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My wife cheated.

posted 12/2/2008 4:02:43 PM |
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So here I am after about a little over a month having been separated from my wife. She initially suggested a separation because she fell out of love with me. About a week later I asked her if she was having an affair and she admitted it to me. From there everything went downhill and she has moved out, got an apartment and we are sharing the kids every other 3 days and won't talk to me at all about us. I'm still holding out hope, maybe I'm foolish, but I realize I need to meet other people too. Am I crazy? Any suggestions? I still love her, but she may not ever come around, then again she may. I realize these things take time, but the uncertainty sucks. I also feel like I'm doing what is in my heart, but I may be opening myself up to further hurt down the road. Right now I'm just waiting to see what happens, but in the meantime I'm doing things for myself and trying to meet other women. I may find someone else I like and realize that there was a reason for us to split.

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straightup_9

Dec 2 @ 4:13PM  
Too much time waiting on the bus, will cause you to miss your Flight.....

She said she doesn't love you, and is screwing another guy...Move on, Dude....

...And, as a word of advice...File for Divorce, citing Adultry, Otherwise, you are gonna lose more than just a wife.
ynot7769

Dec 2 @ 6:18PM  
sounds a little one sided to me.......jmho
girlcountry

Dec 2 @ 6:57PM  
Get on with your life...bitter experience has taught me that we mourn what should have been and then get in a rut...move on. she's having an affair, if she's done it once, chances are it will happen again...jmo
mrknowuwell

Dec 2 @ 7:42PM  
what they said ^^^^^
straddle_fun

Dec 2 @ 8:38PM  
I seem to agree with straightup...but also like to hear both sides of the story...Whats her email address.... .only joking...
Sunshine79

Dec 2 @ 9:20PM  
It's nice that your still holding out hope and probably because you still love her and because you have kids. But, you need to go out and meet others. Take it slow. Don't go jumping into anything. Just casual friends. Get out and meet people. See where things go. Maybe she needs a breather from you to realize that she really does miss you and love you. Maybe after being with someone else she'll realize what she had with you. I've seen that happen before....Good luck man!
lunanegra

Dec 2 @ 9:53PM  
Too much time waiting on the bus, will cause you to miss your Flight.....

Very wise words. I can apply that to me being in love with someone who hurt me as well. But what he said,and what everyonelse said...also,meeting someone new will get your mind off it even if for a little bit. I'm sorry it happened to you,but very romantic you still care about her.

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My wife cheated.