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Okay i was listening to a radio program in my car. This man is 27 & a virgin, has been engaged for 3 years & has never even kissed her. He has never seen a naked woman & is going to wait til they get married. Do you think it's possible that he has really waited all this time? One man said a lot of people do this it's called courtship & it just makes that 1st time that much more special. He claims that he has never even masturbated he has been holding it in all these years...

Do you think it's true, can people really wait til they get married..I mean shouldn't you at least test the waters? what if there is no chemistry, you get married & the sex is horrible...it's not like you are out there with strangers you are marrying this person shouldn't you at least kiss?

Let me know what you think.

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Ewe_Wish

Sep 5 @ 9:21AM  
Probably he is gay........and isnt ready to come out..........JMO
NightOfOld

Sep 5 @ 9:27AM  

He must be Gay.
themama

Sep 5 @ 9:28AM  
I have heard of poeple being like this..
My 19 year old son is still a virgin.. But he has kissed a girl and man me is alway well having fun w/ himself...
But he want to find the right girl before he does have sex.. He don't want kids before marriage..
Cootiesprayer

Sep 5 @ 9:28AM  
seems everyone feels he must be gay i have to admit, i wondered the same thing. But hey some people believe in that i suppose. thanks for the comments.
themama

Sep 5 @ 9:30AM  
Damn to early in the morning I can't spell..
CAPTNORM

Sep 5 @ 9:42AM  
Based on his non sexual history and does not even kiss her? His girlfriend ought to be the one looking out.
wtxman

Sep 5 @ 10:06AM  
I am shocked at the "double standard" yet again revealed by some AMD members. If a woman said she wanted to wait untill marriage to have sex,would you also call her "gay" ?, and if you did suggest that she was "gay" I know there would be an outcry of outrage expressed here.
1bunny629

Sep 5 @ 10:20AM  
It is very apparent this young man was raised differently. there is exception to the rule. We don't know him or his girlfriend. making a judgemental call on his sexual statis is uncalled for. i wish him the best.
cottoncandydragon

Sep 5 @ 10:41AM  
I wouldn't buy a car without test driving it first.
inuyasha76

Sep 5 @ 10:45AM  
I guess if the sex is horrible, he wouldn't know the difference. Anyway, I think it's cute, but definately far from realistic. The other posts are right, he's probably gay and just still in the closet. Come on!
rescueremedy

Sep 5 @ 10:55AM  
I think a three year courtship is long ,but to each his own .I think the not kissing and not touching himself or her .....he must have a lot of control . About the Gay remark that is an opinion ....and you wanted to hear what people thought . That is just my opinion ....
theSkwirl

Sep 5 @ 11:17AM  
Happens in Hindi relationships loads. Course that's just the arranged ones with strong traditional backgrounds.
keepinganeyeout

Sep 5 @ 11:26AM  
what if there is no chemistry, you get married & the sex is horrible...
if you have never had sex, or yanked your crank...thats going to be the best sex ever because he has no comparison......
I dont buy it myself.....God gave you a goob and your not going to be curious as to what it can do? sure....and let me know when Elvis gets here
lunanegra

Sep 5 @ 12:58PM  
I am shocked at the "double standard" yet again revealed by some AMD members. If a woman said she wanted to wait untill marriage to have sex,would you also call her "gay" ?, and if you did suggest that she was "gay" I know there would be an outcry of outrage expressed here.

This.
Detach

Sep 5 @ 1:57PM  
Does it matter? Once he's married, the sex is going to happen often on the honeymoon, then taper off throughout the marriage. He'll be back to absolutely no sex in no time.
theSkwirl

Sep 5 @ 2:49PM  
shocked by double standards? Why? Why would AMD be less bizarre than the rest of the world? It's all double standards.. if he were out sluttin around and gettin his mojo worked.. he would be called a stud.. if it were a girl.. she'd be a slut or a whore..
StraddleMyNose

Sep 5 @ 8:04PM  
"double standard" yet again revealed by some AMD members. If a woman said she wanted to wait untill marriage to have sex,would you also call her "gay" ?, and if you did suggest that she was "gay" I know there would be an outcry of outrage expressed here.

Yep, I agree

It's all double standards.. if he were out sluttin around and gettin his mojo worked.. he would be called a stud.. if it were a girl.. she'd be a slut or a whore

Yep, another good point that's true. lol
Sunshine79

Sep 5 @ 8:15PM  
I think it's possible. But, how would he know the sex is horrible if he's never done it??
Cootiesprayer

Sep 5 @ 9:16PM  
Okay Skwirl youve got a point...good one. You are right on with that comment.
evild614

Sep 6 @ 12:56AM  
Stay the hell away from public places wherever this guy hails from. He's a shooting rampage waiting to happen.

Someone hold this guy down and fuck him!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvxWdnu9iDE

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