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posted 7/22/2008 10:05:54 AM |
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I met someone thru a Lady I was dating last year, that was a Honest true friend to all that called her friend!! She was the kind of friend that most ppl will never know!!
She was 38 Years Old....and full of Life!
A group of us went kayaking/canoeing together several times, she was always the Life of the Trip!!...OMG we had a Ball,Everytime!!! This was just a year ago...She was so full of Life!!!

She had Cancer in the "Cervix" area a few years before..and after surgery the doctors were sure they got it all!!!
So she went on with life.....only to find out early this year that the cancer was back..and it was all over her body, way to far gone for surgery and or Treatment!
She went from Wide the Hell Open to being bed ridden in a few short weeks!
She went down hill in a Hurry,to say the Least!!!
Today I learned from the Lady I was dating that she has Passed Away...!
It saddens my heart..and yet it kinda wakes me up!
Looking back.... just one Year ago...I would have never thought that a Body could go down so fast!!!
We take Life/Friends/Health for granted!! We sweat the small shit, we worry way to much....and Love way to Lil, we take far to Few chances!
With her passing away, Leaving a son, step-son, a X hubby that adored her...and a Shit load of friends, I Vow to her.... I'm gonna Live a Better Life..meaning.. Enjoying it to the fullest!!! I'm gonna Take a few more risk,chances and Be grateful for the friends I have, and Let them Know I am a Friend!!
To those here that I call my Friend...Thx for being my friend!!
I'm here for you!!!
To the friends I dont know yet....Hello... how are you?!
May God Wake us up, and let us Live!!!!!!

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casuallylooking

Jul 22 @ 10:19AM  
Alex, I am so sorry about your friend. I know it may not help at all but remember her laughter, that is who she was and will always remain.

Yes, life is way too short. I've always known that, I just seemed to forget to for a while. One day it hit me again and I decided I am going to live until I die..Those may sound like mere words, but I meant them. I take more risks at life and enjoying it now..I push my limits....and.I don't let the small stuff get me down wasting precious time that I can't ever get back.
Life is a gift given to us to live and enjoy...not just watch go by. Sounds like your friend knew that and shared it those she met.

A kudo for the blog and a warm hug for you.......
themama

Jul 22 @ 10:28AM  
Hugs Alex...
onehornytoad69

Jul 22 @ 11:04AM  
Thx CL and Mama!!
I'm having tears of Joy..in her Memory!
thx again!! Alex
rescueremedy

Jul 22 @ 11:15AM  
I had the same wake -up call .... I lost my father to cancer last June .... after i grieved . I decided the same thing ...to live and enjoy life . I heard the song by Tim McGraw ....Live Like You Were Dying ....That was like a sign for me . I quit a job where i was just a number and found a job in a small machine shop where you are family . Started dating again and found someone i really care about . This past weekend met some wonderful people ..... That i would be proud to call friends Have fun ....make great memories ....Sorry ,to hear about your friend ... Take care , J
bandengor

Jul 22 @ 12:23PM  
Sorry to hear about your friend. Sadly it's a story that's all to common. I think just about everybody knows somebody who has/had cancer. I'm with you, life is short.
NightOfOld

Jul 22 @ 1:23PM  

Alex I am sorry about your friend I have had a few loved ones go from Cancer too.
It is very true and all to real story that many of us can relate too, and hopefully
draw from.
My niece who was only 29 and had Pancreatic cancer only lasted 6 months
from the time they discovered it. She was a single mom with a 4 year old son.
As I held her hand on her death bed, she looked up at me with a smile on her face and said; { uncle Chuck I love you } those were the last words she spoke. She was gone withing two minutes.

Life is FAR to short. I hope all who read your blog get something out of it.

Kudo for your blog Alex.
Ewe_Wish

Jul 22 @ 1:38PM  
Alex, I think I know how you must be feeling right about now.......I lost my very best friend in April (who i just happened to be married to) G and I didnt have a conventional marriage.........but I know that he was my best friend and i know that I was his.........and a day doesnt go by that I dont think of him often tho the tears dont come as often........unless we happen to come across pictures or home movies with him in it.............the way i get thru it........is i no longer mourne his passing I spend my time grateful for the time I had with him..........G told me one time that love doesnt stop when someone passes away.........that love will always be in your heart and that nothing and no one can ever take the place of that person.....although you move on and carry on with life.......and meet knew ppl and love them just as strong.........there will always be a part of the heart that no one can take there place.......just as there will be a part in your heart for the new people in your life to take..........please know your in my thoughts and prayers....
ABrownEyedScorpio

Jul 22 @ 2:04PM  
Losing my folks 2 years 1 month apart - with 2 grandma's in between - left me in pretty rough shape. I, too, heard and identified with Tim McGraw's tribute to his dad and left my unhappy marriage, met a wonderful man and had our first child. I'd rather do everything happy than anything miserable.

Great blog!
luscious_bbwpa

Jul 22 @ 9:56PM  


I'm very sorry to hear of your friend...my prayers and thoughts are with you and her family..

Peace of christ be with you,
Brenda

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