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posted 8/31/2008 10:12:32 PM |
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It seems to me that lately I've been hearing a lot about women who get angry at their men for watching porn. This is completely ridiculous to me. I remember as a teenager my stepdad getting in trouble for watching porn and even then I thought it was silly. My boyfriend's ex used to get all bent out of shape about it and when he was recovering from his motorcycle accident I would routinely rent pornos from the movie store or buy them from the sex shop and bring them home with me. We could watch them together or he could watch them alone.

I LOVE porn, especially lesbian and female masturbation porn; and my boyfriend loves watching porn with me but I don't mind if he watches alone and he doesn't mind if I watch alone. I think a good relationship is full of trust and those girls on the computer screen either turn me on or give me ideas on how to please my man so I really don't understand why some women get so upset about their men watching porn without them, as if it is some kind of betrayal. Now if your man is fucking somebody else (without your consent) that's different, but watching on a screen? It just doesn't make sense to me.

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Aug 31 @ 10:18PM  
I'm not really all that much into porn, but I see nothing wrong with anyone who wants to watch it either, even if they are in a relationship. To each his own.

Aug 31 @ 10:22PM  
My man has enuff porn to supply all of Florida & Georgia!!!
I don't mi nd it, doesn't bother me. I know who he's fuckin' at nite.....It's ME!

Aug 31 @ 11:37PM  
i like you and i like that u like porn i wish i had a gf like that id love that so much

Aug 31 @ 11:37PM  
I'm kind of under the impression they might think their significant other isn't sexy enough, so they have to go to other sources (porn) to get that kind of turn on... maybe?

Aug 31 @ 11:53PM  
my sheepies git mad at me whenever i watch.......... barnyard

Aug 31 @ 11:55PM  
I agree with you, it's not like he's a minor and you're exploiting the kid. My ex bf thought me a lot through porn, we met here on this site, he taught me adult stuff because the guy previous to him told me I don't even know how to suck a d*ck. I have nothing against porn, just not for kids though.

Sep 1 @ 12:28AM  
Now that you mention it, why do most girls have a problem with it?

I would be willing to bet it is a self worth issue. Always wondering if he likes the girl in the film better than her.

Oh well, I speak for most guys that I know when I say your love of porn is a quality I wish more girls had!

Good post!

Sep 1 @ 12:44AM  
Now if all chicks were like my wife & you! Well writen blog, someone had to say it & from an attractive girl at that.

Sep 1 @ 1:09AM  
there are women out there who don't like porn or don't let their boyfriends watch it?

Why would a guy stay with a woman like that?

Sep 1 @ 3:57AM  
It's a security thing. Most who oppose porn (besides those who just find it degrading towards their respective gender/morally decrepid) do so, because of the message it can and often does convey.

Now'adays, there's a niche for every type of woman in porn, big, petite, tall, etc etc etc. The movies, to that person, reminds them, or suggests to them, that this is what you should look like, in order to be sexually attractive/viable (I know, a bit of a misnomer, but so appropo when you think about it)

Same thing for men. You have one mold of man. He may be presented differently (such as being short[er], tall, and of course of a different diaspora), but 2 facets remain the same. They're muscullarly jacked up, and they have telephone poles for a penis. Regardless of how tough we're tought to be as men (why, still rattles my brain) The affect is the same. This is how you'd better look, if you want to be considered sexually attractive/viable.

Anectdotal side-note: It's funny how much of what you see in porn, is drug-induced. Go figure.

In real life, we have bumps. We have bellies that jut out a bit more than they should. Our chests don't all balloon out the way a 45FFF cup does. We have all sorts of things, porn never addresses. It's a bit of a persephone theory, if you ask me. (meaning it can be an awesome source of eros, and at the same time ones' worst enemy).

I happen to enjoy porn. I guess because I can intellectually enjoy it as well as just flat out be turned on.

Then again, I'm a dis-embodied voice you've never heard of. *shrugs* what do I know ?

Sep 1 @ 9:49AM  
Doesn't make sense to me either!!

Sep 1 @ 10:08AM  
Yeah, I agree, having issues with your lover watching porn is simply stating how insecure you are within yourself. Goes along with the cyber sex argument.. it's not cheating.. it's enhancing. Going out and actually doing the deed without your spouse's permission.. that's a no no.

Sep 1 @ 5:06PM  
who are all these women who object to men watching porn???? no one here has said that...

Apr 26 @ 2:55AM  
My girlfriend watches more porn then me

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