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posted 8/9/2008 6:03:33 PM |
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I keep hearing how hard it is for women who are overweight to get a date. But I think it is MUCH harder for a chubby man with a big belly to get a date.

Start watching couples when you are out in public. You see a lot of skinny men with large women – but you NEVER see a skinny woman with a big, fat guy. Why do skinny men accept large women for who they are, but you skinny women can’t accept us fat guys for who we are? There is definitely a huge, lopsided prejudice against fat men. I always thought it is what is inside that really matters… but apparently; being affectionate, romantic, cuddly, caring and loving is not important when you have a big belly.

“Lose weight” some of you say. But if it was that easy, wouldn’t we all be thin?

“Date big women. They will accept you for who you are.” others will say. Speaking from experience, it is darn near impossible for two large people to make love when the male is on the shorter side of average down there.

Why can’t you skinny women accept me for who I am. Why can’t you see past the big belly to see the big heart and beautiful soul inside? I am this close to giving up and becoming a social hermit.

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Aug 9 @ 6:45PM  
Chill man.. here, have a beer..
Its "I dont give a damn Sat." Enjoy Life...Dont Worry, Be Happy!!!
Its the same for guys as it is the Women.. get/be happy with yourself..1st! Then maybe ..who knows!!
My 2 cents!!!

Aug 9 @ 7:43PM  
I can't answer for skinny women.. but I like all men.. outside don't matter.. it's inside that counts. Whatcha got goin on in the skin?

Aug 9 @ 8:25PM  
skwirl.. will U have my children?

Aug 9 @ 8:40PM  
skwirl.. will U have my children?
You don't want them anymore, toad?

I have a few guy friends who are all big teddy bears and they have a heart of gold to go with it............and everyone of them has a small petite girlfriend/wife.......go apparently just havent met the right girl yet........dont give up the hope she is out there somewhere.......

Aug 9 @ 9:08PM  
Oy. My experience with a big, cuddly guy sure doesn't match up with this! Everyone he knows is quite aware that he and I are together. Still he's gotten offers for sex - both that I know about are from women who are trim to skinny. He's got quite a belly, too. Thank goodness he's into BBW's or we'd really be in trouble!


Aug 10 @ 12:43AM  
Umm no Toad.. but you can have mine if you want.

Aug 10 @ 3:09AM  
Hey I know how u feel..I know what its like to be fat and ugly all the time....but its the skinny women and skinny men who ruin it for us nice, sweet, bighearted ppl..if u ever want ot talk feel free to hit me up :)

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