SexySteven247
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Nov 22 @ 7:50AM
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Well i think your right in your assumption, but i also think that Younger women like to play more games then older women, Men often enjoy the Life and Energy that younger women have, but thats not all true. Older woman May have a longer and bigger sex drive then the younger ones. When a man is not looking for a one night stand then he seeks an Older, more mature woman to settle with; because he's tired of stupid, immature games and is ready to have a True relationship with a Woman, not a Girl that is Fooling around. But there can be a lot of things said about younger women for Older men, its just who you end up being with. I wish that men would stop cheating on there woman and their minds, Women are Amazing, I love and Respect ever woman that i come in contact with, you never know who may come into your life and I always want to make a good impression.
*Heres to the Good Men and The Women that Make them Great!!
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madman751
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Nov 22 @ 7:52AM
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Experience is part of it, and another part is boldness. The first older woman I was ever with was someone I saw working for a few months at a convenience store. We made small talk, and she would bitch about her on-again, off again boyfriend. I asked her one day, and the following night we were in her waterbed. Since then, its been sort of a addiction, lol. I can spot a dick-hungry MILF a mile away...
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canEHdianBear
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Nov 22 @ 8:06AM
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Its true about the teachings of an older woman in my case, I was 17 & moved in with a 34 yr old woman, it lasted 6 yrs. She taught me ALOT of valuable lessons (how to love a woman, tend to her needs, her wants etc) Its something I will never forget or will ever frown upon with anyone else!!!
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lonely_1_of_3
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Nov 22 @ 8:49AM
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i think sexysteven said it all in his paragraph...in a lot of cases, there are younger men wanting to be with one woman, and the older women are ready to settle and be with one man...
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mcwfun
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Nov 22 @ 9:01AM
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It's all about an older woman's attitude. They're able to focus all their attention on to the situation at hand and leave you no doubts about what their thinking or wanting. I think it's just easier to read what older women want when you're out at clubs or bars meeting women. I'm 27, I've been with older women and younger women and I enjoyed both obviously. But for just "hooking up", there is a lot less stress when you're with an older lady.
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decaturnooner
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Nov 22 @ 9:08AM
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I think an older woman tends to be more confident in life and also more grounded. They have already "discovered" themselves and they are forward enough to share their likes and dislikes without feeling like they are constantly under a microscope.
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The_3_Bs
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Nov 22 @ 10:08AM
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I think older woman cut through the bullshit. I have been with both younger girls and older woman and by far the older women are much better to be with. With "girls" there's always this game...."x" amount of time gets you this..."x" amount of time gets you that...with a "woman", they know what they want...they aren't going to play head games with you and they are generally better in the sack anyways. So thumbs up to all you fine mature ladies that rocked my world!
I will always have time for you.  Much love for the MILF's, mature...whatever you want to call them...women.
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acorne23
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Nov 22 @ 11:49AM
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I dated an older woman after i got out of a bad relationship. I was 19 and she was 34 and it lasted for 3 years. It only ended because she started doing what younger girls are known for and that is playing games. It is true that older women they are just more caring and have a higher sex drive. They have more experience in both love making and in life. They are also easier to talk to about just simple things unlike many of the girls my age. Given the chance i'd date another older woman, that has become a preference for me now, just not many of them want to date younger guys lol.
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lawdawgadub
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Nov 22 @ 12:41PM
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I'll tell you why: Sex and a Sandwich. Older women believe in pleasing their men. They'll sex you crazy and cook for you or whatever else you need. They are very you oriented. They make you feel like the king of the castle. They do stuff some younger women will look down on. Older women are awesome.
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kaerfnorp
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Nov 22 @ 1:16PM
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It's my experience that older women's expectations of a man's sexual performance is more realistic. It's comforting for a man when he knows that his sexual partner realizes that sex isn't always great. Moreover for younger men, younger than myself especially, there's always the reassuring assumption that an older woman will assume you're inexperienced and overlook performance inadecuacies.
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FriskyRick7
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Nov 23 @ 3:19AM
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I believe the truth is that older women are looking better these days and taking care of themself. But an even bigger truth is they are more mature and don't have as many hang ups as the younger women. I met an older women that looked good, new how to dress and be feminine and WOW could she make a man want to come back for more. It was all in her actions and what she did without saying a word. Knew how to touch, smile, and look at you. Younger women might want to learn something off of older gals rather than the propoganda thrown at them from porno or the media.
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wildgoose06
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Nov 24 @ 2:33AM
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Older women? I just like women. If they hold up their end of the conversation and don't look like a shipwreck! Bob 
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ross007
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Nov 25 @ 8:47PM
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I love older women,and they know how to love
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Addoniss65
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Nov 27 @ 4:57PM
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Zena's probably correct about this, personally age is just a number. its who that person is and what she is all about.
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uhohs
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Nov 30 @ 12:52PM
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Generally older women have "been there done that" and as some have said before they aren't usually into playing headgames which most younger women are notorious for. Also being with an older woman if some new guy pops up and starts acting like he is God's gift to women they are less likely to fall for it and stick by their man where as a younger woman will fall for that bullshit and leave you sitting and come back when the other guy dumps her and promises you it will never happen again...Cheers to older women!
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samm1011
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Dec 16 @ 9:38PM
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there is just something about an older woman that really catches my attention... i know that they are expierenced, and they can teach new things that younger women cant... for me an older woman's pussy is just alot better then a younger girl... i like young girls to because that is who i have relationships with but i want a MILF every now and then... just knowing that she is twice my age turns me on
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scooter308
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Dec 19 @ 10:22AM
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younger men like older women, because an older women is more mature and able to express her needs better, and dont for get they are better lovers, they will talk to you and communicate, they dont play head games,
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mjs1970
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Dec 27 @ 9:14PM
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I've never really thought about this one before...but your RIGHT! All except 2 woman that I have dated in the last 5 years have all been older then me. Not by any design, it just worked out that way. I think Steven is right about being more mature and more experienced. Younger women are also afraid to try or are very nervous to try new things in the bedroom where older woman seem to be ready.
