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Can't Stand....Why Do Guys ASSume This?

posted 1/4/2009 1:49:59 PM |
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  Sunshine79

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Why is it that most, not all but MOST guys I have run into ASSume this?

Ok, your talking with a guy. You have either had NSA sex with him before or
you know you will be and you tell them your on the rag. First thing outta their mouths is:

1. "Well, we could do other things!"
Umm, no we can't. Other things to a man is a blow job. And I know damn well, if your not Straddle, your not gonna return the favor of going down on me while I'm bleeding. Not that I would expect any guy to.

OR

2. "We can have anal sex!"
Umm, no we can't. What makes you think that just because I'm on the rag, that since that hole is outta commission, that you can just move on to the next hole? This ain't a game of golf, God Dammit!! I don't want anal sex. (Now don't get me wrong, I do enjoy it, but I gotta be in the mood!)

I, myself am not comfortable with bending over, having a tampon string hang out and letting you fuck me in the ass. Sorry, being on a period is just an uncomfortable thing. I rather you have some fuckin' patience and wait a week and let me be able to be with you and be comfortable with you and enjoy myself too. Ya know??

Why ASSume "doing something else" or "anal" is ok??

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manwithoutahorse

Jan 4 @ 3:22PM  
Perhaps it's because so many guys only think of their own pleasure, they truly believe (as screwed up as it is) that what they find pleasurable is what their partner finds pleasurable. Unfortunate for them....and their partner.
flavorbuster

Jan 4 @ 3:32PM  
Nope not me PTA ..... Like the whole package ..... Starting w/ the front & finish in the back.... I'm o.k. w/ just the P... No need for the back door if the front door isn't accessible
Detach

Jan 4 @ 3:44PM  
Okay, then if nothing is gonna happen, why do you meet up with your booty calls on day 28? Of course they assume something is gonna happen. Duh
1bunny629

Jan 4 @ 3:46PM  
Well hell Sunshine...ya can't excpect all the men that want you to wait...their would be a line down the street and arond the corner. They want you whether you ready or not! At least he didn't say ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww...and run like a pansie!
straddle_fun

Jan 4 @ 3:51PM  
I guess this means straddling me and having dry sex is out of the question... ...
lunanegra

Jan 4 @ 3:53PM  
Perhaps it's because so many guys only think of their own pleasure, they truly believe (as screwed up as it is) that what they find pleasurable is what their partner finds pleasurable. Unfortunate for them....and their partner.

Bingo.
onehornytoad69

Jan 4 @ 4:18PM  
But, but, but,... Hun... "me so Horny!!!
Ya know...some girls dooooo, Like to use the other holes..when that one is bleeding! But personally.. I leave it up to the Woman....
Sunshine79

Jan 4 @ 5:54PM  
Ya know...some girls dooooo, Like to use the other holes..when that one is bleeding!

No....Just man up and fuck the bloody pussy and wash your cock off, is that so damn bad?? Certainly can't be any grosser than anal sex...IMHO
clickedanad2

Jan 4 @ 6:16PM  
shower sex
no mess to clean up
and
wet hair is good for tuggin' too
just sayin'
StraddleMyNose

Jan 4 @ 6:49PM  
Other things to a man is a blow job. And I know damn well, if your not Straddle, your not gonna return the favor of going down on me while I'm bleeding.

I was wondering why you tagged this blog "Straddle".

All I'll say is and bring it on!!!
lunanegra

Jan 4 @ 6:56PM  
Just man up and fuck the bloody pussy and wash your cock off, is that so damn bad??

B-bbbbut thats your baby hole! Huuuurrr!

However,that doesnt stop them from burying their face in there...ugh,men.
needsomenow83

Jan 5 @ 1:23AM  
experience is the greatest teacher. I guess that makes me a novice.... *shrugs* whatever. I'm embracing my critics slowly.......

I say wait. That's what fore-play is for.... *shakes head*

NO.... NOT do dumb-shit to get her in the mood so she'll do it against her willingness to.

I mean fore-play.

How about a massage ?

In other words, INVEST in the later.

Eh, what do I know ?
straightup_9

Jan 5 @ 9:23AM  
Have you ever considered the possibility that perhaps......just perhaps, you need to re-evaluate your choices in men-friends?........

If a man stated bluntly, in his profile, "We will have sex when I say, and only on my terms, without regard to your feelings, desires, or needs.".....Would you even bother with him in the first place?......

I'm not trying to come down on ya.....I'm just sayin' this is something that should be covered in the "ground rules"....up front.....as part of "getting to know one another".....and, when someone does say "well, we could do other things..."....the correct response is "Why?"...not "Like what?..."

JMHO.....



max49

Jan 5 @ 9:44AM  
I would fuck the bloody pussy and eat it too. WTF it isn't something that won't wash off.
casuallylooking

Jan 5 @ 12:48PM  
I have to agree with click.......... and besides, it's a well known fact that a really good orgasm can help her cramps.... in the shower or out. or, ummm, so I've heard lol.

In my opinion... although not usually very humble... no matter when you are having sex, with who or how, it all has to start with a mutual respect and that seems to be something they seem to be missing, Sunshine.
MsHelle

Jan 5 @ 1:14PM  
Hey Sunshine!! How about using his ass with one of big toys (just a little bigger than his cock) and see how he likes it.1 That would be a good stress reliever for you and an object lesson for him. Not all Ladies like it up the ass but we can damn sure find out if he does.

Blessed be our Lady of Strapons, Ash (anyone seen her lately??)

Helle
Cootiesprayer

Jan 5 @ 4:30PM  
Hey heres fair play sunshine. When he has the stomach flu or a cold ask him to have sex with you...that seems to be the only time they aren't thinking with that head...i couldn't agree with you more hun.

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