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posted 10/28/2008 1:34:00 PM |
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  sue1968

Ok I need about three years ago during one of the many breakups my ex and I had I met a man on my messenger. He asked me if I wanted to have phone sex (something I had never done before). I am actually very shy and it is hard for me to express myself. Anyway after a few days I decided what the hell you only live once. So I jumped right in a loved every minute of it. During the past three years when my ex and I would break up somehow he always seemed to sense it and he would call and well you know we kept it up.
So now my ex and I are over for good I am done and my phone sex man called me last night. Let me say after three years we have a really good mind connection and that man can say things to me that makes me wanthim so badly it just about kills me
So here is my fear, he wants to meet in person and as he says become one with me, I am scared that if we do this we will lose the connection we have. I have told him this and he says baby that will never happen. So I ask your opinions should I jump in and go for it or leave it as the way it is? PLEASE!!!!!!
Sue

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Hotlovin69

Oct 28 @ 1:41PM  
I love having phone sex !! So if you need a new guy to talk to I'm here
1bunny629

Oct 28 @ 1:44PM  
I guess it just depends on who he really is?! Do you know anything about him other than he is good at the phone sex?
dmbchick420

Oct 28 @ 1:44PM  
If you connect that way over the phone, you will probably have a connection in person....I say GO FOR IT!!
mrknowuwell

Oct 28 @ 1:57PM  
u never let me call ya
Lisa46

Oct 28 @ 2:03PM  
There are questions YOU need to ask yourself.
Have you seen a current picture?
Do you have anything in common besides sex?
Is this what YOU want???

If you can answer these honestly go for it!
themama

Oct 28 @ 2:10PM  
I'm w/ Lisa on this one..
mattyman141

Oct 28 @ 2:48PM  
I dont know about phone sex but if you want e-mail sex i'm willing!
slohand_47

Oct 28 @ 3:06PM  
Is losing "what you have" really your biggest fear? There are a LOT of possibilities here. From what you wrote, I'd say he's looking for a FWB at the least. Or maybe that's all he wants. Would that hurt your feelings? You need to consider all the "what if's" and figure out just what it is you want...... what you can deal with and what you can't.

For what it's worth, I had a FWB who put off meeting me for 8 YEARS! When she finally felt secure enough to go for it........ she commented....... what the hell did I waste 8 years for?

Sometimes reality is a let down.
Sometimes it's SO much better than you dreamed.
Who knows.
Sunshine79

Oct 28 @ 4:35PM  
Did ya at least get a picture first??? Not benig a smartass....bu meeting without a picture can be disasterous!!!

I'd say go for it!
Aristophanes717

Oct 28 @ 4:37PM  
Wish I could be your phone sex guy. But I too would want to meet you and fuck. You only live once.
soft_touch938

Oct 28 @ 6:11PM  
Well the Mother in me just says....be careful. You're a big girl so you probably know all the lectures a Mom would give....safety first, meet in a safe public place and so on.

Just make it clear that you are under no obligation once you meet. If you don't click then it ends there and goes back to sexy voices on the phone....although if you don't click in person, it may ruin the phone thingy.

Good luck. Let us know what you decide....
NightOfOld

Oct 28 @ 7:06PM  

Darn, ... left out again.
keepinganeyeout

Oct 28 @ 8:22PM  
Tuff call
call me paranoid but I would have to wonder if he knew my ex......
seems he always knew when you 2 were broke up

sorry if that wasnt much help...jmho
sugarnspice005

Oct 28 @ 8:56PM  
Well..does he know what you look like? Do you know what he looks like? I agree with the suggestion of meeting in a public place first off. I would also wonder about how he would know when you and your ex broke up. But, that's just me. My late fiance' always used to say, "go with your gut instinct, it rarely ever lets you down."

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