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69lover312
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Dec 28 @ 8:15AM
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It's kind of the double standard again, older women with younger men is ok but older men with younger women is frowned upon. Then you see it in alot of the womens postings / profiles that they don't want any games and someone that will be loyal and faithful combined with then younger aged (often immature) men. From what I have read in profiles the women think of sex with an older man is like sex with their father while men see sex with an older women as a loving caring person.
In all reality you need to judge the person for who / what they are and not by a number or stereotype.
Lets see how much hate mail this gets me.
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ThatWetScent
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Dec 30 @ 3:01AM
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Just my two cents worth here.
In my experience, ( not everyone's ), through my younger years as well as my current middle age of 43, that most of, ( not all ), of the younger women, won't even give a guy half a chance. It is my opinion & observation through the years that it's just a fact, that they are always striving to have the "cutest guy" or the one with the "darkest hair" or the one who has the most cash flow to smother her with. Not bitter at all, as I have certaintly have had my fair share of the pie in my time, but in my day, and I'm sure a lot of the rest of the guys on here can attest, that the ones or the one that we have always wanted, is never available, interested, or wants us.
Why is that? Also, I have noticed that when I am out & about, that women won't even look up at you when passing by. In which is anybody's right to do if that is what they choose to do. I was never brought up that way to whithold a smile or a quick hello. I have also noticed, that even on the dating sites, that most won't even respond to a simple "hello or how are you" Not naming anyone here, but it is a cold hard fact, that experiments have been done on this site. For example: just recently a test was done on here and on regular matchdoctor where a guy would go undercover as a woman. He would also have his regular profile. Results have shown that every two minutes, a guy is hittin up a cute girl on these sites, but the guys profile is hardly ever written to or winked at. Why is that?
I think it is a down right shame that the guy always has to be the first to respond or reply. In fact, most of us guys hate it. Not that any one of us would ever stop sending the first initial " hello or what up! " God knows that won't change,,, but why is it ok for the woman to just sit there and take advantage of the fact that they just don't have to? Many of you might discredit me for my opinions, or just cop out and assume I am bitter, but let me assure you, at this point in my life, I could really care less. But the facts and evidence remain.
Prove me wrong. 30 + years of facts and evidence is kinda hard to beat.
As the years go rolling by, I do still keep hoping that some cute, sweet, younger sexy girl with a pretty smile might appear, but it just never happens. That's why older women are desired. Because they are past the BS games. Well, most of them are at least. And like another had posted on here, they are keeping themselves more attractive, in shape, and are whithin a shadow of a doubt, more friendlier. It's a real shame younger women don't learn this till they are older like they are. Or like I am....but then, life has passed by unhappily for many. And this applies to the men as well.
Why does there have to be this kind of war?
Answer that, and we'll all be happy.
PS: oh yeah, this post is niether a negative one, nor a positive one... just an observation. And how about a face shot for us? and why do you hide?
The rest looks extremely nice.... Hmmmmmmmm
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sydneyman
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Dec 30 @ 7:38PM
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Depends on the ages i reckon. For women 30-40 a 18-23 year old man would seem like the 'ultimate' joy, not because they know it all, but because their enthousiasm (roaring hornyness) will overcome it all every 15 minutes.
Thee woman becomes the guid/teacher and that combination could exceed the need for chocolades ;-).
Perhaps it is the knowledge thaat she is going for a guy wwho is in it for the pure lust, and she'll get hers without any hidden agenda's.
All that clarity must leave an Ambrosian feeling in any woman.
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asexpartnerwanted
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Jan 21 @ 8:38AM
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i think it is similar for men and women. Want the security, experience, maturity... and so on... 
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Cupidbrowser
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Apr 19 @ 7:08PM
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That's something I'm still trying to figure out, about younger men being so attracted to older women. I had a guy who was 16 years younger than me keep trying to persuade me to be with him. We talked for a couple weeks before we met, but when we finally met, it was like fireworks exploding! We were so hot together, it was amazing. He was so attentive, even after we had our night of amazing sex (5 times, I might add), we went to dinner and, sitting across from each other, he had to be touching me. There's something to be said for younger men too, lol. He said he was tired of little girls and wanted to be with a woman for a change. We've had this relationship for 5 years and it's not waning any, I'll tell you.
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mrunderstood
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Apr 26 @ 7:15PM
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I know I've always fantasized about being hit on by a woman at least 10 years old than I! (sigh)
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blkbbw24
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Jun 12 @ 5:45PM
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seeing as how Im only 25 no I wouldnt date someone half my age. But I have dated older men and prefer to date older men. as a matter of fact the person Im talking to right now is 54
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Loveyoulongtime2
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Jun 12 @ 6:59PM
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I'm so old, I'm not sure I want a woman older than myself.
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mannysweet
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Jun 14 @ 8:45PM
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Why are older guys speaking for the younger ones?? I like older women because it's erotic. I don't think it has much of anything to do with experience; it's more like an experience. It's just hott!! I remember being with a 37 year old when I was 17, and she said I taught her a few things! Those of us who see sex as a beautiful thing don't discriminate! Too bad it's hard to teach an old dog new tricks especially if they are used to little or no sex!! Hopefully older women with younger men are just that way as opposed to just trying something new.
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Sugar1973
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Jun 17 @ 12:07AM
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A guy once told me that the reason was Older women don't swell,(meaning they won't get pregnant), don't tell and are grateful as hell. He was trying to be funny, and in some cases it is true but speaking from the older woman's side , I really think that younger guys do want to settle down with a mature woman instead of a young airhead who plays games. It's usually a guy who either doesn't want kids or already has kids. I wouldn't date someone young enough to be my son though. 14 years younger is my limit. I personally don't want to have to teach anyone anything. I want them to know what they are doing.
