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Do we listen to Others.. Too Much?

posted 1/12/2009 10:20:43 AM |
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In C L's blog she mentioned that the Women here shared info...about the guys here! I'm sure guys do it also!!! (I have asked other guys about some of the gals here!! I'm Guilty shoot me! !)
Is that really Fair?
I am NOT Talking about the "ASSHOLES"..and the "Wanna fuckers"...and the other fools that gives us Guys and Gals a bad name! Okies?
I'm talking about the Decent ppl....(if there are any here... j/k)
The ppl that really are serious about finding someone special! or Just someone to be friends with... or even to play with.. or what.... ever!!!!
Personally, I think...the biggest problem here and any where online and on the Streets....as far as getting to know each other are... Communication problems....Most people get lost in conversations, or Ppl like me...didnt say what the really mean!! I'm bad about that! But I am working on it!!!
And in most cases... one or the other would say that the other was playing games...and that wasnt right at all! But, we would be tagged as "game players" to some...and they would tell others.....
Most all of you know what I am talking about..right?

Should we Find out on Our Own... or should we Ask...and Listen to what Other people say?
What do you think?

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baddawg

Jan 12 @ 10:48AM  
hi toad i'm sure a lot of the women here do compare notes as for us guys i tend to make up my own mind as mostly trust my own judgement so dont tend to ask others unless it's to close a call for of to decide and even then i tend to ask someone off line .
Wordsofwit

Jan 12 @ 10:57AM  
I valued opinions, observations, and information of mutual friends long before the Internet came in to being. I find that it explains a lot and aids into not going into something blindly. A friend will tell you what you need to know whereas the prospective dating interest may not lie or deceive, but will focus upon only aspects of the truth they choose to show.
girlcountry

Jan 12 @ 11:19AM  
I may listen to what someone has to say, but then I go with my gut instinct. I've been told that some on here are assholes or bitches,but until they say or do something nasty to me, I give them the benefit of the doubt. I make my own decisions.
Sunshine79

Jan 12 @ 12:48PM  
I've had many people take my joking "wanna fucks" seriously.......and that so wasn't my intention.

I had a full on argument with a guy here. And he was all like "We should run away together"

I was like, where the hell did that come from. And he said he was sorry, that he took my words as serious and he was sorry he interpreted it that way....

Gotta be careful I guess, there is no emotion when typing. Emoticons help I guess.
1bunny629

Jan 12 @ 2:27PM  
If you know the person you are talking with to be honest from past experience, then their take on a situation could be helpful. What WOW said is my thought too.
theSkwirl

Jan 12 @ 4:08PM  
Puhleeze I so do NOT wanna know what y'all say about me behind my back.. keep it twixt yaselves.. but yeah.. we do tend to compare histories on each other don't we?
casuallylooking

Jan 12 @ 6:06PM  
I have to agree with Bunny and GC.

If I want to know something about someone I may ask a trusted friend....and I take what they say into consideration, but ultimately what I do with that information --if anything-- is strictly my choice. I make my own choices and decisions, regardless of what anyone says. I have always said that God gave us instincts for a reason, we just need to pay attention to them.


StraddleMyNose

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Jan 12 @ 11:46PM  
Some of us guys offer a little note or two on some women on here. It goes both ways actually when I have friends from each sex post a friends bulletin in regards to a scammer or whatever the case may be.

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Do we listen to Others.. Too Much?