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posted 1/25/2009 12:29:36 PM |
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I often get messages from women who have clearly not read my profile. I suppose that by posting pictures showing how beautiful they are, they expect all men to just fall for them without having to offer anything else than beauty.

Beauty is common, but I expect more.

Mass mailouts, mails from women expecting something that clearly is opposite to my profile goes straight into the trash can.

Really, if a woman can't even take the time to read my profile and write something personal, and not just offer MSN contact info and promise more pictures, then she is not what I am looking for.

Even though I am not here to find long-term relationships, just to have fun, I will not just hook up with anyone who happens to have nice tits.

So here is an advice to all women (and, I assume many men too) - if you want to spark my interest, you will have to do better than that. Show me that you have read my profile, and that it is what you are looking for. Show me that you have more to offer than just firm breasts and long legs. Show me that you are a human being, not just a vagina, that you want adventure, that you have feelings, that you are dying to meet someone special, not just anyone.

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Jan 25 @ 1:01PM  
Sorry Swede, but I have never had that problem - I rarely even get any views - usually average about 1000 a year, and those have been on good years.

Jan 25 @ 1:09PM  
Oh, my comment has to be approved....never mind.

Jan 25 @ 1:23PM  
This blog is rife with irony..I mean,from the standpoint of a woman who had to state the same thing to men on here.

Also,if you want to get in good on this site,its best to put your blog on auto-approve so no one will take it the wrong way.

Jan 25 @ 1:24PM  
Well now, you must just be the CATS MEOW!! And married too,,,,,just what I've been looking for. I've always wanted another woman's other half!! NOT

Jan 25 @ 2:00PM  
Sorry Swede, I was making funny at your blog. What you're saying is valid, and has been said by the women (rarely by men though I might add) here more times then I can count. I can't imagine things changing any time soon, so ........GO WITH THE FLOW........AND IGNORE

Jan 25 @ 2:05PM  
WTF!!! You mean there is really more than tits, pussy and legs? I know what he means though. It's hell being God's gift. Now you womens listen hear. If'n you can't use your mouf for sumthin other than talkin then don't be a gettin in touch wit Swede. Call me instead. Oh damn and I almost made it without laughin to. I want a woman that wants me for.... for.....well hell that just wants me LOL.

Jan 25 @ 2:07PM  
lunanegra: It doesn't surprise me at all that many men do the same mistake and that this advice applies to them as well. Hey, it wouldn't surprise me if they are even worse, but surprises me how so many women try to rely only on their looks (and then get mad if guys see them as objects) instead of trying to convay at least a minimum of their personality.

About auto apporove, this is my first blog post here, so I wasn't aware of that, but it's changed now. Thanks for the tip!

zena343: That is OK. You don't have to like me or be interested in me. I'm clearly stating who I am, not trying to be something I think will make me more popular. To me, it's not only the honest thing to do, this way, I also only attract women who really want what I have to offer, and not people trying to project what they want on me. Sorry that you didn't find what you were looking for here, I sincerely hope you will find it elsewhere.


Jan 25 @ 2:15PM  
zena343 (2): Well, It doesn't bother me or anything, I just think that it's a shame seing so many people directing their energy the wrong way. I think a lot of people would have so much easier getting what they want from here if they just took that small piece of advice, both men and women.

max49: I don't in any way claim to be gods gift to women. I like to see myself as gods gift to the right women, a select few, the ones I can connect with and have a certain bond, if only for one night. The ones that I see as gods gift to me.


Jan 25 @ 2:16PM  
Aww Swede, I didn't say I didn't like you....I like lots of people here, no matter what type of relationship they are looking for, I just found what you said funny that's all. I really didn't mean anything by it, seriously. I admire that you know what you want, and are willing to be up front about it, lots here are not so, so kudos to you. And I certainly wouldn't get anyone because of my looks.....but I have PERSONALITY PLUS!! So I do just fine, LOL

OHH and welcome to the blogs, for your first one, not bad, kudos too ya!!


Jan 25 @ 2:21PM  
Thank you, zena343!

Jan 25 @ 2:22PM  
You're welcome SWEDE!

Jan 25 @ 4:39PM  
I think just by typing you a message it would prove that most are more than just a vagina. Vaginas can't type!!!!!!!!!

Jan 25 @ 4:44PM  
Well, I actually saw this thing on ripley's believe it or not once...or...erm, never mind

Jan 25 @ 9:19PM  
Wow, a guy complaining?? I bet most of it is spam.

However, Ladies have this problem all the time. Unwanted messages from losebags that can't take 2 minutes out of their life to read the fuckin' essay and not the profile, but the ESSAY.

Fuck, It clearly states in my ESSAY what I'm here for....But, we know most don't read it. So, those unwanted letters get the BLOCK button!

Jan 25 @ 9:32PM  
Sunshine, I would say it's more of an observation than a complaint, but yeah, I've understood (and frankly am not surprised) that this is even more common for the ladies here.

Anyways, I hope that those men and women read this post and learn that a few well-written PM:s to people who actually have what they are looking for to offer is waaay more productive than 1000 shoot-from-the-hip mass PM:s

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