I dunno what's worse. Being alone or being with someone who doesn't pay attention to you. I know I'm stuck with the latter and I'm damn miserable.
It's like I'm alone anyway. I mean, fuck it's the same story day in and day out.
It's 6:30pm and he's in bed. I'm bored out of my fucking tree. And every time I ask
for sex I get yelled at. What am I sposed to do? I gotta say....at this point. I rather be alone, than be together with someone and miserable. And I know the obvious answer to this is to leave.....but I can't and that's that. So, I should just suck it up now and quit whining. Uggghhh!!!
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StraddleMyNose
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Jul 19 @ 6:58PM
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I'll fly down on my jet tonight..... 
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clickedanad2
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Jul 19 @ 7:02PM
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what's worse?
being "stuck"
alone is always better than "stuck"
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DangerousCurves999
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Jul 19 @ 7:03PM
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If he won't put out tell him if you need to get yourself a "cabana boy"
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DangerousCurves999
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Jul 19 @ 7:04PM
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Oh I forgot the sympathy case of new batteries. I've been in this situation before so I can relate totally.
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Sunshine79
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Jul 19 @ 7:08PM
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I'll fly down on my jet tonight.....
You got your own jet?? 
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BigFlirt
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Jul 19 @ 7:10PM
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I will be your cabana boy....
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missweet
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Jul 19 @ 7:13PM
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that sucks!!!!! Being alone is much better!!!
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Sunshine79
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Jul 19 @ 7:19PM
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I will be your cabana boy....
Was just going to ask where to get a cabana boy on short notice! 
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Detach
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Jul 19 @ 7:20PM
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I had to deal with that same situation. It wasn't that my exes ignored me. But they were either too into themselves, too much in a hurry to start a family, or way too jealous.
Now that I'm alone, I'm not happy, but I am definitely less miserable. I'm just so glad I didn't make a mistake and marry one of them. 
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dumblonde
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Jul 19 @ 7:30PM
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being alone is much better than being in an unhappy relationship...if he wont have sex with you, does he at least let you seek it elsewhere?
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Supakid2
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Jul 19 @ 7:33PM
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You shouldn't have to ask for sex .... I guess some men are hornier than others....................................................  
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lunanegra
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Jul 19 @ 7:43PM
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This is odd,I never heard of a man turning down sex.If I were a dude,I wouldn't act that way,I'd be happier than R. Kelly at a Brownie Scout jamboree.
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Supakid2
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Jul 19 @ 7:49PM
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Actually I have turned down sex before .... from being drained and soar from the night before  
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Scottishtease
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Jul 19 @ 7:51PM
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Hey sunshine, you can always borrow my suggestion from Curves blog chuckle..
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clickedanad2
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Jul 19 @ 7:54PM
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if you can have it whenever you want it
you stop wanting it
there's no challenge - no "conquest"
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rnj1013
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Jul 19 @ 8:14PM
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being alone is always better than being miserable with someone else
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samclaunts
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Jul 19 @ 8:33PM
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ABrownEyedScorpio
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Jul 19 @ 9:46PM
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alone and  vs.       
I'll stick with the former, tyvm.
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40DWM
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Jul 19 @ 11:54PM
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Whoe now....little filly.....
Guys can say 'no'..????
your shittin me !
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alybai42
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Jul 20 @ 12:10AM
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I would rather be alone than unhappy..
That is why I am alone..Going without sex don't bother me.
Finding someone who makes me happy and I do the same for him would bring me more joy.
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onehornytoad69
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Jul 20 @ 1:12AM
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He maybe Dead!!! ???
Thats the only thing I can think of, besides having sumfin on the side? Just saying..
This Man ( meaning Me) was Married for 24 years to Same woman...and I tried to get sum Every Nite!!!
So Im ova sexed,... shoot me!! But I cant dream of a Guy Turning down Making Love to his Lady!!! 
My 2 Cents!
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1bunny629
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Jul 20 @ 1:21AM
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I did the lonely with someone once, and I will never do it again. It could have been cut short and not wasted anyones time(LIFE), if they would just open up and say wtf is goin on...so now my motto is "I WPOLD RATHER BE LONELY...ALONE...THAN LONELY WITH SOMEONE", and I promise it will never happen again...this is your life...it is not a fucking dress rehearsal! I just got laid by putting an ad on craigslist...had 40 offers...took the cutest one, and hey...he had a big cock...and fucked the shit out of me! wooohoooo...get a life! Sunshine you deserve better, but knowone is going to give it to you,,,ya have to take it! Bunny is Murphey...and I ain't fuckin around... 
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shyone_4u699
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Jul 20 @ 3:11AM
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Been to that same dance, SunShine. I will never again be in that situation, not for long anyway. I've lived alone for six years so I do feel your pain. I'm not one to offer advice. Nobody knows for sure what they would do until they're in your situation.
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southerngent64
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Jul 20 @ 7:05AM
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Straddle, pick me up on your way! My jet is grounded for two weeks for maintenance.
Luna, hilarious! I would hope R Kelly is smart enough not to video his antics this time!
Seriously, though. Being alone is better than being in a relationship that doesn't work for you.
There must be something going on with your guy,either physically or emotionally, to not want to have sex with you. Have you talked to him about it? Why is he in bed at 6:30?
Frankly, Sunshine, I'd be a walking boner if you were in my house!
My comments apply to all of the ladies who empathized with your blog. I fail to understand why a guy would ignore any of y'all.
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South_Of_Main
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Jul 25 @ 11:35PM
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Damn.. did you hook up with my ex? Me personally, I would much rather be alone than to suffer being with some ass that a)doesn't care b) doesn't pay attention c)and quite frankly bores me to death.
Get your life back Sunshine!
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