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A Rebuttal to "Why are these Women so angry?"

posted 11/25/2006 10:35:10 PM |
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Granted, she makes a good point or two in her blog, but I take issue to some of what her blog said as far as not being able to find a relationship on a sex site with anyone, and that most if not everyone on here are seeking a one night stand. Yes, I do have a very high sex drive, but I consider myself to be a respectful nice guy to everyone, and I personally don't believe in one night stands for myself (and I'm sure a lot of others feel the same way). Actually, I know a lot of men and women on here that are seeking sex, but that's just a small part of what they're seeking, and there's more to us than just sex. A lot of people on this site are very good people and respectful of others, and to urge angry women with no self respect to cancel their accounts on here just because they're not going to find descent people on a site like this is what I have a problem with, only because that's not true, and to indicate that most if not everyone on here have no self respect. These women you are referring to may have some issues, but don't discredit all of us on this site because you want to "help" certain women with issues! All of you, should I take offense to what her blog stated, or am I over reacting a bit? I don't think I am. Just the fact that she's trying to encorage certain women to cancel their accounts on here because she feels like they have no self respect. Honestly, what does that say about us then? I don't like going around and picking at people, that's just not my style, but when I feel strongly for or against something, I'm going to speak my mind in a respectful way.

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Nov 25 @ 11:28PM  
As you know, it is possible to find more than just sex on this site, there are more examples of this popping up all the time. I don't see the difference between this and any other dating site at the core. The only differences i can see are the nature of the pictures that can be posted, and some of the language used. We are still here to attract a partner, granted there are a good majority that are looking only for sex. Sex is a big part of a relationship, couples have broken up because of the quality or quantity. I thought the blogs were a place to air your gripes and concerns, to voice your opinion. If she doesn't want to read those, then pass right on by, that's her choice.

Nov 26 @ 1:07AM  
Taking a DEEP breathe here.......ok.....counting to 10......that didn't work.....I'm still highly irritated. I take huge acception to what she said.

When I first signed up on this site, I had very explicite things listed in my profile. Explicit enough to attract the good bad and the ugly. I figured I brought it on myself, laughed off the bad and the ugly and moved on. My intentions when I originally signed up were to have some fun, meet some people and go from there. Then I got an email from a man who saw great contradictions in what I wrote and emailed me. And in talking with each other we've fallen in love. I met the man of my dreams and we will soon be married. So don't say you can't meet the man of your dreams or find more than you originally were looking for because I know for certainty that it CAN happen.

So when she says "Ladies, you aren't going to find a relationship in a place where everyone is seeking sex" it really ticks me off. You might or might not find your mate on this site, but it's not because of a picture or your words. What gives someone the right to judge anyone? Obvious her life isn't all what she wants or why would she be on this site to begin with?

I didn't lie, I didn't mis-represent myself, and because I wrote explicit things doesn't mean that I deserve smarmy assholes treating me like dirt and it doesn't mean anyone has the right to judge me. I have always respected myself, regardless of the words I posted.

Nov 26 @ 1:32AM  

Nov 26 @ 3:55AM  
I know for certainty that it CAN happen.

I won't be redundant, though I could list those that I just know IT did happen for

Nov 26 @ 4:55AM  
i just go on the mindset of I'll meet interesting people on here. if it leads to something more, cool, If not, then that's cool as well. better than bitching about it :)

Nov 26 @ 6:32AM  
After reading her blog and checking her age, I came to my own conclusions (ahhhh to be young and think you know everything) and moved on to more entertaining and/or insightful blogs. We all have the right to speak our minds as long as we don't step too hard on toes (purposefully or not) or disrespect other's opinions/ values/beliefs.

As for me, so far I've only met two guys from this site after tons of one-time dates with a lot of men from "non adult" sites. Both of the ones from here surpassed almost all I've met elsewhere; both were very intelligent, witty, passionate, respectful and oh soooooooo sexy.

Nov 26 @ 2:03PM  
Feel however you wish, that's what reading inspires---- emotions! You can lump yourself into the catagory of men looking for more than a good time like a relationship that leads to something long term, or a guy who doesn't like complication and things made easy. Maybe, you can even have both! It's however you perceive yourself that leads to you being offended or understated.

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A Rebuttal to "Why are these Women so angry?"