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5 Powerful Reasons Why Single Women Cannot Find Their Mr Right

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You are looking for the perfect man

Do you have a tall list of qualifications men must meet before you give a few minutes of your time? Do you find yourself not even willing to settle for anything less than a perfect guy. That is "Perfect" according to your own definition or perfection. Do you have a list of qualifications your men must meet that looks something like the following:

• He must be tall, dark and handsome.

• He must have an athletic build.

• He must own his own home.

• He must have a fabulous job or own a profitable business.

• He must have a fat bank account.

• He must have a luxurious automobile. The more expensive the better.

• He must be romantic, affectionate and generous.

• He must live in the right part of town.

• He must have the right pedigree. He must come from the right family.

• He must have the right level of education.

• He must wear the right kind of clothes.

• He must speak a certain way.

• He must have certain kinds of friends.

• He must come from a certain ethnicity and belong to particular religious group.

• He must have a certain hair color or eye color.

And the list goes on and on and on. If this remotely sounds like you, then you must first take a look at yourself in the mirror and tell the world how many of these criteria you meet. If you are objective, your answer will be just a few, if you are close to perfect.


You may be overlooking the dusty knight under your nose

The truth is, you may already have already found your knight in shinning armor. He could be the gentleman that is always asking you out that you have not wasting your time calling. How many of these knights have come into your life since you have been dating? If you are serious about meeting a nice guy, then you have to start being realistic and give mere mortals a break and some time to see if you are a fit.

You judge men by what they do and not who they are

There is nothing wrong in setting certain basic standards for the kind of man you want to be romantically involved with. It becomes problematic when your expectations are so high that it almost takes a perfect man to satisfy your standards. And you and I know that there are no perfect human beings anywhere, including your precious self. Be realistic. A man may not have the ideal profession, or live in the best part of town and drive the biggest SUV, but he may be very romantic and have a heart of gold. The qualities he possesses cannot be bought in the open market, and they are often what will make you happy at the end of the day.

You look for good men at meat markets

I am not saying that it is impossible to find good men at night clubs and bars. The truth is that men go to night clubs and bars to find women they can pick up quickly and take to bed. Leave the meat markets alone and trying hanging out at bookstore cafes, go to seminars, attend cultural events. Go to those places where you will find people who have the same interests you have because it is much easier to relate to those kinds of people than those who have interests that are different from yours.

You are shy about trying online dating

Online dating is the only medium now that really lets you tell the world a little bit about yourself, as well as the kind of mate or date you are looking for. It can really help you narrow your search very fast, because it puts the controls in hands. You can screen the people that have contacted you and choose who you want to send a reply to. And for those that are very selective, online dating is the solution to your search for someone that is compatible with you. In fact, online dating services now have gone a step further - they can even find your perfect match for you if you want them to. Give it a try and expand your horizon. You will have a variety of men to choose from that could possibly be your Mr. Right.

When you finally meet someone nice, give him a chance. He just might be your Mr. Right. If, on the other hand, the one you are with now is a decent guy who has given you his heart and has demonstrated love, relax a little and let your guard down. You may just discover that you have had Mr. Right all along.

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