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classilady
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Jun 17 @ 4:54PM
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Well, my experience is I'm a 50+ woman, attractive, keep in sape physically and sometimes mentally,LOL. I had an 18 year old start hitting on me but didn't think he was serious until he started to make plans to see me. I had to drive to him beacause his car wouldn't make it the 60 miles, he thought. So I said what the hell it will be a story no none will believe!! We met, he was the most polite man I had ever met for a roll in the hay. Asked me if he could do this or that to me which I couldn't refuse. He may have been young but he knew exactly what to do & how to make it last. I asked him why he wanted someone my age & he said he liked older women because they knew what they wanted & would tell him what do do and the fact that the girls his age he had to date & spend lots of money on them before they would do anything. Man I don't know what girls he was dating??? We have since seen each other more & he keeps getting better. Doesn't hurt he has a body of steel!!!
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Tallakron
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Jun 17 @ 7:37PM
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Because older women do all night in bed what it takes most younger women all night to do!! If you don't know what that is, go have sex with a sexy older woman and you know what I'm talking about!
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cradlesnatcher
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Jun 19 @ 5:25PM
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I'm an older woman to my partner who is 23 years younger than me, and i was the person who first made the contact as we met on line and he moved in 3 weeks later. That was the easy part as when your on line you can say and be who you want. In my case bold and outgoing i'm normally shy but he has taught me a lot of things so sometimes it's the reverse young can teach the older.
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horny_ohio
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Jun 19 @ 6:31PM
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I am with so many of these people. I read a small part of me in MANY of the responses. I want to settle down, but for that I want to be with a woman cose to my age. I want to grow old with her and experience life together. If I want to have GREAT sex the woman usually needs to be mid thirties and up (althought I am getting closer and closer to that age bracket). For me it is about the woman knowing what they want and not being afraid to say it. No need to be forceful, but a knowlege of what you like being prepared to get it is nice. women in thier 20's don't know what they want, and are timid when asking for something, or uncompromising. Yes I want to marry a woman 28-33 (right now since I am 29), but when looking for benificial friends I look 35-45.
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daytona3829
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Jun 23 @ 6:21PM
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My two cents...or five cents..LOL. I have dated older, younger and same age women. I have had women who are idiots, smart ones, good ones, bad ones, and psychos. Doesnt matter what there age is. I have had good ones who have been older and bad ones who have been older. I have had good ones who are younger and bad ones who are younger.
Age is just a number. Its the persons heart and how they were raised and how they have been treated in there life as to how they will be with a man.
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allforyou999
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Jun 28 @ 8:43AM
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Rememebr MEN ! Ladies in their 50's and 60's are at times at their sexual peak.
My oldest has been 70 and it was great
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gssc192
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Jul 2 @ 6:40PM
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It's very simple and has been said before. Older women know what they're doing and know what they want. And that's that's the way I like it.
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heywhynot
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Jul 4 @ 12:43PM
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I think its that older women are more mature and open about their needs, they don't need to play games, and are more willing to explore new things, now this is not 100% but for the most part i believe it true.
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CANDACECSR
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Jul 8 @ 5:20AM
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Being a woman in my soon to be middle 50"s, I can attest to the validity that younger men(not all now) do indeed find an older woman more desirable.On the most part...there is no possibility of pregnancy,years of experience to draw from, and yes....we do know EXACTLY what we want them to do and how to do it! After 5 years of no sex drive at all...being post menopausal....my drive has come back in full force and is stronger than it was when I was in my 20's, sooooo having a younger lover has it's benefits and necessities also! They are beating on the door constantly and I love it!!!!! 
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mistereous1
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Jul 8 @ 2:17PM
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One word...Breakfast!
I was messing around with a woman 16 years older than me once. I was 23, she was 39. Not only is she still the best sex I've ever had, but I would wake up in the morning to the smell of bacon and pancakes (a reward I definitely earned).
There were fewer hang ups...no games at all. In the end though I had to break it off. I just wasn't comfortable with her having a son that was 2 years younger than I was. Blasted morales
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canesporco
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Jul 8 @ 4:59PM
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is it so much younger men are interested in older women or older women are interested in younger men? after awhile, the older womens mate loses interest, walks out and divorces her. there she is, in her 40s and looking for sex. well, younger guys are there, ready, and willing. some older women are still attractive and rather needy. younger men fill the "void". yep, i did. 19 she was 41 and active. just sex, nothing else. younger women like to play games, as it was already said. older women want no games. older men younger women? even younger women get tired of the momma's boys so they like the older men who are more attentive, take the women to fine restaurants instead of the fast food places. and when taking care of nature's urge, the older men are more interested in the woman's O than his own. what the older men lack in stamina, they make up for in other ways. i even had a younger woman. all she had to do was lay back and enjoy. but all things do not last forever. its a hit/miss propostion the "older" getting involved with a "younger" one. one of natures mysteries.
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topar5
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Jul 13 @ 4:42PM
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i have 2 theories....
1. to us, older women are biologically "more grown up" and are therefore "higher above us". remember when you were a child, and you really looked up to grownups? maybe its an oedipal thing.
2. imagine if youre a 20 year old dude to whom a 40 year old is attracted. you'd feel pretty damn manly since your competition is the men you see working at google, driving their jaguars. and youre barely an adult! it makes you say "hey honey, i'm still a kid and look how developed my body is!"
and i personally find older women's bodies much more appealing. im so sick of flawless porn actresses....ugh.
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blktaz
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Jul 15 @ 10:46AM
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IHello,
It's becuse us younger man have founf that an older woman have a loto more to give. younger woamn are made for speed an old woman is made for loving. And with an old woman you can take you time and injoy the love. Older woman are just better.
