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posted 10/8/2008 7:02:52 PM |
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I keep hearing terms like "Be a real man" " Real Men should treat a woman like..." "Real men don't act that way"

I never hear about what a woman is to be like or how a lady is suppose to act.

What I would like to hear are some opinions on what it is to be a "Real Woman(lady)"

would a man answering what a woman is suppose to be like come off as sexist?

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lunanegra

Oct 8 @ 7:29PM  
Well,the definitions of how a woman is supposed to act differs from generation to generation,from culture to culture. I don't think this answer will be absolute.
Sunshine79

Oct 8 @ 7:57PM  
Damn....I don't know what to say. I'll check back later and see how everyone else chimes in....doesn't look like it's gonna be good.....
lunanegra

Oct 8 @ 8:08PM  
Ok,since you asked...

In my opinion...she's sweet,but never cloying;honest,but not to the point where she eviscerates;tough when she has to be tough. I think a real woman has to have been through a great deal and come out unscathed with dignity intact,thats what I think...

My mom's a real woman,I'm still a girl..
Sunshine79

Oct 8 @ 8:15PM  
Ummm, I found this...hope it helps!

A real woman is true to herself.
She holds her head up high.
She doesn't waddle in pity;
or sit back and cry.


A real woman is a survivor.
She can stand on her own feet.
With God by her side,
she can't be beat.


A real woman has courage;
she has spunk and grace.
Even when she's down,
she has a smile upon her face.


A real woman will make it.
A real woman will excel.
She will keep on striving,
whether she wins or fails.


Copyright © 2007 Gwynita Leggington
All Rights Reserved.


Sunshine79

Oct 8 @ 8:18PM  
Oh....and a definition of a Real Man:

A real man is one who shows respect to his Mother and Father. A real man treats his friends and family and strangers on the street with the same respect as well. A real man loves his children and wife and stays through the thick and the thin. A man that will never lift his hand to a woman's face. Who will treat her like a lady with dignity and respect always. Who shows her how much he truly cares and loves her by telling her and surprising her with flowers at work or home. Cooking dinner and telling her to just put your feet up honey and let me handle the dishes and putting the kids to bed. A real man takes time to teach and show his kids the proper way to go about disputes and teaches them values in life. A real man teaches his children how to respect others and to be kind by example. And when in the presence of his wife, he shows them tenderness and compassion while holding her close. (Nothing un PG) A real man will see someone in distress and offer to help. Real men seek and praise God with their wives and family. Real men do the best they can, they don't cheat, steal or lie to get their way. They are humble, honest and their heart's are soft with love and compassion. Real men can be gentle as a lamb with their wife, children, family and friends. And can be fierce as a lion with offenders. We are both protectors and lovers....... Blessings~

Source(s):
The Bible, Pastor & Mother~
Ewe_Wish

Oct 8 @ 8:41PM  
Well Sunshine gave you the answer...........nuff said!!



Great comments sunshine wish i could give you a kudo for your comments.....
friendwperks

Oct 8 @ 9:07PM  
I see a lot of specifics in relation to a man and his women and children here. another great example of what it means to be a man. but notice the few answers on what it takes to be a woman are usually vague and nonspecific to the relation to her man or children.

Ewe_Wish

Oct 8 @ 9:20PM  
A real woman who is happy with herself will show that by how she treats the man she is with.............the same goes for the real man...........


I love the term "real" in relationship with women and men...........so the other side of the coin would be cardboard cutouts??

flavorbuster

Oct 8 @ 9:55PM  
These are genuine good people true to form w/ excellent comments
belle1010

Oct 9 @ 12:12AM  
A real woman is true to herself.
She holds her head up high.
She doesn't waddle in pity;
or sit back and cry.


A real woman is a survivor.
She can stand on her own feet.
With God by her side,
she can't be beat.


A real woman has courage;
she has spunk and grace.
Even when she's down,
she has a smile upon her face.


A real woman will make it.
A real woman will excel.
She will keep on striving,
whether she wins or fails.


Copyright © 2007 Gwynita Leggington
All Rights Reserved.

I like that, and i think it's pretty accurate. In my opinion a "real" person, be they male or female treats others as they would like to be treated. Don't you agree??
dmbchick420

Oct 9 @ 9:06AM  
confident, sexy, intelligent, classy...that's my opinion of a real woman
Detach

Oct 9 @ 1:58PM  
I know I am so sick of hearing these maury povich women yelling at the guy to "be a man" simply because they deny they are the father or deny paying child support if they are found to be the father. She wouldn't have gotten into this mess if she were more responsible. Dumb bitches need to step up and be a lady.

A real woman-
• Won't call herself classy, because that's just unclassy.
• Won't wear fake acrylic nails.
• Won't wear tight or minimal clothing if they are overweight.
• Won't get overweight in the first place.
• If they don't have a problem with fornication, won't have a problem with abortion.
• Has kids that all have the same last name (from the same father).
• Don't wear hair extensions.
• Don't appear on Maury Povich, Jerry Springer, Dr. Phil.
• Don't retrieve a used condom from the trash to attempt to fertilize themselves.
• Don't drink a beer while breastfeeding (Just heard about that story just now).

There's a small list to get started.
lunanegra

Oct 9 @ 2:27PM  
Uhm,Detach...you know that most of those people appearing on Povich are actors,right?

Also,it seems like someone has a few hang-ups about women...about as many hang-ups as I have about men. We'd be a match,but I forgot...I'm fat.
dmbchick420

Oct 9 @ 2:32PM  
Yeah...I don't know if I'm too keen on the whole "won't get overweight in the first place" comment. I mean..yes, women should take care of themselves and not eat McCrap every day and at least TRY to keep themselves in shape, BUT what about the women that have children? You blow up like a whale when you are prego and then have the kid and it's like a deflating balloon!!! Just my 2 cents.
ynot7769

Oct 10 @ 2:30PM  
Sunshine put a good answer up ........


THIS is just too much ............
I know I am so sick of hearing these maury povich women yelling at the guy to "be a man

dude! Maury Povich?? are you fuckin kidding me

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