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posted 7/25/2008 2:27:42 PM |
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For the most part I am usually an upbeat, happy person. I firmly believe that life is too short and should be enjoyed while we have the chance to do so.. I try really hard not to let the small things get to me and waste precious time worrying about them. I'm extrememly optimistic and can usually find a silver lining in just about anything.

I love being around people...well, most people . I like talking and laughing with friends and loved ones. I believe in the saying that laughter is good for the soul and is contagious. It's kind of like a natural feel good drug.

But today......today sucks!! And for no particular reason. YES, I know it could be so much worse, or something seriously wrong. Thank goodness it's not...Actually my life is really good. And I hate pity parties, I'm not sure if that's what this is.. but..did you ever have one of those days where you're just not sure you really even like people? You don't want to be around them..but at the same time you don't want to be alone. You want someone there, while you're alone. Someone who won't talk, won't move and won't touch you...unless of course you want them to and then it may still be the wrong thing to do. But you don't want them to just sit there and do nothing either...
One of those days where you just can't seem to motivate or find a reason to..but it's driving you nuts that you're not getting anything done?

Like I said, today sucks!! And I hate that it does. That makes it a wasted day, and there aren't enough days in life to have any of them wasted. And I'm mad at myself for wasting this one.
I'm determined to shake this mood really soon...and I know I will...but in the meantime, does anyone know what momentary insanity feels like?
I'm kidding.....I think.....

What do you do when you have a really sucky day for no reason?
Come on people, give me ideas to help me cheer up and just be my normal ( as Dayna says irritatingly cheerful ) self........

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NightOfOld

Jul 25 @ 2:55PM  

Do not take life too seriously. You will never get out of it alive.


1bunny629

Jul 25 @ 3:01PM  
Aren't you in love? That in itself out to make you grateful...we are all here cause we can't find the one...call him, send him flowers, do something for someone less fortunate. It will take your mind off this bad day!
bandengor

Jul 25 @ 3:14PM  
What do you do when you have a really sucky day for no reason?

I think about moving out to the woods somewhere, an escapism from all the troubles and toils of the world, build a simple log cabin, get back to basics sort of thing.


If that doesn't work I just think a big juicy Prime Rib.
theSkwirl

Jul 25 @ 3:20PM  
I'm an anti social bitch myself sometimes.. just don't wanna deal with anyone else' crap some days. My own crap is even sometimes more than I wanna deal with.

Bathtub helps.. and a trashy romance novel.. and cocoa.. and a nap. Then it's a new day and you can think it through in other terms.

Otherwise? Enjoy your mope.. I'd say it's bloody well your turn!
casuallylooking

Jul 25 @ 3:25PM  
Murphy, I am Very grateful for the love that I have found....And like I said my life is really good..and I don't know why this mood has hold of me.. I have a wonderful man that loves me, beautiful grandchildren, the most extraordinary daughter and s-i-l, and friends that God must have hand picked himself.... I couldn't ask for more, But...


Ironically I sent flowers anonymously to someone today that I know is having a rough time and missing someone right now..Got the idea from Band in the forums ealier..and I know that she is smiling by now, but it's not helping.
rescueremedy

Jul 25 @ 4:35PM  
ice cream ..... a few good friends or by yourself .... lots of chocolate ....whipped cream ....yummy carmel .....a good movie to cry at like the notebook .... some more junk food . ...and know that tomorrow you are going to feel like shit thinking about all the calories you ate .....Just trying to help of course ....Thinking of you ....J
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Jul 25 @ 5:13PM  
You want someone there, while you're alone. Someone who won't talk, won't move and won't touch you...unless of course you want them to and then it may still be the wrong thing to do. But you don't want them to just sit there and do nothing either...

I played that role Wednesday night. You sort of assume the role of the family dog. But as far as feeling that way myself, never.
Sunshine79

Jul 25 @ 5:40PM  
I hate days like that.....no reason, just dad days......
LilGriz

Jul 25 @ 7:01PM  
momentary insanity feels like

I might, since you keep telling me I'm warped and too nuts for them to take me away, Haha, Hoho, Hehe.

Hope you're doing better
StraddleMyNose

Jul 25 @ 7:49PM  
I try to find things that I love to do and forget about the shitty day I was having...
alybai42

Jul 25 @ 10:40PM  
I seem to have those day's everyday lately..What is worse is having to go to work like that and work with the public and act like you are happy..
onehornytoad69

Jul 26 @ 12:07AM  
Aren't you in love?
think on Good things(like the handicap showers.. )... and If that dont work....
I'd get a bottle of wine and take a long Hot bath with candles and music!!!
And Relax!!!
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