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aries0409
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Jul 15 @ 10:26PM
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I think older women ,especially if they have nice bodies have a better chance of getting younger guys as opposed to older men getting younger women, unless the guy has a real good paying job like in the $100,000.00 or more a year dont get upset ladies it is a reality it is seen everyday in life, nothing wrong with that if that is what one wants in life, which we all do. I also don't think it is expierence why younger guys seek older women, it is more because an older woman usally treats the guy better, pays more attention to keep him and so on. When two people are around the same age there seems not to be as much effort placed into keeping one another, probably why so many divorces. Plus the younger guy can go more times than an older guy, however, an older man pays more attentinon and spend more time on a woman, hence the expression "slam bam thank you mam. Then this is just observation or an opion which we all have.
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bidinwks
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Jul 17 @ 11:06PM
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There is a lot less drama with hooking up definately with older women. you show up you get naked, you get busy and there's no bullshit to put up with later.
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Zeus1988
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Jul 19 @ 2:42AM
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im a younger man and i wish an older women would be interested. Thats my biggest fantasy
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Detach
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Jul 22 @ 2:29PM
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I actually enjoy dating older women because I can relate to them more easily than I can relate to the younger women. The older women enjoy more of the activities I enjoy, they have slowed down in life to a pace that I am comfortable with (not always wanting to party and drink 'till they pass out), and I have more in common with them.
With the younger women, I felt I had to pretend a lot and be someone I'm not so that I can more closely relate to them. It gets frustrating after a while.
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vivaciousel1950
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Jul 27 @ 12:37AM
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two comments "mommy factor" and " mrs robinson" factor... in other words. the morons want a fantasy or to be spoiled not all but many and they have some absurd idea they are going to learn how to do fancy fuckin
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koffeekid00
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Aug 6 @ 3:33PM
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regarding this..... i am the younger man.
my wife of 3 years now is 30 years older than i am, and I am 31.
That has not has any bearing on my attraction to her, and never will. I met her at work and now because we are married, i no longer work there. but that is better. I now make 2x the money i did there and we live very happily in las vegas together. the sex is wonderful... i am 6'5 and she is 5'3, so every other night we do fit good in a 69.
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sohot4you
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Aug 6 @ 9:46PM
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I definately attract younger men. Have no idea why. They all say the same thing that older woman are more open about things and more willing to try different things. Plus they think we can teach them more. Which I'm sure we can. I've been told younger woman are unwilling to do some things they want to do. Plus they play way too many head games. Too much talk not enough action out of the younger woman.
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youngcock87
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Aug 14 @ 5:57PM
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im just turned on by a women older then me
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dmbradley1978854
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Aug 14 @ 8:43PM
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Most older women are finished with their adolescent crap. 
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regularguy354
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Aug 15 @ 9:19PM
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Being an "older" man, I think it's because 24 goes into 48 twice as easily as 48 going into 24. LOL
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peter6211
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Aug 16 @ 4:17AM
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As a younger guy I find a sexy mature woman more attractive than a sexy younger woman. I do like people who know what they want, and its true that younger girls tend to play games, but to tell you the truth that's not what's at the root of the attraction for me. I just like the way a mature woman, who has taken care of her body, looks. A friend of mine who shares my opinion said to me one time "a woman reaches her prime in her early thirties". The youthful body is sexy, but its overrated. Our preoccupation with youth in the first place is missing something.
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FUNGUY007
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Aug 16 @ 11:39AM
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It's in the hunt and legal. Bag them and drag them.
Bottom line they shoot chipmunks in the woods, don't they?
Funguy
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SexPet
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Aug 18 @ 8:57AM
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Yes, zena... most of the men I date are in their early 20's and ... I'm 43. I have to admit... I'm hooked. I love the young men - it might just be THAT generation that I'm attracted to instead of it being an agewise preference, not sure what it is.
However, I was telling a friend the other day that when I was in high school I dated men in the early 20's. They said "yeah, and you still do!" It struck me as pretty funny at the time. So...
Maybe that's just the age I'm attracted to 
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bitemyabs
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Aug 18 @ 6:17PM
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I usually prefer older women myself. And you're right about the experience part, but let me put a twist on it. As for me, I don't look for older women to teach me new things, I just don't like being a teacher to someone who is younger or around my age. I prefer someone experienced who knows what they want. Cause I certainly know what I want.
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vivaciousel1950
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Aug 18 @ 9:10PM
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Just how good do you think a woman is who had to give the same guy bjs and keep the idiot thinking he was a great lover (oh yeah) for 25 years. To come up with clever ideas, creative ways of doing things, psychological tricks for his ego, etc. In addition, a man get excited fast, a woman can stay excited for hours. An older woman has learned how to handle this with her "old man" for 20 years. A young guy come along. He doesnt know all this. But boy does he find out fast. He thinks he is in nirvana... If you want to know something come to the experts. Older women who happen to be psycholgists.
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rayc1971
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Aug 18 @ 9:46PM
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i have to agree older women are awsome! i was with a 54 yr woamn for 3 yrs and im 36 the sex was great it lasted allnight.younger girls want to play games and shit and take your money! a older woman is happy to have sex woth you and dont want to take you for a ride!
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dwl1982
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Aug 20 @ 12:18AM
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I have to speak from personal experience here. I am 25, have been involved in relationships with older women since I was 18. My first was a girl one year younger than me, and while I have slept with two women younger than me, the great majority of women I have been with have been between 30 and 45. The oldest woman I have experienced was 54, and the average age of the women I see is 39. My most recent ex is 31; this weekend, I hooked up with a 48 year old woman.
