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posted 8/23/2008 6:23:50 AM |
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  tassie1

ok ladies and genial men.
here's one out of left field for you today.

recently I was having a conversation with a lovely lady friend and the chat wandered around to sexual preferances and she quite innocently commented on how she didn't mind swallowing, or someone cumming on her,but she couldn't stand anyone actually cumming inside her.
in my past experiences,if a lady was going to have any problems I'd have said it was with the swallowing preferance,but as a guy I just assumed women liked men ejeculating inside of them.

now with total respect to this wondeful lady I was just wondering,do any other women have a problem with this as admittedly it quite surprised me to hear her comment and started wondering,how common was this opinion .

and as men, have you ever heard of this before or am I living too sheltered a life

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lunanegra

Aug 23 @ 6:38AM  
I don't know about anyonelse,but I'm plumb terrified of getting pregnant,so...rather it on me than in me.
tassie1

Aug 23 @ 6:44AM  
I could understand it for those reasons,
but she was refering to just in general I think
casuallylooking

Aug 23 @ 7:46AM  
I have heard of a few women who don't like it for various reasons...some medical...surprised me at first too.

Personally,IF we are in a relationship where we are having unprotected sex, I very much enjoy feeling him cum in me.

As for your sheltered life, Tas...... lol..just kidding..

Good blog..kudo to you.
Ewe_Wish

Aug 23 @ 9:20AM  
Interesting question.........i personally never heard of a woman who would rather not have someone cum inside of you.........tho i have known men who would rather cum on you than in you...........personal choice i guess..........

or am I living too sheltered a life
Yes Tassie....you have........but stick around we will corrupt you.........
soft_touch938

Aug 23 @ 9:34AM  
I'm about to embarrass myself here ...oh well...

My guess is two reasons...1. it's messy and 2. the mixture of bodily fluids can create an awful odor.

A man rolls over and goes to sleep. A woman tries to get to the bathroom without it all running down her legs.

Several years before my husband died he had major surgery on an aneurysm in his abdomen. The results were what is called reverse ejaculation...when he'd cum, the semen went into his bladder. No harm there, just a side effect of the surgery. It was WONDERFUL!! No more mess, no more odor.

And FYI guys...it is my opinion that that fishy odor ya'll complain about in a woman comes from her having had sex and not cleaning up afterwards. Women I don't think gets that odor on their own...it takes two. So if she smells fishy...........

CANDACECSR

Aug 23 @ 9:38AM  
Just the opposite for me. Guess it's because I CAN"T get pregnant and like to pretend I can
dakota323

Aug 23 @ 9:58AM  
And FYI guys...it is my opinion that that fishy odor ya'll complain about in a woman comes from her having had sex and not cleaning up afterwards. Women I don't think gets that odor on their own...it takes two. So if she smells fishy...........

so I am to assume that "cream pies" are not appreciated
Sunshine79

Aug 23 @ 10:12AM  
I love cum wherever it may be!!!!
theSkwirl

Aug 23 @ 10:46AM  
Usually stems from the tweenage fear of getting pregnant and then becomes a personal choice. Not my issue... but hey we all have issues right?
NightOfOld

Aug 23 @ 1:09PM  

Yes I have heard of it, but rarely.
tassie1

Aug 23 @ 3:11PM  
thank you everyone for your comments,I don't feel so 'out there on my own' with this one now.
I mentioned this comment to my wife and she gave me one of those looks that said men,you have it soooo easy. she also mentioned how men didn't know how it felt trying to get to the bathroom with something running down your leg,but I wasn't touchin that one...

*skwirl... tweenage ?

this is why I posted this un-usual question Dayna,I honestly had never heard of a woman with this preferance before,and wondered if I was the only one.

oh,skwirl, I have to go preform some workage now,but I'll drop back in when I knock off .

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