I keep hearing how hard it is for women who are overweight to get a date. But I think it is MUCH harder for a chubby man with a big belly to get a date.
Start watching couples when you are out in public. You see a lot of skinny men with large women – but you NEVER see a skinny woman with a big, fat guy. Why do skinny men accept large women for who they are, but you skinny women can’t accept us fat guys for who we are? There is definitely a huge, lopsided prejudice against fat men. I always thought it is what is inside that really matters… but apparently; being affectionate, romantic, cuddly, caring and loving is not important when you have a big belly.
“Lose weight” some of you say. But if it was that easy, wouldn’t we all be thin?
“Date big women. They will accept you for who you are.” others will say. Speaking from experience, it is darn near impossible for two large people to make love when the male is on the shorter side of average down there.
Why can’t you skinny women accept me for who I am. Why can’t you see past the big belly to see the big heart and beautiful soul inside? I am this close to giving up and becoming a social hermit.
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