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posted 12/15/2008 6:20:56 PM |
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I have a co-worker that actually went around to EVERYONE and told the same old tale of not having Christmas for her 2 kids........(and 1 grandchild)........she even asked for corporate to "fund" it......I know what you are going to say, "be generous" I have, and I am..........I give because I am giving....... but she is a mooch, she is working at the same company and has for longer than I...(makes more money)....I am a single Mom of 2 also.......I just do not see why I should have to help......I feel I scrooge?

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Dec 15 @ 6:30PM  
No Milf...I dont think you are a scrooge....

A few days ago, I posted a comment about my cousin (not the crazy cuzzin, of tonites blog, but another cousin...)

I blogged how her child recieved more for Christmas than any child I knew of, because she asked every church, charity, and dept store for gifts for her child.

I am a firm believer in giving, but not so much for getting fucked over.

Dec 15 @ 6:34PM  
You have to call it like you see it...Every case is different...Everyone has different obligations ...Simply because she makes more money than you, doesn't mean she doesn't have the need...

Maybe it's time to do a little "undercover" work....Purchase a present for each child, and grandchild, then "unexpectedly" drop them off at her house....Then you will know the truth, first hand.

Dec 15 @ 6:38PM  
you KNOW if you were being fair....don't need us to tell you what you KNOW.......they're tryin for the ''free lunch'' where you do and makes more money and you should GIVE?? WTF ...WHY???

ps...ppl like that fuck the spirit of chrismass up ........jmho

Dec 15 @ 6:42PM  
Sigh and these kina stories make you wonder if you are doing a good thing when you donate.. I just gotta believe that I am. I gotta believe.

But no.. you are not being selfish at all... it should not be required for you to fund her christmas.

Dec 15 @ 6:59PM  
I would just say that I am donating to kids whose parents don't have a job.

Dec 15 @ 7:09PM  
It's hard to say not knowing what her situation is. It is tacky though to be going around to co workers and even corporate and asking for a handout. I have a co worker who barely scrapes by, she has 4 kids, and any tips she has gotten through the year she saved and used for their Christmas. It wasn't much, but, she doesn't go around asking for handouts.

I say donate to those who really are in need. And only you can make the decision on who you feel is more needy.

btw..Hope you and yours have a Merry Christmas.

Dec 15 @ 7:42PM  
Thanks for the comments, I will take them all into consideration!!!!

Dec 15 @ 7:43PM  
Merry Christams Everyone!!!

Dec 15 @ 7:52PM  
JMHO, I wouldn't feel the least bit awful,and No you are not a scrooge!!!

Dec 15 @ 8:05PM  
I am with WOW on this one! You have 2 kids and are in a position with less! You don't have to give to keep your job do you?

Dec 15 @ 8:27PM  
a girl I work with at OUTBACK is also a 2nd grade teacher and her class "adopted" a needy family for XMAS so we all chipped in to help buy them some gifts for the holiday. I also work with another girl at my other job that we used to buy gifts for every year. She is the only 1 in the family that works and doesn't make a whole lot but we had to stop doing it. Why should we buy gifts for her lazy good for nothing wont work husband and kids (they're all over 16 and won't work) We feel bad because she's really nice and works her ass off to support them but you dont NEED presents

Dec 15 @ 8:28PM  
You are doing right Mrs Milf in this situation , nothing to be down about.... When you give & not complain or have regrets about it then it feels good ... which is from the heart but this one is a scam you shouldn't give her nothing of money & verbally wish her a Merry Christmas

Dec 15 @ 8:35PM  
Sounds like a scam to me ...some people take advantage of charity's at christmas and then sell the loot on Ebay...sick bastards.

Dec 15 @ 9:27PM  
Always go with your first instint my dear and yep you was right It gets me I'm single struggling yet I dont' ask for help and there are couples out there both working saying they aint got this or that hells bells get over it. we are all struggling right now be grateful you have your jobs

Dec 15 @ 9:46PM  
You shouldn't HAVE to help.
Even if she does need the help, and we seldomly know what is truly going on with someone else, you need to take care of your own children. So don't feel bad, And no you are not a scrooge. Scrooge wouldn't care or feel bad about it... Sometimes we just can't help.

Dec 15 @ 10:48PM  
Just what Bruce said, tell her you are helping other you KNOW are in need!

Dec 15 @ 10:54PM  
give 2 ur local soup kitchen.......

Dec 16 @ 2:11AM  
I will give, can't help it really......but I do not want to be used by the crafty ones out there......there is legitimate need out there..................and hopefully we can all tell the difference.....Thank you all for your comments!!

Dec 17 @ 5:47AM  
Charity begans at home. Take care of you and your kids first

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