What is it about older women and me? Honestly, I pondered this question the other day at work. I believe with me it started way early- in school. I was entranced by a 1st grade teacher, Ms. Madeline, that I had. When she got married and I went on, I was heartbroken for months. I grew up in the late eighties/ early 90's, and at that time, my mother tried to dress me as a teenager. Spiked hair, jean jacket, etc, the style of the time. I can remember being unpopular as a child, but whenever we went somewhere, girls in their twenties and thirties always used to say I was "so cute". In fourth grade, I had another teacher that I was obsessed with, Mrs. Mullin, and the same thing in eigth grade, Mrs. Kessler. Not only were these three women all in their mid thirties, they were all short and thin in build, and to this day, I prefer that type. I have had the biggest crush on Madonna since I was eight years old, and I keep a picture of her on my cell phone.
There is a pyscho sexual connection that we all have, that determines what we are attracted to.It isn't simply a matter of being attracted to the opposite sex, but further than that. While most people have had a variety of experiences, we all do have that perfect type. Mine is a professional woman in her thirties or fourties, who is short, slight, and dressy, who wears business attire or skirts, etc. I am still attracted to women in somewhat of an authority position- teachers, nurses, police women, etc.
All people play games of some type, the difference is the type of games. Women under 21, they know that they are desireable, because of their age. Even if they are homely, men will always be at their beck and call. They want to play the field and find the perfect men- a boyfriend who will spoil them and take care of them, while keeping a male friend who they lead on, to provide a shoulder to cry on. They lead men on this way. Women who are lets say 21 to 30, they are more stable. They are willing to find one man who is both friend and lover, but they still flirt and waste time.
Women over thirty know what they want, and are not afraid to go for it. If they want a good provider, they say that. If they want a good fuck, they say that too.
Another quality of older women is that many men their age do not appreciate them. Even if they are gorgeous, guys their age who are single generally want a younger woman.
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shyguy86uk
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Aug 20 @ 3:32PM
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Like many have said before: age is nothing but a number! In today's society why should we frown upon partners with an age gap? If they're happy, let them be happy! Everyone is entitled to their opinions and personal tastes in looking for a partner, and that is what makes us all unique. We don't all go for the same person... otherwise the whole world would be a couple of enormous gang bangs  (sorry for the crude example) 
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Craig_999
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Aug 20 @ 5:02PM
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I have to say I had the best sex ever with a woman of 40 recently - she was totally at ease the whole time and knew how to drive me mad with lust. cant ask for more than that can you!
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allforyou999
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Aug 21 @ 1:01PM
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I AT TIMES GET SOME OLDER LADIES IN THEIR 60'S. THESE LADIES MAKE LOVE MAKING FINE. They seem to be more oral and open when it comes to ahrd core love making. Some have taken me for some fantastic rides.
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sexyeyes755
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Aug 24 @ 11:37AM
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Wouldnt mind being a ~TEACHER~.mmmmmmm
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Cupidbrowser
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Aug 28 @ 7:09PM
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From my own experience, I can tell you that the men have told me they don't like to go for women their age or younger because they do play games, plus they're more often than not insecure and looking for constant compliments. I was with a man 16 years younger than I was a few years ago, and I can tell you it was the hottest and most exciting sex I'd ever had. A most memorable time occurred in my kitchen before we could even leave the house to go out, lol. Phew! Bring it on, baby.
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Daniel694u
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Aug 29 @ 6:06PM
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Im sure many men have many reasons, but as for myself its the maturity. Older woman have always turned me on. Even when I was in high school I loved dating older woman. I am not going to lie, there is always the fantasy of meeting an older woman to have her way with you....but again, for me its matuarity....Its just a different enviorment, classier and of course more seductive.....so here is to all those gorgeous older women, I LOVE YOU!!!!!!
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Chinto
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Aug 30 @ 3:54AM
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When I first divorced and got on the dating sites, younger men kept emailing me. I wouldn't have anything to do with them but they kept trying. I guess I got curious. I was 49 at the time and I was also flattered. In time I realized I relate to young guys better. Now I prefer younger guys. I think late 20's to mid 30's is the best age. I like the guys who are a little geeky but in an attractive way, guys who don't get alot of action and appreciate some time and attention from a gal who has some experience. I will make time for younger men as long as they still find me attractive!
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gentleman235
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Aug 30 @ 6:55PM
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My girlfriend is just shy of twice my age, and we've had a wonderful relationship for years. She looks twenty years younger than she is, fantastic face and body. But mostly, like a lot of other people have said, I like being with her because she doesn't play the stupid games girls my own age do...I've dated dozens of young girls in the past decade before I met her, and between them wanting to go out and get drunk (or being too religious or moral to have fun with if they don't drink), the emotional baggage of their recent exes, their dopey same-age girlfriends trying to give them advice all the time about your relationship, and so on, it's wonderful to have a real woman that knows what she wants, has gotten over the games and the childishness, and can still be silly and young and have *AMAZING* sex several times a week. (Plus, we never have to use condoms, yeeaaa buddy!) We have a very deep and fulfilling, loving relationship with a good friendship behind it and a hot, passionate chemistry between us.
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trey3110
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Aug 30 @ 7:24PM
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speaking of older women and younger men......does anyone know a good website for a younger guy to meet older women? just curious
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thegurlsman
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Sep 3 @ 1:20PM
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Older women dont play games, and dont waste time 
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bovinemistress
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Sep 3 @ 4:10PM
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I had a fabulous"relationship" with a man 19 years my junior. He was a chef I worked with. Tall, lean, blue eyes and amazing talents. The greatest vacation I ever had was when we closed the place where we worked for a week (annual vacation). We planned meals, drank wine, rented tons of movies he cooked fabulous meals, we "cooked", it snowed and we didn't leave the house for a week. This sounds silly, but one of the most sensuous things he did during that time was slooooowly shave my legs when we were in the big garden tub...wow! He had sexual knowledge of a man 3X his age!! I've never had such a wonderful sexual time in my life, before or since then. I'm so glad I experienced it, I will have something great to think about when I'm in the nursing home someday ...
