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posted 1/17/2009 10:42:03 PM |
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I've been looking for female companions for almost a year now. I've sent hundreds winks, kisses, quick messages, regular messages and have answered more than I can count. I'm sixty-six, married, and poly amorous--all of which are on my profile--and make no bones about any of these things. I'm open and frank, honest and sincere, yet I keep getting these female players between 19 and 30 who send me beautiful pix of female figures they purport to be their own. Most of the approaches are directly and explicitly sexual when I respond to their initial messages. Many of these women simply want me to dig out my credit card and start watching their web cams. Some to them seem to want a relationship but always drop interest when I refrain from chatting in explicitly sexual terms. I've had so few encounters with serious mature women on these dating sites that I'm getting bored with the whole scene. When I do approach someone who seems sincere and mature, she is most often very wary because of her similar experiences. Another part of the problem is that almost all women whose sites I look at say right up front that they want to find honest, sincere, reliable men. Yet there are all of these women who send me messages to the contrary and the women I message who seem to want what's posted in their profiles seldom answer at all. So, here's the brunt of the discussion.

I'm tired of women blaming men for thinking and wanting only one thing when a large number of them are themselves doing the same in their own way.

Anybody got an opinion? I've expressed mine.

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Jan 18 @ 12:10AM  
Thanks, it is great to hear someone give a real evaluation. I am new at these sites, I have recently relocated, and finding/meeting like minded people has proven difficult.(hence giving this a try)..

wish you the best of luck..

Jan 18 @ 12:51PM  
I expect the main question here your wife poly-amorous? I'm betting not.

In MY opinion SHE should be your companion and if she's not then I'm also betting it's cause you're bored with her and ready to toss her aside for a little excitement.

You get e-mail from women wanting money cause they see you as an easy target..lonely old man in an unhappy marriage and may be willing to pay for some fun...which they will promptly bilk you out of if they can.

Women here are looking for SINGLE men and I don't think there's a one of them desperate enough to get involved with a married man. Your age is against you...I know cause I'm 64 and its a world built for the young anymore.

I'd like a companion too but guaranteed it certainly won't be with a married man.

Face it and women alike have a preference in body image and age when it comes to a physical relationship with and I...well, we're just not it.


Jan 19 @ 4:28PM  
go to a poly site!

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