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Great game for clubs and bars!

posted 1/28/2009 9:07:59 AM |
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  Swede

To find a girl that shares my kinks, I like to use dating sites such as this. However, to just find a girl to just share the intimate moment of having wild and crazy sex with, I prefer bars and clubs.

Bars and clubs are full of single women who are open to the idea of a one night stand - or more - with the right guy.

However, they do have their shields up, fending off boring guys using the same old pickup lines, using the same old boring conversational topics or offering to buy them a beer before they even know her (no guys, it doesn't signal that you are a generous guy that will take care of her, it signals that you want to trade alcohol for sex).

So, for you guys out there who likes to meet women in bars and clubs, here is an excellent little game. Not only will it increase your chances of attracting girls, you will also have great fun with the guys you are out with, and you will not risk coming off as the creepy guy in the corner eying all the ladies waiting for the right girl to talk to and being bored.

The purpose of the game is to mess with people in a playful way. Not hurt anyone or be rude, just be silly and playful.

I love to mess with people :-)

Ok, the rules of the game are easy. You just take turns to give eachother missions that involve the people around you.

Such missions can be to, for instance, walk up to a girl and find out which color underwear she wears, use a cheezy pickup line on her, stand outside the door pretending to be a bouncer and only card women that looks to be over 35 etc.

It is allowed to reveal that you are playing the game (although if the mission is to start the interaction in a certain way, for instance using a specific pickup line, you can only do it after you have used the pickup line).

It's a great, fun little game, you will have something to do, interact with the people in the bar, you will be able to approach women without coming off as hitting on them, and you will generally raise the spirit of the entire bar.

Now the best part is, if you find a woman that you are attracted to, invite her to play! You'll be able to be playful and have fun together, and will not have to struggle to find topics to talk about, so you'll be able to get to know eachother in a fun way to see if there is a connection.

Oh, and ladies - this works the other way around too. Most women just sit at a table, waiting for guys to approach, but mainly gets approached by the "wrong" guys. Here is your excuse to approach the guys that you really want to get to know :-)

This game is so great, because it takes the pressure off of "picking up", instead, you are just having fun, being the center of the party, and interacting socially. And the beauty of that is not only that both women and men find that very attractive, but also, If you don't succeed in picking someone up, you won't see that as a failure, instead, you will just remember that you had a blast!

And really, having a blast is what going out is all about. It is, at least in my opinion, much more important than to "score".


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onehornytoad69

Jan 28 @ 10:07AM  
I have been going to bars off and on the past 6 or 7 years and I have never picked up a woman... It hasnt been my "Bag"...BUT..... I am Leaning that way...Nowadays!! lol.
I am Shy..at 1st..so I couldnt do this...! If I was with a group of Guys that did do it..than I could... go figure!!!
Interesting Idea though!!!!! thx!!!!!
Sunshine79

Jan 28 @ 11:16AM  
I'm the social butterfly. When I used to go out all the time, to my favorite bar, I would walk in like I owned the place, make my way to every table saying hello, go get my drink, sometimes order drinks for a table full of cute guys I just said hi to. I'd sidle up to someone and just start with something funny and laugh....things would always go my way. By the end of the nite, I'd have what I came for......
Swede

Jan 28 @ 11:48AM  
Yes, I am too when I'm in the right mood, but sometimes i'm not and some people never are, so for that, this is a great game. It will get you in a social mood instantly.
onehornytoad69

Jan 29 @ 7:01AM  
When I used to go out all the time, to my favorite bar, I would walk in like I owned the place, make my way to every table saying hello, go get my drink, sometimes order drinks for a table full of cute guys I just said hi to. I'd sidle up to someone and just start with something funny and laugh....things would always go my way. By the end of the nite, I'd have what I came for......
This would make it so much Easier on us Guys!!! We need more women Like sunshine!
Swede

Jan 29 @ 7:58AM  
Hornytoad, yeah, I agree! Not only that, I've also noticed from women that have approached me and made the first step are generally better in bed and more kinky than those that I've approached...guess they generally have a higher sex drive and that is why they don't just sit around hoping and waiting, and instead decides to go for it!

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Great game for clubs and bars!