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lmr67
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Sep 4 @ 7:10PM
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Well...I for one love younger men...they adore older women. They appreciate what we can offer. We dont play games...we know what we want...we are not afraid to express it. We are more comfortable with our older...not so firm bodies than most women in their 20's who have perfect bodies. As women get older they get a confidence about themselves...that is so sexy...and damn...in the bedroom...watch out!!
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guildingspirit
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Sep 4 @ 7:50PM
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Hi there,I think I do well I attract young and old ,Being a Muse it seems I attract all. I do however if dating younger men that they are secure and ready to cater to a real woman. Have their lifes order. Between the two I think both ageless and young are one of the same. I dont waste my time with younger men that can't spoil and pamper me. Or older for that matters, guildingspirit
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grizzle
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Sep 6 @ 12:51PM
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we love it because its straight up no bullshit. both know what they want. guys want that no games sex. its incredible.
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hard4u20
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Sep 10 @ 1:32AM
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I'll date women that are younger or older than me, but there is something I really like about older women. To be honest, I don't even know what it is myself. Right now I'm dating a 35 year old and I'm 22. I also tend to be very attracted to mothers. I find myself hitting on moms more than women without children. It's quite odd. I'm dating this 35 year old, yet on some level I'm kind of embarrassed to bring her around my friends. I brought her to a friends party for the first time last night and we have been dating for just over three months. I'm certainly no help in helping you find the answer to your question, but I just figured I'd throw in my two cents.
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Craig_999
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Sep 12 @ 2:11PM
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never mind all that.... will an older woman please come and play with me!!!
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Friendinneed56M
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Sep 16 @ 8:04AM
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I can only speak of my experiences with 2 older women when I wa in my early 20's..For one they sure did not pull any punches...They stated exactly what they wanted and made sure it was very clear..I did enjoy being with them both but always felt uncomfortable being in public with them because each was more than 20 years older than me..Other than that it was a very memorable experience..
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shaggyboy
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Sep 16 @ 6:27PM
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This is one of the few topics that I know a little bit about. Here's my personal experience---take from it what you will. I am married to a woman fourteen years older than me. I was 25 when we married; she was 39.
I'd never been interested in younger women, as I felt they had very little to talk about and often had a lot of hang-ups while they got to know themselves. Older women were more interesting and comfortable in their own skins (and, yes, there is definitely something to be said for more sexual experience too).
Nevertheless, I dated younger women because that is what society expects you to do as a young man. I did all the things that most 20-somethings do---had tons of one-night stands with lots of giggly young women I met at parties, bars and nightclubs. Some of these one-night stands would develop into brief relationships, until we realized that we had nothing in common besides great sex.
So when I met my future wife and got engaged after two months, all my friends thought I was kidding around. Then they thought I was nuts because of the age difference. But she and I connected on every level. We got to know each other before it became physical. We both had diverse interests. We made each other laugh. We could sit up all night, just talking about every subject under the sun. And when we finally became physical, the sex was "oh-my-effing-god-mindblowing". I mean, five-times-a-night-fourth-of-July-fireworks-mindblowing.
So what's the downside of all this? Nine years later, I am still a young man in my early thirties, while she is almost fifty. We are increasingly finding that we want different things out of life. She has become brutally practical and domestic---only interested in constantly decorating the house. She never even wants to go out to dinner or a movie, never mind travel or enjoy new experiences. Our sex life has become non-existent (like, perhaps once every couple of months), and even then it is dull and routine, as she doesn't want to do it anywhere but in the bedroom and in the same position every time. Having been a wild woman in her younger years, she is now quite happy to live a dull life, going to bed at 8pm every night. That's fine, and I don't blame her for any of that, but I'm still young and I'm not ready for that kind of life yet. There is still more I want to do, places I want to see, experiences I want to have. I think I'll go completely stir crazy if this is all there is for the rest of my life.
I still love her dearly and couldn't imagine being without her, but my point is that there is more to an age difference relationship than just the sex. One day, the sex won't be as great as it was when you first met, and you'll be forced to deal with the age difference.
As for my story, I've tried talking to my wife and telling her how lonely I am, but she doesn't see a problem as long as the mortgage is paid and the kitchen tiles are shiny clean. She often makes makes remarks that I should "find a younger model" rather than pester her for sex (like, once every two months is such a chore). I recently got to a point where I couldn't take it any more and had an affair with an old friend who is closer to my age and is also in a virtually celibate marriage. I'm pretty sure my wife knows about it, but she told me that what she doesn't know can't hurt her.
I know what you might thinking.... "How would you feel if she'd gone out and had an affair?" I've thought about that, and you know something? I really wish she would. At least it would show me that she is still alive and still has needs.
Maybe my story isn't typical, but I thought I should share it for the sake of any guy who thinks that a long-term relationship with a Mrs. Robinson will always be sexual dynamite. And also as a warning to older women that younger men are often volatile and may not still want the same things after ten years.
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Aukwah
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Sep 16 @ 7:11PM
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I'm not to particularly interested in the whole "older women" thing. Good sex is good sex. Some people are naturals..eh hem..and some just take years of experience of getting it. Just. Right. So no matter what turns you on, if you find yourself with an older women, COOL! Just do what you normally do unless they ask otherwise. That might be where the fixation comes in.
Warmest regards everybody,
Mike
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SSlant
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Sep 20 @ 1:48PM
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Well, it not just that older women are more experienced and can teach us things...Maybe it is a little...but the reason for me is...Maturity level...younger woman seem to be to possessive...I hate jealous women...I wish they were more mature, but they are not , in general. So older women it is for me!!!
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Jonaz5000
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Sep 24 @ 12:00PM
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love is love, no matter the shape size age, if you truly love someone so be it.
