitress, and believe me if I went through with it and had a chance with the hot waitress, I would have definitely ran off with her. Even though my girlfriend was attractive at the time. Don't women have this fear about their men?
Good point brought to the table.
DarkKnightWalking

Feb 8 @ 4:32PM  
Thought about that several times too. I figure he wants two cakes, and he aint sharin HIS cake with another guy.....
1bunny629

Feb 8 @ 4:46PM  
I don't think men are getting the short end of the stick. It is usually men doing the advertising. There is never a shortage of men willing to swing. There is a shortage of woman willing. So, there is the answer.
rescueremedy

Feb 8 @ 5:09PM  
Hey Girl !!
evild614

Feb 8 @ 5:52PM  
Once again, this sounds like a call for...

Da-da-da DAAAAAAAA!!

SWINGERMAN!

Here's why it's so hard for a single man to get in on the swinging scene- because there's this prevailing attitude (and if you look at the world, a lot of it's true) that men are predatory when it comes to sex. They go from one woman to the next, constantly asking for sex until they find one that says yes. Like a door-to-door vacuum salesman. Women, the story goes, don't need to do this- the men line up for them and all they have to do is say no, no, no, until eventually, a man comes along that suits her fancy, and she says yes.

Now this is the cruel part- if a man is single, it's harder for women to see something good in him. After all, you look at him and think, there's a reason he's single, whatever it is. A man has a woman with him, that's a reference on his resume- there's got to be a reason why she's with him. Therefore, being attached to a woman increases a man's value on the meat market significantly. An attached man is seen as a completely different creature from a single man.

Now think about what a swingers' club would look like if it were five bucks for a single man to get in and there was no cap- it'd be 25 women and 600 men. 5 single women, 20 attached women, 20 attached men, and 580 single men. That means that instead of having to sit and turn down 2 or 3 men before finding one that she likes, a woman has to turn down 150 single slobs before finding a good match. That's gotta be tiresome. And what of the 20 attached men? They brought the most important asset to their value as swingers (not to mention someone quite dear to them) to this market. And in return, they expect some convenience. Some halfway-decent odds. Is it fair that I let you fuck my girlfriend, and you don't bring a girl for me to fuck in return? That's what it's about- starvation economics for the men, and less time being hassled for the women.

Personals, especially sex personals, are just like a swingers' club. If you've got one of those precious rare women who is into swinging/swapping, you don't dare open up that beautiful arrangement to a single man- he's nothing without a women to serve as (a)a reference that this guy is worth it and (b)a 4th so the man with the woman isn't left hanging, so to speak.
bandengor

Feb 8 @ 9:39PM  
I'll never understand why they need 3 or 4 people on one of those rope swings anyway. Isn't that a little dangerous?

And I can't believe rope swinging is so popular that there is a whole sub-culture devoted to it. I mean it was fun when we were kids, but come-on!

I also hear there are rope swings in bedrooms now! Really, that's taking it too far.

PinkToeNails

Feb 8 @ 9:46PM  
I also hear there are rope swings in bedrooms now!


now that sounds like fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dmbchick420

Feb 9 @ 10:02AM  
There is never a shortage of men willing to swing. There is a shortage of woman willing.

BINGO!

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