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What is the best way to handle People that Prey on the Weak?????

posted 8/8/2008 10:19:47 PM |
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  sinfulAngel1732

I recently met a person on this site that is not a completely honest person. This person seems to be working on gulliable individuals. One person's feeling were crushed by this "snake". I'm interested in hearing the best procedure in handling this matter..........

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Ewe_Wish

Aug 8 @ 10:27PM  
If i were you I would start making a lot of friends and putting them on your friends lists..(both men and women)........when you come across someone like this..........now it really should be a snake.....not just someone who didnt live up to someone elses ideals........i would post a bulletin and ask all my friends to repost the bulletin..........word gets around pretty fast here doing that..........

BTW Welcome to the blogs........
rescueremedy

Aug 8 @ 10:35PM  
I`d read the blog below you ..... it will give you some ideas .... J/k ..



I guess you could go to the moderator and tell them your story ,but more in likely this person if his account was canceled would come back as someone else and just continue . It`s sad .....I`m sorry you had to meet someone like that and my heart goes out to you . Hopefully someone can give you better advice .
NightOfOld

Aug 8 @ 10:41PM  

Turn the tables on him. Get a few friends to help you teach him a lesson.
lynxkat

Aug 8 @ 10:42PM  
This is just too open to answer. Different situations and personalities call for different measures. "Users" and "victims" vary in personal style and ability. I could answer for me . . . but I'm sure not the victim!
BigFlirt

Aug 8 @ 11:31PM  
Now that depends on what they did. Is it worth revenge for?
Irridum

Aug 8 @ 11:48PM  
A 12guage & a little rock salt??????
Thenewguy2957

Aug 9 @ 12:01AM  
Prepaid subscriptions to really weird fetish magazines addressed to him at work or his home. When he goes on vacation have his mail forwarded to his parent's house.

Are you looking for revenge or just to stop him? Probably getting a lot of people to contact the mods complaining about him is about all you can do to stop him.
onehornytoad69

Aug 9 @ 12:09AM  
I dunno...
Sorry, some do that, such a shame!
We just have to be careful...!
South_Of_Main

Aug 9 @ 5:35AM  
Well, this is 2008 and we are online, which is open access for anyone and everyone, regardless of what kind of person they are.

Yes, there are plenty of people online who lie-- alot, for whatever reason. And yes, sometimes the gullible or unsuspecting can be hurt.

Because your blog was so vague, I really don't have an answer for you. If you don't want anything to do with someone, then don't... its that simple. Of course some would say to go for the jugular and trash them, but without really knowing what happened, I certainly wouldn't recommend that either.

Clear as mud now?
Hevn84

Aug 9 @ 8:57AM  
Of course some would say to go for the jugular and trash them, but without really knowing what happened, I certainly wouldn't recommend that either.

That's the only common sense recommendation I've seen here.
If anyone -- male or female -- is a weak and gullible type, they will be easily taken by any predator, any where, not just online.

The idea of compiling a friends list and sending out bulletins is the equivalent of high school gang bang mentality. The person who starts those bulletins could easily be a vindictive psychopath who uses the power of false friendships to start rumors and destroy another's credibility. Keep in mind: Do unto others, as you would have them do unto you. What these bulletin posters do to others, they will do to the same to you in a nanosecond.

Remember for every person that decides that another person is not who they thought they were, that other person may have reached the same conclusion. Everything becomes a lie to each other.
theSkwirl

Aug 9 @ 9:55AM  
In the real world, shit happens. People's feelings get hurt. People get taken advantage of. That's life. Move on.
Detach

Aug 9 @ 2:44PM  
The best way is to not vote them into office again.
Ewe_Wish

Aug 9 @ 3:05PM  
The person who starts those bulletins could easily be a vindictive psychopath who uses the power of false friendships to start rumors and destroy another's credibility.
You are absolutely correct.........that is why i said to make sure they were a real snake and not just living up to someones ideals.........but sadly their are always going to be liars and fake people.........you know the kind that make promises to someone......"borrow" money from them and then dump them.........and than pretend to care later....but as Thr Skwirl said.............maybe you do just need to let go and get on with life.............there certainly are a lot of fakes in the world online and offline...........
rescueremedy

Aug 9 @ 3:15PM  
Dayna .... I have to agree ..... it is sad ....how you can not tell the fakes from everyone else .....and the liars .... are just as bad ....not telling people the truth and tell lies upon lies ..... What is wrong w/ people nowadays ....


I hate when they are finally found out what a liar and a fake they are ...... and then they come back w/ a new profile and start their stuff up all over again ....
aftershox

Aug 9 @ 5:58PM  
Get strong and learn to trust slowly and cautiously. Let them know that they can no longer hurt you. Make up your mind to not be a victim. Resolve to not be so gullible. Tell your intuition to send up red flags next time you run into another manipulative liar, and listen to it.
sugarnspice005

Aug 9 @ 8:58PM  
Hard to say when there's no details to go by.

Best thing to do....move on.

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What is the best way to handle People that Prey on the Weak?????