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NatureLover4Life
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Sep 24 @ 7:09PM
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I figured I should comment on this because it happens to be a big goal of mine. Well first and foremost I need to say I really don't know why I have an attraction to older women. I think it is a mix of things. Girls my age when i see them around they are wasted drunk or acting more immature than i think they should. Don't get me wrong theres no problem in having drinks but many girls my age tend to over do it, and most of the time. Also, something about the sexiness many (and for sure most on here  ) older women have that has a different attractiveness to it than a younger girls. Sure younger girls have tight bodies and all that but when it comes to the bedroom I feel like I could have a better and more fun experience with an older woman. Maybe part of it is how i carry myself as well. When talking to girls they tend to tell me I have a rediculous vocabulary and am well spoken. I guess sometimes I'd like to sit down and have an in depth conversation about anything with someone who has worldly experience and who I can gain insight from. That's just how I feel. Can't go wrong with an aged body though and thats for damn sure 
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Elysium756
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Sep 24 @ 9:03PM
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Older women know what they want and how to get it, and I LOVE that about them.
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Hot_Chick_1963
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Sep 24 @ 9:03PM
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ok here goes WOMAN SexySteven has it right. the younger men have an appeal for older woman cus they are under the impression we know more cus we have learnt more through the course of our lives. And yes some of us have a very very high sex drive sometimes seems like we can't get enough. And again we are stable we know what we want and we are not out here to play games. so that makes these younger men want us more. cus the younger girl's from what im told can't fuck right don't want to try new thing's and all they think about is themselves and money. and they are not very creative in the bed. im not saying that all younger woman are like that, but i hear plenty. so SexySteve nice to see that u have kept up with the greatest gossip of all about us older woman. ive heard plenty from the younger male generation and im surprised by what i hear.
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cubsfan112
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Sep 26 @ 8:43AM
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basically if there are any older women intrested just hit me up b/c i love older women. just hope u r in the chicsgo area.
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Ram_Roder
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Sep 26 @ 10:17PM
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I also would like to talk to some older women. I am in Ontario and love older women because they have the expeirence, they can teach, they have beautifully developed bodies and they look so damn sexy!
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shaggyboy
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Sep 30 @ 2:11PM
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Like I said earlier, I've always been more attracted to older women than to young barbie dolls. They are more confident and at ease with themselves, know what they want and like, and have left their hang-ups in the past. Most young women I've known cannot hold a good conversation and are still figuring out who they are sexually. The women I've chatted with online in their early twenties are generally boring. Their sense of humor is too literal; they are over analytical and I find I have to simplify my vocabulary for them. On the other hand, I've met loads of older women online who I can chat to for hours on end about everything, and they are less likely to take offense or misinterpret things, plus they have more experiences to talk about.
Even as a younger man, I tended to date women older than me (even if it was only a couple of years). Eventually, I married a much older woman. But as I said in my earlier post, the age difference does eventually creep up on you when you live together for a long time. The young man/older woman thing is great for a short while... It can make for an amazing sex life and a stimulating mental affair. But I have doubts about the long-term viability of such relationships (the same is true of the old man/younger woman thing, although Hugh Heffner doesn't seem to mind).
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wakefan3
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Oct 4 @ 6:28PM
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wow
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gr8_lvrs
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Oct 4 @ 10:32PM
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all of the comments on this subject are true and i do agree with most of it and alot of older women are attractive but what i dont think is right is to down play younger women.. im 22 married and i have a little boy... and im very mature for my age . i know what i want and wont stop at anything to get it.. sexually or in any other form. i can carry on a conversation. i also take care of my man sexually and in every other way i do all the work around the house cooking cleaning laundry plus being a mom and i work 2 full time jobs on top of that.. so you shouldnt underestimate younger girls.. granted some are dumb barbie doll types.. but you can also find that in older women to depending upon people want to present themselves to the general public or to there lovers they can change.. personailitys they can look smart sweet and sexy in front of a group of people but when its just you and her she can be a living nightmare.. i have a guy frined thats dating an older women right now.. and i really dont care as long as there happy wheather its with some one younger or older.. thats all that should matter
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narcangel9
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Oct 5 @ 3:42PM
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For me, an older woman's experience goes a long way in making sex much more enjoyable. They have an intuition what what feels good and how to make it feel good that younger girls dont have.
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passion808
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Oct 6 @ 5:03PM
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Zena,
by the way, you are much too young for me
It is a sexual thing. The advantage is that older women are more able to experience the moment , and not their desire.
Younger women have more expectations about how it should be, how they define theirselves as a sexual being and how their (sexual) partner should be. The consequence is that men feel that they have to fulfill some kind of role. Older women are more focussed on the moment.
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vv_lite
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Oct 8 @ 8:39PM
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Probably experience. I was involved with a woman who was 12 years younger than me and it was just an outright sexual disaster. She was a singer and all the relationships she was involved in were musicians. Kinda told me something about the adage that "musicians make better lovers" just ain't quite true. Anywho I tried everything to see what would excite her. She just wanted to lay there and get off. That was her whole idea of it.
I met another who was 10 years younger than me. Strike 2 on that one too.
Ive had better experiences sexually with woman that are closer to my age.
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huyguy
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Oct 14 @ 4:02AM
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im not that young......34. I love older women because they like to have fun. They usually like to get out of the house. Forget the pregnancy thing, its all about NO GAMES!!! I find with older ladies, you can just enjoy eachothers company. I love older women!! no bullshit, just tell it how it is.
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atllady1958
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Oct 15 @ 8:49AM
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ya'll say that older women are more confident and know what they want, etc etc - and I think that while that is true if an oder woman truly was more confident and such they would have more self esteem to date someone 20 year younger. I see nothing attractive at all in older women with younger men, it is a sign of immaturity on the womens part and looking to recapture her youth or whatever. But hey, whatever floats ya'alls boat, I just have too many choices with men my age
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doc1785
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Oct 16 @ 12:40PM
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why not have the best of both??? after a night out at the bars i was able to talk the girl i was currently with (early 20s) to have a crazy night with a woman i was with before (late 40s). that was by far the best... older woman and younger at the same time.
i do however still look for older woman... interested???
