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Howcome??? I don't understand.....??? Opinions please?

posted 10/3/2008 11:49:26 AM |
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  Sunshine79

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Why is it that when your single you can't find anyone to fuck you and when your taken, everyone is knocking at your door? I never could quite understand that.

When your in a relation ship and someone wants you is it because they want what they can't have??

But, when your single, no one wants to talk to you??

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rescueremedy

Oct 3 @ 11:56AM  
I think it is because you are taken ..... or they didn`t read your profile and think you are single JMHO.
dmbchick420

Oct 3 @ 11:59AM  
hmmm...I dunno I seem to have the same problem!
Sunshine79

Oct 3 @ 11:59AM  
I think it is because you are taken ..... or they didn`t read your profile and think you are single JMHO.


Oh...wasn't about me...it was a question in general. A single friend here was bitching that she can't get laid and she's beautiful. And here I'm taken, not looking and I get tons of messages....Why is that??

You got a pretty gal here, waiting for some cock and no one wants to give it up? Why?
rescueremedy

Oct 3 @ 12:03PM  
I bet , the men are asking the same question ...There are some very good looking men on here .
chris801

Oct 3 @ 12:13PM  
Ive always thought that if are single and cant get laid is because people see as single and assume that your single because your damaged in some way,then when your taken they think that there is something good about you and they all want it
mrknowuwell

Oct 3 @ 12:20PM  
now that i am single.....all i hear is.....baaaaa......baaaa...baaaaaa
Hotlovin69

Oct 3 @ 12:47PM  
Hey I have that problem also.... or you get e-mails from people you would never fuck in your life !!
onehornytoad69

Oct 3 @ 1:16PM  
Why is it that when your single you can't find anyone to fuck you and when your taken, everyone is knocking at your door?
Sweety, I dont think that You would have that Problem!!!

I dont.... But I just dont frigg anyone!!!
I had a Old FWB ask me this Morning at 2 am... "When are you gonna Settle down!"(I guess she didnt know its been almost a year since I have had any sex... )
I didnt wanna hurt her feelings.. but I Really Wanna settle down with just one lady... But I cant find her!!!

Your new "Posted Pic"... is Awesome!! If you think You have had it bad before.. just watch and see!!
onehornytoad69

Oct 3 @ 1:19PM  
You got a pretty gal here, waiting for some cock and no one wants to give it up? Why?
who is she?? I bet she has turned me DOWN!! Ha!!!!!
bobbierob

Oct 3 @ 1:28PM  

That is an excellent question... I have experienced the same things.... I think that when I am spoken for, I can be friendly and nice to the girls and they seem to be interested, but when I am looking, I can be nice and friendly, but they seem not interested.

Perhaps there is some sort of signal of confidence that one gives off when he/she is spoken for that is especially attractive.

Looking4ever

Oct 3 @ 1:50PM  
I think it's because you are not focused on the looking aspect. I don't know that I necessarily get more attention when I am attached but I do know that I am not focused on it, you know?
baldbychoice2kx

Oct 3 @ 2:03PM  
I'm taken and all of a sudden I can't get laid to save my life. No, I take that back. I could get laid if I wanted to have a threesome with my friend and his wife.

However, I've had this happen all my life. If I'm in a relationship, it's like women come out of the woodwork and come after me. If I'm single, it's a total dry spell.

I think it's the attitude and vibes you give off when you're in a relationship and all happy. You project that to others and they pick up on it and it makes you more desirable.

Just my opinion.
Ewe_Wish

Oct 3 @ 2:08PM  
Cause if its good its already taken..............is the opinion of a lot of ppl................

and sometimes when people are single they are so focused on the fact that they are alone that they dont realize someone just might be interested in them......and then they whine cause they are alone.............usually to the one that is interested in them......
redbronze

Oct 3 @ 2:12PM  
it is said that when in a relationship that humans put off pheromones that attract others.. it is also said that the week before a woman is on mensis that this also happens.. SO when you finally attract them your on the rag ha ha ha...
baldbychoice2kx

Oct 3 @ 2:59PM  
Sorry, I meant to say I'm NOT taken. Cause I'm not.
REAL_UNIQUE

Oct 3 @ 3:46PM  
I believe some like going after what they can not have. If you are single very long, some could wonder if something is wrong with you and that you are not relationship worthy.
lynxkat

Oct 3 @ 3:59PM  
I think it may be the attitude - "I don't need ya." Years ago, I went out to singles dances. When I had the worst attitude, when I was sarcastic and aloof, the guys were all over me. It was "taking my bad attitude out for the night." And, yes, I was as single as a person can get!

lunanegra

Oct 3 @ 5:03PM  
it is said that when in a relationship that humans put off pheromones that attract others..

That's true;something with evolutionary biology...blah blah blah...males competing with other males to spread their genetic material,etc


I'm gonna have to start saying I have someone if that's the case. When I did have some semblance of a relationship,guys(and girls) couldn't leave me alone apparently.
keepinganeyeout

Oct 3 @ 5:19PM  
I am me
I am happy with me
People respond
Negativity is repulsive, as is neediness, impatience, and so is your life story where you portray yourself as the victim of everyone else you were ever involved with. jmo
nativeamr35

Oct 3 @ 5:20PM  
I still hold to the idea that a wedding band gets me laid far more than without.

Now who said sex ends with marriage????

StraddleMyNose

Oct 3 @ 6:07PM  
It makes ya look more desireable to people when you're taken
rnj1013

Oct 3 @ 6:24PM  
hook me up with her sunshine
Looking4ever

Oct 3 @ 7:09PM  
So, I should say that I am taken?
flavorbuster

Oct 3 @ 7:29PM  
I guess its the nature of the beast .... its a passing phase both genders go through .... Being taken has been mentioned & I think human instinct of a challenge plays a big role .... The test of what you think might cant have or get tends to make one put out more of an effort to be w/ a person of this magnitude for a lot of reasons ... Think about it ... you appreciate something you work for more than something easily obtained !!!!
manwithoutahorse

Oct 3 @ 9:30PM  
Many people are fearful of commitment. If someone is taken, they won't ask for the same level of commitment as someone who is single.safer. Like the dog who chases cars, wouldn't know what to do with it if he caught it. So he/she never really tries to find someone who is available.
slohand_47

Oct 3 @ 11:11PM  
A single friend here was bitching that she can't get laid and she's beautiful.

She must not be looking very hard.
Or, her standards are very high, and... that's ok too....
CompleteMadness

Oct 3 @ 11:37PM  
If someone can figure this out, please tell me. I got girls all over me when I was in a relationship, than single. The worst part is I'm not that good looking, and they were into me.

Life is confusing.
DarkFairyTale

Oct 4 @ 1:51AM  
i'll take yah anytime sunshineee..woottt wottt...day or night..single or not..ahaha just kidding with u..but i know what u mean....literally...believe me...ahhahahaha..guess ppl just cant read or they take the "status" sign as a joke.. stupid losers ..lol
hot4you120

Oct 4 @ 12:04PM  
WELL I THINK ITS EASIER TO HIT ON SOMEONE WHO IS TAKEN CAUSE IF YOU GET LET DOWN YOU DONT FEEL AS BAG CAUSE SHE WAS TAKEN ANYWAYS. AND YOUR FRIEND CAN GET AHOLD OF ME I HAVE A COCK LOL

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Howcome??? I don't understand.....??? Opinions please?