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posted 9/16/2008 4:04:09 AM |
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Last night I got a text from LilGriz.. not like that's an unusual thing, but all he told me was that Janet Jackson was on Fox28.
Now for those of you who don't know him very well, she is his fantasy woman. Her looks, her body, her intelligence, her attitude, her voice...... Everythng about Janet Jackson. Well at least he has good taste.....

So I texted him back and ask if he was drooling yet... All I got was, "yeah". Hmm, too busy watching the TV to say much at that point.. lol
A little while later we were talking on the phone and I was teasing him a little about it.
Somewhere in the conversation as we were laughing and kiddding about him liking her, I jokingly told him that I would understand if he had sex with her....I don't think I would even get mad about it...

Now, anyone who even remotely knows me, knows that I Do NOT share!! But come on this is Janet....lol Now, if he ever actually meets her... lol

Later, being the insomniac that I am, I was flipping through channels and came across a video of hers. I just smiled to myself thinking of our earlier conversation and hoped he was sleeping. He hasn't been doing that much lately either.. Darn, if we were in the same place, not sleeping together we could find interesting things to do in the middle of the night.. ...But I digress.....

I had told him to have sweet dreams before we hung up... Now this made me think of someone I used to know who once broke up with her boyfriend of almost 2 years because he told her about a sexual dream he had about someone other than her.. She was livid. If he really loved her and didn't want to cheat on her, why was he having dreams about someone else??? He suddenly was a cheater, liar and didn't really love her or wouldn't be having these dreams. It was crazy!

I discovered then there is jealous and then there is psycho jealous bitch from hell.

So, what are your thoughts on dreams, or someone having a sexual dream about someone other than their partner/significant other ? Would it bother you? If you had a sexual dream about someone else would feel you had done something wrong?

Well it's late and I'm going to bed. Maybe I'll have a really good dream.....

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Looking4ever

Sep 16 @ 6:13AM  
How can dreams be cheating? I mean, yeah, if you are not satisfied with your partner at all and all you do is day dream about sex with someone else, maybe you should dig a little deeper and see if you shouldn't fix it now or end it. But, a real dream, during sleep? You can not control that. It's silly to think you can. But, yeah, maybe you might want to think about keeping your mouth shut about it too!
ynot7769

Sep 16 @ 6:21AM  
aint it ok long as you don't scream out a name?? lol j/k.

for ME dreams can't be cheating ...tho i might wonder what was soo good so i might make it come true in life
onehornytoad69

Sep 16 @ 7:29AM  
I wish we could but We cant control our Dreams!!
If we could.. I'd make up an schedule...of whom "to do" each and every night!!!
Lets see... I'd do Faith Hill.... tonight, Mrs. Twain tomorrow night ., Jodie Foster the next night...(she is no doll, but I have a thang for her... go figure! LOL)
So No.... I Dont think its Cheating!
1bunny629

Sep 16 @ 8:33AM  
Yeah...what Toad said! If I could schedule my dreams I wouldn't need cable. My ex used to get so jealous because of my SMALL LIFETIME CRUSH on SAM ELLIOTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ouch, jealousy is the root of all eveil. Dreams, can't be controled...talking about them can! Believe me...I will never tell a man about my crushes or my dreams.
Sunshine79

Sep 16 @ 8:44AM  
I dream sex constantly....with random people.....Guess I'm a Dream Whore!! LMAO
Ewe_Wish

Sep 16 @ 9:41AM  
At least you have janet jackson to contend with.............i have Lily tomlin........

Well i hope dreams arent cheating or you and i both have a lot of explaining to do.............

If you dreamt you robbed a bank..........should you go to prison?
if you dreamt you murdered someone......should you get the death sentence?
If you dreamt you bought a car...........do you need to make the payments?


Dreams are just dreams.............and anyone jealous of somene for dreaming about somoene other than them selves.........needs a lot of help and was probably looking for a way to break up anyway......cause thats just crazy. jmo
casuallylooking

Sep 16 @ 10:14AM  
tho i might wonder what was soo good so i might make it come true in life
Yeap, that would be my thought....

At least you have janet jackson to contend with.............i have Lily tomlin........
Umm, Dayna.....I'm not so sure I would ever admit to that.. Don't get me wrong, I like Lily Tomlin and all..but Janet really is hawt..I'm just sayin' lmao
btw...tell him he got the better of the two..
or you and i both have a lot of explaining to do.............

shhh, I'm still working on that sweet innocent personna...remember? I'm not quite sure it's working, but hey...a girl can dream...can't she?

Jodie Foster the next night...(she is no doll, but I have a thang for her... go figure! LOL)
Alex, I know quite a few men...and a couple women...who have a thing for Jodie Foster.
Now, on the nights that you are dreaming of Faith Hill, could you find out if Tim McGraw is busy in anyone else's dreams.....

SMALL LIFETIME CRUSH on SAM ELLIOTT
Just a 'small' one huh? Sam Elliot has sex appeal...between his voice, his bad ass who cares attitude and that grin that always says he is up to something.

If we could control our dreams, no one would ever have nightmares that scare them so badly they can't go back to sleep...or dream of someone they love being hurt. And I would probably sleep more often....




theSkwirl

Sep 16 @ 10:19AM  
Dreams are dreams, the mind's way of processing information we don't get in waking state.

People who get upset about someone's sex dream are most likely the same who equate sex with love.. and have low self-esteem.
keepinganeyeout

Sep 16 @ 12:02PM  
At least you have janet jackson to contend with.............i have Lily tomlin

Relax girl !!! Your the only one who can Ringy my Dingy in person
Ewe_Wish

Sep 16 @ 12:12PM  
Relax girl !!! Your the only one who can Ringy my Dingy in person
Well thats a relief....................one less thing to worry about.......
Wordsofwit

Sep 16 @ 1:17PM  
All of my naughty dreams involve people that don't exist, so I'm covered.
Ewe_Wish

Sep 16 @ 2:25PM  
All of my naughty dreams involve people that don't exist, so I'm covered.
Is that a new version of imaginary friends?
dakota323

Sep 16 @ 2:58PM  
ANAIS NIN:
Dreams pass into the reality of action. From the actions stems the dream again; and this interdependence produces the highest form of living.


ANAIS NIN:
The dream was always running ahead of me. To catch up, to live for a moment in unison with it, that was the miracle.


ANAIS NIN:
Dreams are necessary to life.


ANATOLE FRANCE:
To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.


CARL JUNG:
Your vision will become clear only when you look into your heart. Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside, awakens.


CARL SANDBURG:
Nothing happens unless first a dream.


CARL SANDBURG:
Nothing happens unless first we dream.
LilGriz

Sep 16 @ 6:07PM  
So I texted him back and ask if he was drooling yet

Well, at least I had a towel on my chest to catch all the drool - I'm at least a little house-broken....

I would rather have these types of dreams than nightmares. Course, I would probably get some more ideas for....well....happy humpin positions if I could only remember what happened in the dreams.......
casuallylooking

Sep 16 @ 7:00PM  
I'm at least a little house-broken....
Don't worry Baby, you definitely get all the right spots wet at the right times.....



LilGriz

Sep 16 @ 7:57PM  
Tasty.....

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