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posted 9/22/2008 1:51:32 PM |
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It's not an "angry" blog this time *gasp* lol

Okay, so I met this girl online this past summer (a different site - not this one ) and we hit it off great, not to mention the sex we had together was phenomenal. So, we had planned to get together again that same weekend and she told me to call her and we'd get together. I called her and she didn't call me back. The following week I emailed her and she said she was sorry but that her back was bothering her and she didn't get out of bed until like 4:30..or something like that. Couple more times of the same thing...made call, no show, no return calls.

Just an FYI about this girl I"m talking about: She injured her back at work over a year ago and is in therapy and takes narcotics regularly. I figured I would give it a little time and see if I hear from her because I was getting tired of trying to contact her and getting no response. Finally, after about a week or so of not hearing anything I emailed her:

I just thought I’d send you a message and see if I get a response this time. Just wondering what the hell happened. I thought you and I hit it off pretty good and had a lot of shit in common and then all of the sudden you fell off the face of the earth it seems. I guess now I’m just curious what happened and if you are even still interested in pursuing anything further now. If you aren’t, an answer back would be appreciated. I think just ignoring me is kinda…well…rude. No, you don’t owe me a thing…except an answer back and if you aren’t interested, well I’ll leave you alone and that’s that. Seriously, what the hell is up? And if you just wanted a one night stand, why didn’t we get that out in the open instead of acting like we were going to be friends and shit. I don’t know…I’m just confused and would like an answer is all. I really do feel that I’m entitled to one.

And now FINALLY 10 days later....I get this response:

You are entitled to an explination, and I can only apologize (though at this point it might be in vain) for your explination 10 days after your message was sent.

I fell down on August 28th, and dislocated my right kneecap, while screwing up my back even more. I fortunately won't need surgery on my knee, but I've been wearing a brace, getting injections, and walking with a cane. I fell down because apparently my L5-S1 disk, which was only bulging, is now ruptured, and it caused my siatic nerve to basically "freeze" and lock my whole leg up. I smashed my knee on the corner of the coffee table. I'm really fortunate I didn't break it, and I'm even more lucky I was inside and fell on carpet instead of concrete.

I never wanted a one-night-stand, and if you'd like, you can message almost anyone on my top friends to see if they've heard from me, because they haven't. I've been hiding in my house, I haven't been to work in weeks, and I pretty much have been a bitter, depressed mess since then.

I guess all I can do is apologize to you, though I feel like it's not enough. If you don't want to talk to me, I totally understand, no hard feelings, and please don't feel like I'm guilt-tripping you because I'm not. I'm a mess, and you shouldn't have had to suffer for that. If you still want to talk, hang out, and anything else, I would honestly love that. My knee is still killing me, but my orthopedist says that in about a week or two it should be well enough to take off the stupid brace...I hope.

Well, if you feel so inclined, message me back. If not, then I'm sorry.

So, now I'm not sure. I pretty much had written her off and figured she got what she wanted and didn't really care to talk to me anymore. I totally understand her situation and even offered to help her out with grocery shopping, etc, but then just got pissed that I was being ignored and she couldn't take 2 friggin seconds to send me an email or pick up the phone. I really like her, I'm really attracted to her, and we got along so well.

So what would you do?

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Sep 22 @ 2:26PM  
I had bilateral knee replacement surgery last year and for 4 months did not want to communicate with anyone.I kind of wished that my friends would have come over to keep me company instead of phoning me.
If she doesn`t live far,why don`t you try that.Give her that chance.I didn`t want phone calls or emails,I wanted visitors.

Julie Lynne

Sep 22 @ 2:51PM  
If you were really interested in her, I'd give it a go. What's the worse that can happen? But, on the flip side, what is the best that can happen. Take her word for it and try again.

Sep 23 @ 12:07AM  
It sounds like she is Really Depressed!!! and She needs a Friend BAD!!!!!!!!!
Not for Sex.. but a really good friend!! It could be the Narc's she is on... or maybe she is Bipolar...?
My X did what she said she did.. while being depressed!!! and that Is Very Serious stuff!
My 2 cents!

Sep 23 @ 12:35AM  
dude, she's probably full of shit, she couldn't even make a fucking effort to send you an e-mail.. i would tell her to go fuck off and die..and find somebody who serious about returning the love you put into a relationship....but, that's my opinion...mark

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Need some advice please :-)