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I agree, I think she's nuts too..

posted 8/31/2008 1:36:29 PM |
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I got an email this morning from a friend I haven't heard from in a few months....
we're not 'best friends' but we are good friends....Make sense? So I decided instead of emailing her back, I would call and just catch up with what's going on in her life.....

During the conversation I asked her how her mom is doing, because last time we spoke she had a broken leg. Leg is healed fine, met a man that seems to be crazy about her and she's nuts... Huh?? What? Why is she nuts?

Friend tells me that her and her Mom went to see The Bucket List. Later at dinner they were talking about all the things the two friends in the movie did. Her mom said, as she has many times over the years, it has always been her dream to spend a month just enjoying Italy..No schedules, no routines, just wake up eveyday and decide what to do from there for that day or night, everyday for a month.
My friend asked her why didn't she just do's not like she can't easily afford it or anything preventing her from doing it and more.....
The mom said if she found out she was dying she would definitely go..but since she's not, she'll get there someday.

Why do people do that? Put things off, even if they can afford them...financially and time wise... regardless of how badly they might want to do them? But let them discover they may be dying and all of the sudden they HAVE to do it then......

Especially if it were something I had always wanted to do, I'm thinking a month enjoying Italy would be fantastic and something I would want to do while I was able to....not go as a 'I'm dying after this vacation' thing. I'm not sure I could enjoy it then... why bother...

If money and time were of no issue.... where would you like to go for a month? Would you go alone or take someone? Would you schedule everything for that month or just go day to day doing whatever you wanted?

And please tell me you wouldn't wait until you thought you were dying to do it...... We don't always get advance notice that we are going to die soon..

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Aug 31 @ 1:41PM  
I would so rent a cottage in rural ireland.. and then just ramble for a month and fuck no I wouldn't wait til I was dying.

Aug 31 @ 1:49PM  
my parents did it right. My dad retired at 43. Bought a boat and a place in the Bahamas they go to at least twice a year. Bought a place in Vegas they go to at least once a year. Got a condo on Daytona Beach near his mom that they go to at least once a month. They go where they want, when they want...and still have lots of life left to enjoy whatever else they want to do.

Aug 31 @ 2:14PM  
I would probably get a rustic cabin somewhere by a lake that isnt a tourist trap and just spend the month enjoying the peace and quiet.........if there was someone special in my life.........i would leave him home to take care of everything else........... Ok i wouldnt.........i would want to spend that time with him.............and no i wouldnt wait until i was dying...........

Aug 31 @ 3:18PM  
Let`s see ..... Europe .....traveling .....trying different foods ,seeing the sites , and hopefully staying out of trouble ..... Nope would not wait till i found out i was dieing . Would not go alone ....

Aug 31 @ 3:19PM  
Do it today, for you may not be able to do it tomorrow!!

Aug 31 @ 3:19PM  
I would head out, buy a small camper that could handle rough terrain, bring a special someone with me and travel the back roads of the United States for at least three weeks. I would spend the last week with my girls mkaing sure all was taken care of.

Aug 31 @ 4:04PM  
i would love to spend a month in Ireland looking to see if I have any distant relatives left over there, and if not head on over to Scotland and England. Plus if I had the money I would not wait, and i'd want to do it more than once if i could.

Aug 31 @ 4:45PM  
I would just go home to NY and spend time with my parents....endless hours of visiting.....God....I miss them!

Aug 31 @ 8:01PM  
If time and money were no issue? Hell...I'd be all over Europe...going wherever my little heart desires.

Sep 2 @ 8:58PM  
I'd probably wait until I was dying to do something thing like that. While I'm healthly, I think my time is better spent doing the things I need to do rather than the things I want to do.

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I agree, I think she's nuts too..