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  CompleteMadness

looking for sexual partners, not necessarily relationships. photos please. dont necessarily have a specific fantasy, but would love to have more than one orgasm in more than one way one night.

I recently got a proposition from a woman on another site. Considering I'm generally starting the initial contact(and getting shot down <.<) this is, for me, a bit of a mindfuck.

As I am prone to thinking, I began to come up with a few options I could take here.

1)Ask her questions if there's anything in particular she's seeking in bed.

Problem: If I start off asking questions about sex, she may think I'm looking for a blow and go(yet she does state she's not looking for a relationship), and blow me off.

2) Ask questions about her, and try and get to know her a little better.

Problem: She may think I'm looking for a relationship, shoot me down, and pay no attention at my attempts at explanation.

3) Tell her I'm down to get down and ask when is she able to meet/how we go about this.

Problem: See 1

I don't want to screw this up, but I honestly have no idea how to proceed. So, I ask of you, the experienced, how do I proceed?

Please! Help me out!

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clickedanad2

Oct 11 @ 10:06PM  
"thanks for your note, would you care to chat first or meet?"
CompleteMadness

Oct 11 @ 10:21PM  
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After reading that, all I can think is "Common Sense isn't so common."


I can tear apart any kind of firearm or electronic device, clean it, and put it back together in five minutes, but I can't think of something as simple as that.

... I'm doomed, aren't I?
clickedanad2

Oct 11 @ 10:29PM  
you aren't doomed
you need to practise
start slow - don't push it
never seem too eager
but never aloof - standoffish either
don't panic - have fun
1bunny629

Oct 11 @ 10:32PM  
When a man is used to taking the initiative it freaks him out when the woman does. He feels completely out of control. This can be very uncomfortable. It isn't very often a real woman says she just wnats to have NSA. I could be wrong, and it doesn't matter, but my intuition tells me ya might be getting in a situation that could be unhealthy physically. It is already clear that the suggestion has you confused mentally. Be very aware of what you could be getting into. There are situations that could arise that you might not be able to handle. I would ask some questions. be thorough in your ivestigation. take it from one who knows. Ya could get hurt. I mean physically. Seriously. But then again if ya want to take your chances say what Click offered and roll with it dude!
1bunny629

Oct 11 @ 10:44PM  
definition..."a real woman"...one that isn't a scammer! sorry. that real man real woman thing has come up lately. I was only refering to one that isn't a scammer.
CompleteMadness

Oct 11 @ 11:10PM  
Hmmm, words of wisdom indeed.

Teach me, Click-Sensei!

And Bunny, thanks for bringing that to mind. I got excited, didn't consider the possibility. If it's wiggy, I've got 14 years of Martial Arts to work with. Yet, I'll definately make sure to ask the right questions.
dmbchick420

Oct 13 @ 10:25AM  
Be up front and honest. Tell her what you are looking for and if this interests her and then go from there I think it's best to just get it all out in the open rather than beating around the bush! So...I'd go with "Tell her I'm down to get down and ask when is she able to meet/how we go about this."


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