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Getting found out....It is so funny...

posted 2/2/2009 10:27:10 AM |
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Well The sister in-law I kicked out New Year's day told on me and my hubby to some of his family members...
I think it is so funny... See we are into swinging and bdsm..
She told them that we are so gross right... When her herself calls her self a dominatrix. She is on this site plus a few others.. She like to use men as her toy's and she calls us gross.. I never judged her or called her gross and her she is judging us..

Like I have always said to each their own.. Everyone has a little secret Right??? So mine I really didn't want all of them to know even though a couple of them already knew what we did..
And never judged us.. They had their own little secrets...
It's gonna be hard though to face them again and not laugh cause they do know but oh well.... I will get over it...

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dmbchick420

Feb 2 @ 10:45AM  
Tell her to read Matthew 7:1-5

“Do not judge lest you be judged. For the way you judge, you will be judged; and by your standard of measure, it will be measured to you. And why do you look at the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ and behold, the log is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother’s eye”




Swede

Feb 2 @ 10:46AM  
That was not nice at all. It is a clear violation of trust. If someone did that to me, I would seriously take some time to reconsider if this is a person that I would ever be able to trust with anything private again.

Have you talked to her? Has she offered an explanation to what she did and why she did it?

Hope it works out and that the people she told are understanding about you and your preferences, and that it doesn't change the person you are outside the bedroom.
themama

Feb 2 @ 10:52AM  
Nope wasn't nice of her.. Won't be talking to her for a long time.. She moved far away.. I already know why she did it.. She is one of those people that thinks everyone should be down to her level. So she has to try and hurt people to make herself look better when in the end it just hurts her..
Won't change me at all.. Thanks for caring..
Xien607

Feb 2 @ 10:57AM  
I'm sorry to hear about yoru Sister in Law, Mama.

People like that love to create trouble for what ever their reasons are but somewhere down the road they usually find out that it is not easy to of lost a large number of friends and family.
Wordsofwit

Feb 2 @ 12:41PM  
I am glad to say that I have never had a big problem with being ratted out by anyone since my brother and I moved out our parents' house. I keep my personal, family, and work lives very separated. Divide and conquer. Who the fuck wants a family reunion to turn into the Jerry Springer Show?
onehornytoad69

Feb 2 @ 1:23PM  
I cant deal with those who tell everything they know!! Shame on them!!!
1bunny629

Feb 2 @ 2:24PM  
That is so wrong Mama! Sorry it happened. I know you tried to help her and now she is repaying you with vengence. Hold your head high. Just because you like to explore sexual relations in a different way then some does not make you a bad person. We all know you are kind, helpful and honest. Hold your head high! Last, don't go there with her. Ignore her and let her stew. Peace be with you and yours!
JustLusting4u

Feb 2 @ 2:36PM  
Its a shame you can pick your seat, pick your nose, an pick your friends but you just cant pick your family
Sunshine79

Feb 2 @ 7:07PM  
Good riddens, good for you!!
flavorbuster

Feb 2 @ 7:26PM  
Don't know why family will hurt you more than a mere friend but it happens It's really a damned shame !!! It seems like family should be the ones to trust most.... lucky for you she is not blood related
Looking4ever

Feb 2 @ 9:12PM  
One of the reasons my family doesn't really know me. A couple of summers ago, my mother called me a prude. Inside I was laughing my ass off. Apparently am a great actress!

I wouldn't be embarrassed. From what you have mentioned about her, it would be easy to play it off and just chalk her gossiping off as spiteful if anyone in the family mentions your lifestyle choices to you.
StraddleMyNose

Feb 2 @ 9:39PM  
She needed to mind her own business!
soft_touch938

Feb 2 @ 10:20PM  
I just march to a different drummer...I don't care what people know about me. I'm pretty much an open book.

Of course there's things my family doesn't know although I'm sure some things they suspect. But you know what's nice? They would be disappointed in me knowing some things but they'd love me anyway. And they'd damn sure know better than to say anything to me about it. My life....I live it my way and they know that.

I wouldn't sweat the small stuff Mama.....this too shall pass.
themama

Feb 2 @ 10:59PM  
Thank softie .. Not really sweating anything though... I know it will pass.. You know what though karma really sucks when it bites her in the ass again... She will never learn....
BlueEyes708

Feb 3 @ 12:12AM  
So you wear you collar to the next family reunion. Maybe attached you whip to your belt loop, and sinch up your corsett

Then tell them you'll be in charge of the Games that year.

From the looks on their faces you'll have the last laugh.


I'm not making fun. It was none of her business and none of theirs either. You can hold you head up, If they want to judge, then they have the problem.

Cootiesprayer

Feb 4 @ 7:35AM  
Sounds like she might be a tad bit jealous there, that might be why she did that. Yeah that would make for interesting conversation around the table. Oh well not much you can do about it now. We still love ya hun. :>)

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