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Epiphany 1: When I Realized Its Lovemaking (Not Sex) To Me

posted 11/16/2008 11:56:05 PM |
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I am not judgmental. Some people can engage in sex--that is, in a mere gratification of the genitals that is devoid of emotional content. I can't. I realized I felt this way when I hooked up with Keisha (not her real name), a lovely black young lady on another "sex" website. She suggested mere sex with her first two emails to me. It would be inappropriate to tell verbatim these emails said but they were just about physical pleasure alone. The communications that followed from Keisha were so affectionate, however, that I knew she intended to make love to me when we met. Not only did she make this clear in private phone calls, text messages, and im's but she made this clear by posting on erotic story I wrote that she intended to make love to me.

She warmed my heart and I was amazed that I met so dear a human being on what I foolishly thought was a "sleazy" website. By the time we met to share intimate pleasure I felt great affection. I had repeatedly told her I loved her in our communications and I did the same when we took each others' clothes off and started exploring each others' naked bodies. Lol! She was really good at inspiring affection! I was far more into her than she was into me. But eventually came to love and miss me too, especially when it was a long time between our lovemaking sessions. Also our love grew the more we met to pleasure each other. Sad ending: she ended up getting married to a black guy instead of me but we are still great friends and at least, I value her as the greatest friend I ever had. She called me her teacher who taught me about sex techniques and how most effectively to give and receive pleasure. She was the real teacher, however, since she taught me about loving and connecting through the parts of the body most full of nerve endings: pussies, cocks, asshole, lips, and other delightful places-- places with "dirty" names seemingly but places that (in my opinion) offer us the greatest opportunity to show another consenting adult a kind of love we associate with God, who blesses humanity with the pleasure that is Heaven. I love you, Keisha, and I always will.

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