AddThis Social Bookmark Button
Free Dating

Why Lie????

posted 8/19/2008 6:40:08 PM |
2 kudosgive kudos what's this?
    report abuse
  alybai42

What is the point behind lying? The truth will come out..

There is nothing I hate more than being lied to or cheated on.

It has taken me 2 years to get over the one that cheated on me..Now I am hoping I can move on..In the past two weeks I had met two different men..From what they have told me nothing add's up..The lies continue. And I will find out.

The one was this past Sunday at a bar. He was the bartender. He came on to me. Asking me if I was married or had a b/f. I said no to both. He gave me his phone number's and told me to call him. I asked him if he had a woman in his life. He said No..Then I found out that he is seeing someone.

Then I got to thinking. He is a bartender. The women get drunk and will go home with anyone..Except for this one. Well for one thing I am not much of a drinker and can maintain. I know my limit. When to stop. And I am not easy...
It has months since I have had sex and I am not looking for a one night stand. I have told both of these guys that same thing.
I do my background checks to see if they are telling the truth..So far it is not looking good.

I know men. Women lie also..But I tell it upfront what I am looking for and it is not for a one night stand..

My vent for the evening.

Copy & paste to friend: (Click inside box; Ctrl + C to copy; Ctrl + V to paste)

   read more blogs!

Blogs by alybai42:
Update on my life
I finally got one...
Sexual Quiz
What did you do this weekend
Long time no blog..
Why Lie????
When You Thought I Wasn't Looking
Fair Food
What is wrong with me
Bored to death..


Comments:

post a comment!

LickMyClit

Aug 19 @ 6:57PM  
Yep. Gotta check them out. And the first test is to look them in the eye, ask for their full name and address and TELL them that you are checking them out. Watch and see what kind of reaction you get.

My boy friend grinned at me and handed over all of his pertinant information and told me to "have at it".

An honest person will have no problem going out of their way to reassure you that not only are they single, but they will also back up that information with actions.

And yeah..he checked out clean and is very good to his momma.
Wordsofwit

Aug 19 @ 7:02PM  
Good advice from LMC. I also suggest that they meet the guy at his house. If he agrees, ask to use the bathroom. You can tell very quickly if it has a woman's touch or not to it.
Lisa46

Aug 19 @ 7:11PM  
Yeah lying always comes out in the end, one way or another. Good blog Aly girl
ynot7769

Aug 19 @ 7:30PM  
she had me google her......yowza


i just hid in da forums till she found me.....fuck where else could i hide
Sunshine79

Aug 19 @ 7:31PM  
Hate that shit!!!
Ewe_Wish

Aug 19 @ 7:36PM  
she had me google her......
Why would she do that she bought you off ebay didnt she? oh hell Treas just told me she bought you of either half.com or overstock.com.......
sugarnspice005

Aug 19 @ 8:31PM  
Lies are a waste of time and I have much better to do with my life than lie and try to keep the lie up. Much easier to just tell the truth..it doesn't bite ya in the ass as hard as a lie that is found out.
alybai42

Aug 19 @ 8:58PM  
You can buy men on Ebay
mrknowuwell

Aug 19 @ 10:55PM  
^^^^ whats ur bid on me???
NightOfOld

Aug 20 @ 12:12AM  

I'm not easy or cheap, but I'm worth it.
match123

Aug 20 @ 2:04AM  
Lying seems to be the norm these days. Men and women feel they have nothing to lose, they have the 'who cares' attitude
The truth always comes out as you said.
Just keep being honest. Those that lie will head for the hills
Those that are honest will connect with you. 2 honest people make a fantastic connection, there is no connection if there is not truth
southerngent64

Aug 20 @ 6:11AM  
From my experience, people lie because they've gotten away with it in the past.

It's like hitting on all the women at a bar: it boils down to percentages. Eventually, someone will buy their bullshit.

BTW, WoW, a woman doesn't need to check out a guy's bathroom to see if another lady lives there. On several occasions, I've had a woman take one step into my house and say

"Wanna decorate?"

free dating | mission statement | testimonials | safety warning | report abuse | safe list | privacy | legal | 2257 | advertise | link to us

© Copyright 2000-2014 Online Singles, LLC.
OS-WEB01
Why Lie????