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zena343
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Oct 16 @ 2:12PM
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Well doc, that all depends.........are ya willing to travel,
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Pcolalady52
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Oct 25 @ 8:56AM
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I tend to be attracted to younger guys. One thing I have found is that guys my age or older are looking for someone to sit home with them! I don't want to listen to their list of aches, pains, upcoming surgeries, etc. I am finally at a point in my life when I don't have to worry about kids or the like, so I want to get out there and enjoy life and have some fun! I was very young when I had my kids, so when everyone my age was out having fun, I was changing diapers. Now it is my time. I find that younger guys are more willing to please and willing to learn.
Now I do have my limits, I am not going to go out with someone in their 20s or even the early 30s. There has to be a sense of maturity there. I like to know there is some common ground so there are things to talk about too.
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bigtrouble1
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Oct 25 @ 1:14PM
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I have a lady friend from this sight that is 48. she is a fire ball .... we have sex once twice a week ..... she knows she can open up have me do things her husband or any other man thus far would do, or could do .... Its a give and take ... we are good for eachother ....I'm in Iraq currently having sex with a 53 yr old Officer .... once again she had not had sex in awhile and a fit fire ball as well .... I think older women like younger men cause it makes them think they stiil got it at there ages ... (and most do ) plus the stamina factor ..... younger men like older for the no drama , not high maintenance, what we say we will do sex , pluse older woman don't have time nor the temper for bullshit .... works for me ..... so say there robbing the craddle, some say I'm taking advantage of an older woman ..... I don't see numbers .... I see sexy woman that in the end really know how to fuck
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EXPERTATORAL
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Oct 26 @ 4:29PM
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Here's what gets me about older women and younger men--Not all of us men in our late 40's and early 50's have reached and passed our sexual peak.Some of us might be overweight and not have the body we once had in our early years but nevertheless we still enjoy pleasurable and exciting sex.I would much rather have a woman my own age in bed simply for the reason that she has years of sexual experience and knows what she likes and dislikes plus doesn't need to be taught anything.So you older women give us older men a chance to show our sexual prowess instead of shutting us out for younger men................
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thebiggerthebetter
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Oct 28 @ 10:39AM
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I love older women, they rock.  Of course younger women are nice too.
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jdtallfem
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Oct 31 @ 7:33PM
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Well I've dated younger men a lot and sometimes it's the games the younger men play on older women, lol! Or they don't believe you when you want to end it (I had one pup text message me for a year, because he couldn't believe it). And it's hard to find ones that know what a long term relationship really is. But, still, lots of fun.
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lancelondon
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Nov 4 @ 8:53AM
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People are covering it. Men crave warmth and tenderness. Older women are more able to give of themselves. They are more mature. They know who and what they are. Older women know what they need and want and are far more likely to let their partner know. They tend to be ready for real relationships.
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bugsy77
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Nov 6 @ 9:45AM
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I love older women just seem to be in the wrong country. Should be in America where all you lovely women are. There doesnt seem to be any women in UK interested. Any of you ladies visiting London?
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nobbles
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Nov 6 @ 2:56PM
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Women to me are like fine wines, ther deffinitely get better with age. Older women I have dated, seem more in tune with thier spirituality and bodies. Not that I'm nocking younger women at at all, I just seem to have developed a preference to older women at a young age.
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cowboy919
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Nov 12 @ 3:07PM
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i love older women. why ? good question ! really not sure. they are sexy, mature. most of the older women i've met don't play those mind games like some younger ones have. that maybe a reason. i love sex and if that women young or older then me turns me on ... then it's all good !
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catman1511
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Nov 15 @ 3:57PM
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that is a good question, I wonder if there are any younger women who like older and experienced men? I would think they are tired of the self-centered younger studs who just cum and go.
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JacksSocialAnxiety
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Nov 20 @ 5:56AM
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Simply put: younger men fantasize that older women are more open-minded and sexually forward than younger women. Younger men tend to be more horny than older men, and are thus seeking satisfaction where they think they may actually get it.
That being said, I am indeed a younger man and am indeed in search of an older, lustful woman because it's in my nature to fantasize that one exists who will appreciate my appetite for all things sex.
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Adobe_Wan
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Nov 21 @ 4:45PM
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as someoen that is 22, i have a very high sex drive, and most girls my age within 5 years give or take, are very... not sexual, so to say, they dont have a very big apatite for the new and often.
Older, more mature women have tried almost everything already, or are willing to, as well as having a strong desire to have sex often.
also, it is true that males are ready to settle down with a single partner more than a woman is in this day and age. as well as the fact that the sex is great.
i have had intimate encounters and relationships with young and older women, i have had as young as 17 (legal in florida if your under 26) and as old as 63. older women just apeal to me more.
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robbydogg2
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Nov 21 @ 7:44PM
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older woman are more mature,they know when to have fun,and they know when to be serious,like talking.
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Aquarius2
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Nov 22 @ 2:04AM
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I cant speak for other men who love older women but as for me, I’ve always been attracted to older women from the time I was 18 and seduced by my girlfriend’s mother and later, her grandmother. It was my first intro to wonderful sex and they taught me the finer art of sex and loving. I later married a lady who was 18 years my senior and I began to appreciate the finer aspects of an older woman’s personality, character and mind and I haven’t looked back. Sadly I lost her through cancer after 12 years of a wonderful relationship. My second wife was 15 years older and I lost her too after 14 years together. In between my LTRs I had a few affairs with younger women but it was never as sexually, emotionally and mentally gratifying as with an older woman. I’m now in a relationship with a hot and horny 75 year old lady who is also a magnificent lover and wonderful companion and I’m loving it. Its not that younger women don’t attract me – it’s just that older women seem to appreciate good sex (and want it more often), loving and caring more than a younger woman. SexySteven247 is perfectly right.
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