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hey to all you out there. i'm just sitting here thinking of having to celebrate another holiday season alone. but i'm trying to keep my head up, who knows, maybe i'll meat my dream man at wal-mart in the morning, while i'm shopping. i'd like a few suggestions on how to meet men? i'm a little shy, and i'm not good at just walking up to a guy and starting a conversation.
I need some help????????

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Dec 1 @ 1:28AM  
I know how you feel about meeting new guys and looking for dates. I know it can be a little scary, but this is how I usually meet new people:

1. is myspace, myspace is a 100% free place to meet new people for friends or for that special someone. I've met 4 people on myspace and went out with them, but they werent meant to be for me, but its a great free site for meeting people trust me.

2: in public like the mall or any where thats not a bar... I hate to say this but people in bars are looking to drink and forget about their problems, and want sex. Thats usually how that goes. A bar is no way to meet new people exspecially if your looking for someone special.

3. Start a conversation with someone who like at the mall or somewhere. Walk up to them in a cool calm manner and say hi you know do a little small talk and see if he's into you then you can get numbers and plan for dates if you think he's worth it.

Heres a simulated conversation:

You: Hi
Him: Hi
You: Nice shirt
Him: Thank you

ok now you can choose a topic by looking at what type of clothes he wears. a persons clothes can help you determine what kind of personality he has. So we're going to say this guy is casual dress aka meaning a nice guy possibly. Oh and if you could meet someone thats in a certain place like a music store thats a perfect place for you to ease in about a similar taste in music you could have.

You: So you like (were going to go with an oldies rock band) Stevie Ray Vaughn?
Him: Yeah he's awesome... You like him?
You: Yeah

Then he might ask what are your favorite songs or what you like about him.
After you talk about that for a while and if you think things are going good then you can sneak in the

"Hey Im getting a little hungry you wanna go grab something in the food court?" question or you can say
"You seem like a pretty cool guy.. You wanna get together this weekend?"

then you two can switch numbers, and somethings that can lighten up a conversation are jokes. If both of you are laughing and having a good time while your getting to know each other then he could be worth it to go on a date or maybe more later on.

those are some of my things that I do to meet new people. I hope this helps you find someone so you dont have to spend it alone. I know it can be tough being alone, but dont worry the one will come I know you'll find him one day.


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